Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #3

I think the cast & families should stay off message boards and comments from articles. Only reading fan threads might give them a skewed viewpoint and the rest can be brutal, especially comments.

I don't see an Andi 2 happening. She doesn't seem to be a favorite of theirs and it's not like she's a sympathetic character. I could see a Josh season way before another Andi. All I can say is spare us.

GuardianAngel wrote:I know we have had family/friends that come here and stay strictly in the Fan Threads. This is another reason why we are so adamant in keeping the Fan Threads, just that.

I would hope if contestants read this forum, they can get inspiration from the Fan Threads.

Yes, I agree. That said, I can see albean's point about that being too skewed. Thankfully, I'll never need to worry about this. I'd tie a relative/friend up before I'd let them go on this show. Though, I do confess to once trying to talk umngirl into signing up...but that was a LONG time ago. So sorry, umn!

Litta123 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I know we have had family/friends that come here and stay strictly in the Fan Threads. This is another reason why we are so adamant in keeping the Fan Threads, just that.

I would hope if contestants read this forum, they can get inspiration from the Fan Threads.

Yes, I agree. That said, I can see albean's point about that being too skewed. Thankfully, I'll never need to worry about this. I'd tie a relative/friend up before I'd let them go on this show. Though, I do confess to once trying to talk umngirl into signing up...but that was a LONG time ago. So sorry, umn!

I beat it was for Sean's season. I agree, the show does more harm than good.

Litta123 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I know we have had family/friends that come here and stay strictly in the Fan Threads. This is another reason why we are so adamant in keeping the Fan Threads, just that.

I would hope if contestants read this forum, they can get inspiration from the Fan Threads.

Yes, I agree. That said, I can see albean's point about that being too skewed. Thankfully, I'll never need to worry about this. I'd tie a relative/friend up before I'd let them go on this show. Though, I do confess to once trying to talk umngirl into signing up...but that was a LONG time ago. So sorry, umn!

Lol. All is forgiven. At least now I would be old enough to be on the show.

I was browsing Jillian Harris' website and a post about her breakup with Ed came up. Here is an interesting paragraph that I think probably also pertains to Andi and Josh

For us (as with many breakups I’m sure) there were many reasons why it didn’t work. We spent every waking moment with each other for a year, and as much fun as we had, after a year we were both pretty overwhelmed and “over” the whole situation. We didn’t have any breathing room in the relationship, which is really important. Overall though, I would say that the experience of being engaged so quickly and publicly was the biggest factor in our breakup. People say we couldn’t actually have been in love, and I don’t think that was the case– our hearts were in love but we didn’t give ourselves enough time to ease into the relationship. So ladies and gentlemen no matter how crazy you are about someone take your damn time!


http://www.jillianharris.com/ask-jillian-love-lessons-learned-ed/

nd4reality wrote:It is entirely possible that they had not decided on a break up at that point but were having major issues.
Probably had a huge fight just prior which accounts for Josh being stiff and uncomfortable and Andi forcing things.

IMO if they had decided to split prior then they probably would not have even attended knowing that they would get the standard marriage related questions. Again JMO.

The timing of the People Magazine announcement is exactly how ABC likes to play it --- as a postscript to an upcoming season premier, thus shouldn't serve as an indicator to exactly when they decided to call it off. Nor should anything Chris Harrison says --- I mean, come on now...

If Josh told a bachelor buddy it was only a matter of time on the Sunday before the premier, then I'd say it's reasonable to conclude the relationship was over before they flew to LA. Could be they decided to throw in the towel soon after the holidays for that seems to be when all of my divorced friends called it quits. Plus, I still say it's relevant that neither one of them were dressed "Red Carpet" at the premier. JMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Sprite wrote:I for one hope to not have to listen to Andi ever again. If she couldn't fake her way to empathy for a man who had died, she sure can't fake her way to make herself look better in this mess. Yes, it takes two and Josh has said a few things while with her that show that he is not blameless, but to me, Andi showed who she really is over and over during the two seasons she was on TV...on and off camera. As for season 2 of MEandI...I can't see that happening. Josh as the Bachelor might be more of a possibility although, I can do without that toothy grin thank you very much.

Of all the possible options to resurface after letting your fans worry about you, she chooses to post a pic of herself, posing, lifting weights in the gym.

That's why her name is MeAndi.

How about updating the blog, thank everyone for their support, mention there's lots of exciting things to come on the blog, she appreciates people reading her blog, no, we need to see her pose in a forced model pose in gym wear with a personal trainer we haven't seen in months. These are just my opinions, because I clearly don't like anything she says or does. Two seasons was by far more than enough for me.

Uh yeah. ^^all of this^^.
For both Josh and MEandI:
Say goodnight, Gracie. Goodnight, Gracie.

Steel2009 wrote:Andi spotted:

http://instagram.com/p/x4Z6n6B57o/

This is her look at me I'm getting in shape to be your trophy wife picture.

My thoughts are this:
Must be nice to have a personal trainer when your unemployed
This is the same trainer that she recommended to Kim Biermann to use so maybe now she'll be all up on Kim to get her on Real Housewives and/or for Kim's husband Kroy to find her a husband from his football team the Falcons.

I'm so not surprised this was the first pic released, pathetic IMO and so predictable

Just an after thought, notice the pictures released match up exactly to how we have said the couples was all along. Josh posts a pic of him with his mom and dog, fans post a pic of him working helping others get healthy, Andis first pic is look at me working out, look how in shape I am... MeAndi to a tee

He's all about family and helping others, she's all about herself and the fame

Again, Andi didn't post that photo (and neither did Josh post the one with him and his mom). Just because she posed for it doesn't and shouldn't make her a bad person or have anything to do with her wanting fame. Josh is moving on by doing his work events, and she is moving on by working out. That trainer often takes pics similar to that one with all his clients anyway.

She's just so self absorbed!! It's always been about her. Again, I know it takes two to make a relationship work but IMO Josh could not have done enough to make her happy. Seems like she was sooo needy.

My theory is that she was in seclusion, sewing a line of dresses that feature lots of cleavage, side boob and crotch peeks. Now she has to be ready to model them when she debuts her line, so it was time to buff up the bod :cutesmile!: