Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #3

by Ash2214 Mon Jan 12, 2015 2:41 am

Alanna wrote:
Ash2214 wrote:^ Yeah Alanna, I think that's what she's doing. Gosh that is so depressing and yes I would think she would probably feel that way. Same with the Twitter banner because that's such an awesome picture of them. If I were a betting woman, I would bet the picture of Josh lifting her over his shoulders or the one from their first week of freedom when Lauren visited them with Andi next to Josh and she's holding Sabel and she captioned it "the family that frowns together, stays together" will be going next.
I think definitely the picture of Josh holding Andi after bowling is next and then the three of them on the sunny day in the park before the frowny face one I think. So depressing.

I personally wish Josh never said those things to her and made all those promises because while I'm sure he meant them at the time, I think he was hard into the bubble and had no clue what he was saying or what it meant.

I might be in the minority here, but just from some things I've seen, Monday night and how they're both acting post-split, I think they both knew they had trouble brewing for the past couple of months, but I actually think it was Josh that completely ended it. Andi could have been close too, but it's all just really sad. Plus, MM's words and using the word "wise" I'm not sure MM would be stating that if Andi dumped her son and it wasn't something Josh wanted. For me, it was either seriously mutual or Josh did it IMO. It seems to me Josh was done posting anything in regards to Andi on SM during December whereas Andi was still doing it and what not. I have no clue.

I don't mind that Josh said those things because I think he genuinely meant it and the same goes for Andi and the things she said to him. I think it was all genuine, they loved each other and gave it a go. I think you can love someone and want to make it work badly (which I think is obvious for them given that up until the very end they were traveling together with families, shopping, going out to dinner, etc.) but it just can't work. Difficult situation.

by edenpol Mon Jan 12, 2015 2:46 am

It will be hard for me to think that Josh ended it, after he knew that she chose him despite him being her type, and her type not working out in the past, and with all the doubts she had she still chose him. On the other hand, it is hard to me to think she is the one who broke up with him. This whole situation is hard on me.

by Diana Mon Jan 12, 2015 2:47 am

I honestly think he ended it.

by nannymargie Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:45 am

Andi's twitter and IG account went up another 1,000 no change in Josh's.

by edenpol Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:52 am

nannymargie wrote:Andi's twitter and IG account went up another 1,000 no change in Josh's.

Yeah I saw it too, I think she gained something like 3,000 followers on IG since they broke up..

by aviej Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:16 am

edenpol wrote:
nannymargie wrote:Andi's twitter and IG account went up another 1,000 no change in Josh's.
Yeah I saw it too, I think she gained something like 3,000 followers on IG since they broke up..

Well I hope they are "real" followers.

by luvlady345 Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:19 am

Why wouldn't they be real?

by edenpol Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:21 am

aviej wrote:
edenpol wrote:
nannymargie wrote:Andi's twitter and IG account went up another 1,000 no change in Josh's.
Yeah I saw it too, I think she gained something like 3,000 followers on IG since they broke up..

Well I hope they are "real" followers.

I think they are Smiley

by nannymargie Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:23 am

"Today I pray for those who need a turnaround in their job, finances, or relationships. God can make all things new."

Really like the last part of that quote that Josh's friend posted. God can make all things new. That is what we are praying that God will make this relationship new again.

by edenpol Mon Jan 12, 2015 10:21 am

nannymargie wrote:"Today I pray for those who need a turnaround in their job, finances, or relationships. God can make all things new."

Really like the last part of that quote that Josh's friend posted. God can make all things new. That is what we are praying that God will make this relationship new again.

I LOVE the way you think! :cutesmile!: So excited we have one more believer in here!

by AnandaMarie Mon Jan 12, 2015 10:38 am

edenpol wrote:
nannymargie wrote:"Today I pray for those who need a turnaround in their job, finances, or relationships. God can make all things new."

Really like the last part of that quote that Josh's friend posted. God can make all things new. That is what we are praying that God will make this relationship new again.
I LOVE the way you think! :cutesmile!: So excited we have one more believer in here!

Yes, I hope they can fix their relationship too. And yes, it is so nice to see that there are people who still believe in them.

by nannymargie Mon Jan 12, 2015 10:49 am

edenpol wrote:
nannymargie wrote:"Today I pray for those who need a turnaround in their job, finances, or relationships. God can make all things new."

Really like the last part of that quote that Josh's friend posted. God can make all things new. That is what we are praying that God will make this relationship new again.
I LOVE the way you think! :cutesmile!: So excited we have one more believer in here!

To be honest my mind has doubts but my heart wants them to have a second chance. I don't think Josh has changed what he wants which is to get married and have a family. But I think Andi has lost her way and changed course from what Josh wanted. Maybe this will be a rude awaking for her. As per her New Years resolution she has been reflecting on this and maybe is seeing this now. You can't truly love anyone until you love yourself. Maybe towards the end Andi was not loving herself because she was conflicted on what she wanted, limelight or Josh. Maybe she will see now that she has lost everything that what she wanted the same things Josh did all along. Sometimes you don't know what you had till you loose it.

There is no doubt in my mind that Josh truly and deeply loved Andi. I have never seen a grown man gush over a woman he loved like Josh did on sm. A love like that just does not disappear. I feel that love is still there but has been buried by whatever problems they were having.

Time and space will heal and only God knows the plans he has for them.

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