Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #3

If Andi had posted anything with #Blessing ....

Yes, it might be a bit of a stretch seeing MEandI be sincere regarding that tweet. It does not seem like she frequents church/temple or other spiritual outlets, so that's it why it might be a stretch. I am not the church/temple/spiritual police, however. So, if she were to tweet "blessed" and meant it, then sincerely good for her.

She started tweeting #blessed after she met Josh. I wonder if she'll stopped it now. My pet pieve about Andi, using that hash tag and not meaning it.

ETA: Just saw your post Kasha. Especially for those reasons, that she doesn't appear to be spiritual in any other way but uses the hashtag.

I thought the happy hashtag was a little insensitive. I've never watched Duck Dynasty but even if it's from that it was a poor choice imo. No problem with blessed though. It's good that Josh is moving on and appears that he feels he's made the right choice.

Yup, definitely thought it was insensitive, Andi being an over-thinker and also quite sensitive could read too much into it despite Josh having no intention of making it hurtful

This interview, posted today but not sure when it occurred, fits into the #blessed discussion
http://www.abcactionnews.com/news/local-news/getting-to-know-bachelorette-contestant-and-winner-tampa-native-josh-murray-with-10-questions

JulySnow wrote:Yup, definitely thought it was insensitive, Andi being an over-thinker and also quite sensitive could read too much into it despite Josh having no intention of making it hurtful

Just my opinion, they are broken up and don't have to consider each other's feelings when they tweet or anything else. And again the happy was so be grateful for what you have. Of course my hubby loves dd so my mind went there right away.

notarose wrote:This interview, posted today but not sure when it occurred, fits into the #blessed discussion
http://www.abcactionnews.com/news/local-news/getting-to-know-bachelorette-contestant-and-winner-tampa-native-josh-murray-with-10-questions

Same Josh as always. It really is no wonder they didn't last. Their core values just didn't match. Did Andi ever even have a job before being a lawyer? And he would want to meet Jesus and MLK and she would want to meet Olivia Pope. Sorry they just don't match below the surface.

notarose wrote:This interview, posted today but not sure when it occurred, fits into the #blessed discussion
http://www.abcactionnews.com/news/local-news/getting-to-know-bachelorette-contestant-and-winner-tampa-native-josh-murray-with-10-questions

Thanks NR.
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stuckinsc wrote:

JulySnow wrote:Yup, definitely thought it was insensitive, Andi being an over-thinker and also quite sensitive could read too much into it despite Josh having no intention of making it hurtful

Just my opinion, they are broken up and don't have to consider each other's feelings when they tweet or anything else. And again the happy was so be grateful for what you have. Of course my hubby loves dd so my mind went there right away.

I agree with you stuck. Besides, I don't think he was even thinking of her when he tweeted that. That is how he felt at that moment, and it was obvious to me that he was very grateful for what he does have.

We don't know how long or how bad this relationship was. I know from experience when you're going through weeks months of unhappiness, once it's over, you just want to move forward. There is a sense of relief and a weight off your shoulders. It doesn't mean you wish anyone harm. His religious beliefs should not be confused with his ex relationship. That tweet to me indicated he was happy. He has chosen to find strength in his religion. If Andi is not moving forward, that's not his fault and he shouldn't have to be cautious of what he says because others might perceive it differently.

GuardianAngel wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

JulySnow wrote:Yup, definitely thought it was insensitive, Andi being an over-thinker and also quite sensitive could read too much into it despite Josh having no intention of making it hurtful

Just my opinion, they are broken up and don't have to consider each other's feelings when they tweet or anything else. And again the happy was so be grateful for what you have. Of course my hubby loves dd so my mind went there right away.

I agree with you stuck. Besides, I don't think he was even thinking of her when he tweeted that. That is how he felt at that moment, and it was obvious to me that he was very grateful for what he does have.

We don't know how long or how bad this relationship was. I know from experience when you're going through weeks months of unhappiness, once it's over, you just want to move forward. There is a sense of relief and a weight off your shoulders. It doesn't mean you wish anyone harm. His religious beliefs should not be confused with his ex relationship. That tweet to me indicated he was happy. He has chosen to find strength in his religion. If Andi is not moving forward, that's not his fault and he shouldn't have to be cautious of what he says because others might perceive it differently.

Great post GA!

I think some people read into and analyze these hashtags far too much. Josh has been consistent all along. He has always had faith and felt blessed for what he has. He's been through a lot in his life and could have lost both parents to serious illness. I don't see what is insensitive about him tweeting that he is feeling happy on a Sunday morning, probably following a church service. As far as it hurting Andi, that just seems ridiculous to me. She knows him very well and knows far better than any of us that this is is his normal disposition. I don't see her being offended at all.

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I think some people read into and analyze these hashtags far too much. Josh has been consistent all along. He has always had faith and felt blessed for what he has. He's been through a lot in his life and could have lost both parents to serious illness. I don't see what is insensitive about him tweeting that he is feeling happy on a Sunday morning, probably following a church service. As far as it hurting Andi, that just seems ridiculous to me. She knows him very well and knows far better than any of us that this is is his normal disposition. I don't see her being offended at all.

The other POV is maybe SHE is the one that takes it in an offensive manner. She's jealous that he's #happyhappyhappy and she's miserable. I have no idea if that's the case, we are speculating, but if it is the case, maybe it will help her move forward and it's just what she needed to see. Sometimes during a break up, initially, the last thing one of the parties wants to see is the other person happy.