Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #3

by stuckinsc Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:12 am

No offense to anyone, but MM should not have to change her behavior. She was very kind about both Josh and Andi in her posting. This is how the Murrays are.

I don't expect Andi to change who she is, so why should the Murrays have to change who they are?

The truth is that the Dorfmans really shouldn't have to worry about Josh and the Murrays are in no way responsible for worrying about Andi. When I ended my first longterm relationship (four years and in the process of him looking for "the" ring), my mother took his side. It hurt like hell and was the first of very many large cracks that ended our relationship. Let the families take care of their own children however they see fit.

by aviej Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:20 am

stuckinsc wrote:No offense to anyone, but MM should not have to change her behavior. She was very kind about both Josh and Andi in her posting. This is how the Murrays are.

I don't expect Andi to change who she is, so why should the Murrays have to change who they are?

The truth is that the Dorfmans really shouldn't have to worry about Josh and the Murrays are in no way responsible for worrying about Andi. When I ended my first longterm relationship (four years and in the process of him looking for "the" ring), my mother took his side. It hurt like hell and was the first of very many large cracks that ended our relationship. Let the families take care of their own children however they see fit.

But that's just it. They are not children and I hope they are not treated as such.

by Alanna Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:21 am

As we predicted, looks like Andi has deleted the picture of Josh and Sabel using her as their pillow where she calls them her family. Ahhh. She's going through that Insta like a health inspector at Taco Bell, just combing through it laugh out loud

by stuckinsc Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:28 am

aviej wrote:
stuckinsc wrote:No offense to anyone, but MM should not have to change her behavior. She was very kind about both Josh and Andi in her posting. This is how the Murrays are.

I don't expect Andi to change who she is, so why should the Murrays have to change who they are?

The truth is that the Dorfmans really shouldn't have to worry about Josh and the Murrays are in no way responsible for worrying about Andi. When I ended my first longterm relationship (four years and in the process of him looking for "the" ring), my mother took his side. It hurt like hell and was the first of very many large cracks that ended our relationship. Let the families take care of their own children however they see fit.

But that's just it. They are not children and I hope they are not treated as such.

Sorry, but IMO posting pics of your family is not treating them like children it is showing that you love them. My SIL does it with my nephew, his wife and their two children all the time. And sorry, but no matter how old we are we are always our parents children. No matter what.

I was trying to stay mostly positive, but I will say, I don't think either family deserves blame in this breakup. As you say, Josh and Andi are adults and chose what they felt was best for them. For Josh right now, spending time with his family and doing his advocare is what is best for him. He does not look forced to be with his family or to take a picture with them. If Josh is okay with it, then it shouldn't be a problem.

As Alanna and others have posted Andi is removing pics of Josh, they are both moving forward in their own way and I don't see either of them doing anything to purposely hurt the other person. They are just moving on. That is what most do after a breakup.

by Ash2214 Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:35 am

Alanna wrote:As we predicted, looks like Andi has deleted the picture of Josh and Sabel using her as their pillow where she calls them her family. Ahhh. She's going through that Insta like a health inspector at Taco Bell, just combing through it

Oh my God

Not to sound horrible, but I can just picture her sitting there for the past 3 days crying and going through her IG pictures over and over. She's been on quite a few times over the past couples of days deleting pictures at random times, unfollowing people, etc. Yikes. That must be so freaking sad just sitting there going through happier times. That was one of my favorites pictures of them. It was really cute with Sabel looking into the camera and Josh laying on her stomach.

by Maggenzm Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:40 am

But, there are still other pictures with all three. I just went to look at their pictures. OMG, Andi not only get to miss Josh, but Sabel too, poor baby!!!

by nanbrooks Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:43 am

Hey y'all, I haven't posted here in months but Ive been laying low in the background as a Josh and Andi fan. I'm sorry for their breakup and really thought they had a great chance of making it down the aisle. Andi seemed to fit right in with Josh's family (and vice versa). I'm actually surprised that Andi still has "The future Mrs. Murray" on her IG bio.

I'm sorry to all you ladies who were really invested in Josh and Andi's relationship. I guess we are all just hopeless romantics who love those fairytale romances. :sprinklehearts

by stuckinsc Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:45 am

I hope for Andi that she too has a support system with her right now helping her in whatever way she needs.

by bleuberry Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:47 am

She can really channel Olivia Pope now, gulping from her champagne glass in perfect Liv fashion laugh out loud

But really I hope she's fine! This is sad.

by Alanna Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:51 am

bleuberry wrote:She can really channel Olivia Pope now, gulping from her champagne glass in perfect Liv fashion

But really I hope she's fine! This is sad.

I think it's most sad that through all the unfollowings and select pic deletion, 'Future Mrs Murray' is still there. Ugh. Poor girl.

by stuckinsc Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:52 am

I actually hope she gives up on the desire to be like Olivia Pope and learns to love being Andi Dorfman. I think their are good roots there and hope she can learn to really love and be content with herself. It is such a hard thing for a woman to do.

by bleuberry Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:53 am

Alanna wrote:
bleuberry wrote:She can really channel Olivia Pope now, gulping from her champagne glass in perfect Liv fashion

But really I hope she's fine! This is sad.
I think it's most sad that through all the unfollowings and select pic deletion, 'Future Mrs Murray' is still there. Ugh. Poor girl.

I honestly thought she'd blitz through and delete everything quickly. I'm surprised she still has that in her profile.

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