Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #10

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:06 pm

edenpol wrote:
AnandaMarie wrote:
I can't think of them with anybody else, like ever. They were so in love and i would still like to see them make it work. Sorry if I say the same thing alot, I'm just so devastated and hopeless now. I only want to cry, I can't sleep or eat properly and i feel sick
I feel you, I really do, I was sad all day today, told my parents I was tired, but I was not, just sad.

Me too, I cried so much, but i can't tell anybody not even my parents because they would all laugh at me and say that I'm stupid for being so devastated because of this.

by atem Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:07 pm

Alanna wrote:
aviej wrote:That would be a good idea for Chad to move in. I wonder if he would show at the Advocare event, it's this weekend right?
It starts today iirc.

They probably kept delaying the breakup because they had a magazine shoot, and a charity event, and their parents' visit, etc. etc. etc., so there wasn't a "good" time for this.

Anyway, Josh will be just fine. He just needs to find a woman who is VERY secure in herself and while doesn't need to look like a supermodel, most definitely has the confidence of one. Andi will also be fine, but she probably needs someone who doesn't have women throwing themselves at her man all day and night.

I agree. MeAndi is not the woman Josh would be best matched with.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:08 pm

atem wrote:
Alanna wrote:
aviej wrote:That would be a good idea for Chad to move in. I wonder if he would show at the Advocare event, it's this weekend right?
It starts today iirc.

They probably kept delaying the breakup because they had a magazine shoot, and a charity event, and their parents' visit, etc. etc. etc., so there wasn't a "good" time for this.

Anyway, Josh will be just fine. He just needs to find a woman who is VERY secure in herself and while doesn't need to look like a supermodel, most definitely has the confidence of one. Andi will also be fine, but she probably needs someone who doesn't have women throwing themselves at her man all day and night.

I agree. MeAndi is not the woman Josh would be best matched with.

I think they're the perfect match.

by Guest Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:10 pm

Trueloveforever wrote:
nannymargie wrote:
aviej wrote:Hmm.. I really hope this is not about some dumb blog and a couple pieces of cloth. While it is admirable, it can't top a relationship. A lot of celebrities enjoy fame and fortune but when you look at their core they are unhappy people taking to the bottle or women for solace. Those new ventures of Andi's are not worth losing a life partner over.

To me it would have to be more than that. She could have her designs and blog and he would have Advocare. If it brings income it's just like having a job. Andi did say she could handle, having a career, wife and mother.

Agreed. A perfect example is Sean & Catherine. Right after Bach ended, they were on DWTS and all of that craziness happened.. but in the end their love conquered through it all and now they're married. What Andi and Josh have (the blog, Andi's designs, Advocare) are nothing compared to that.. they do all of that still in ATL and travel for events occasionally. It had to be something else that caused them to get to this point.

I agree. I definitely think it was bigger than just their side projects too. It may have been simply that they were two alpha personalities. We always took their banter and teasing about things as so cute, but maybe there was some underlying sarcasm there that reflected some insecurities, like the whole liking blondes thing with both of them. I too wonder with some of the little comments Andi has made if she wasn't very insecure about Josh's past with other women. I'd like to think that wasn't the cause of the break-up, but I think it may have been a lot of little things like that that added up.

by luvlady345 Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:12 pm

Someone please point me to the examples that fame changed Andi? Andi has always liked fashion an made her clothes, so she design a T shirt, she has a website/blog which all the Alumni do. They have gone to charity events, so exactly what fame an how has it gone to her head?

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:15 pm

luvlady345 wrote:Someone please point me to the examples that fame changed Andi? Andi has always liked fashion an made her clothes, so she design a T shirt, she has a website/blog which all the Alumni do. They have gone to charity events, so exactly what fame an how has it gone to her head?

Amen to that! I didn't understand it either!!!

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:18 pm

edenpol wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:Someone please point me to the examples that fame changed Andi? Andi has always liked fashion an made her clothes, so she design a T shirt, she has a website/blog which all the Alumni do. They have gone to charity events, so exactly what fame an how has it gone to her head?
Amen to that! I didn't understand it either!!!

I don't think it changed her as a person. I think that because of it, she got more opportunities , fashion related etc., and could have made that her priority.

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:22 pm

AnandaMarie wrote:
edenpol wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:Someone please point me to the examples that fame changed Andi? Andi has always liked fashion an made her clothes, so she design a T shirt, she has a website/blog which all the Alumni do. They have gone to charity events, so exactly what fame an how has it gone to her head?
Amen to that! I didn't understand it either!!!

I don't think it changed her as a person. I think that because of it, she got more opportunities , fashion related etc., and could have made that her priority.

Exactly Ananda. If you guys read E's article where Nick Sutter talks, he said she was a crowd pleaser. I think fundamentally her intentions are there but to me, the fame became more attractive to her than settling down. Similar to Ali and Roberto I guess.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:22 pm

Laudergirl wrote:
Trueloveforever wrote:
nannymargie wrote:

To me it would have to be more than that. She could have her designs and blog and he would have Advocare. If it brings income it's just like having a job. Andi did say she could handle, having a career, wife and mother.

Agreed. A perfect example is Sean & Catherine. Right after Bach ended, they were on DWTS and all of that craziness happened.. but in the end their love conquered through it all and now they're married. What Andi and Josh have (the blog, Andi's designs, Advocare) are nothing compared to that.. they do all of that still in ATL and travel for events occasionally. It had to be something else that caused them to get to this point.

I agree. I definitely think it was bigger than just their side projects too. It may have been simply that they were two alpha personalities. We always took their banter and teasing about things as so cute, but maybe there was some underlying sarcasm there that reflected some insecurities, like the whole liking blondes thing with both of them. I too wonder with some of the little comments Andi has made if she wasn't very insecure about Josh's past with other women. I'd like to think that wasn't the cause of the break-up, but I think it may have been a lot of little things like that that added up.

Again, sorry if if post too much, this really bothers me and I feel like you guys are the only people I can't talk to. What you said about the banter and Josh's past etc, seems like things that they could get past, similarly with the side projects I think they could have gotten past that too. I don't know if it's one big thing that caused the split or a combination of litttle things. I just think that when you get engaged, it's like a promise for life and I hope that they really did everything to make it work and didn't give up too soon.

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:23 pm

AnandaMarie did you get my private message?

by KB_Mom Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:27 pm

AnandaMarie wrote:
Laudergirl wrote:
Trueloveforever wrote:

Agreed. A perfect example is Sean & Catherine. Right after Bach ended, they were on DWTS and all of that craziness happened.. but in the end their love conquered through it all and now they're married. What Andi and Josh have (the blog, Andi's designs, Advocare) are nothing compared to that.. they do all of that still in ATL and travel for events occasionally. It had to be something else that caused them to get to this point.

I agree. I definitely think it was bigger than just their side projects too. It may have been simply that they were two alpha personalities. We always took their banter and teasing about things as so cute, but maybe there was some underlying sarcasm there that reflected some insecurities, like the whole liking blondes thing with both of them. I too wonder with some of the little comments Andi has made if she wasn't very insecure about Josh's past with other women. I'd like to think that wasn't the cause of the break-up, but I think it may have been a lot of little things like that that added up.

Again, sorry if if post too much, this really bothers me and I feel like you guys are the only people I can't talk to. What you said about the banter and Josh's past etc, seems like things that they could get past, similarly with the side projects I think they could have gotten past that too. I don't know if it's one big thing that caused the split or a combination of litttle things. I just think that when you get engaged, it's like a promise for life and I hope that they really did everything to make it work and didn't give up too soon.

I have a daughter your age and it pains me to see how much pain you are in. I like to think she knows she can come to me for comfort when she needs it and I will never judge. I hope you are finding solace in having an outlet for how you feel here. Hugs

by Guest Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:27 pm

I agree with those that say Andi is just doing things she has always enjoyed right now with the fashion etc. I still don't think that stuff is what caused their breakup.

What will be interesting to me is how they go about the next few months with each other. Will they stay in contact or completely ignore each other. They sure put on a great front these last few weeks, but even people who saw them off camera said they looked "cozy" or happy together, so maybe they will be able to remain friends through this.

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