Re: Episode 11 - 8/1 Finale - Discussion - Thread #1

[Beeleever]

There has been family members on past seasons that disapproved of the F1 right?

Well regardless of whether she chooses JP or not, it looks like Ash's sister's opinion of JP has changed. Maybe she has to say that though because Ash did indeed choose JP? Who knows.

Ummm...Ashley's sister doesn't come across as being the kind that feels she "has to say" anything. Girl looks like she marches to the beat of her own drum.

That's true too.

And I meant that in a very respectful way!

[Love_Me]

I am hoping her sister is able to come back on the board and share anything she can with us. That would be nice.

[Diana]

Her sister was on the board? See how much I know haha

[Cecilia]

I think the crying in the FRC dress is bc she is sad to hurt Ben.

Sister disapproves of JP after having spent just a few hours with him. Sounds stupid and not supportive.

[Shelby]

I think the crying in the FRC dress is bc she is sad to hurt Ben.

Sister disapproves of JP after having spent just a few hours with him. Sounds stupid and not supportive.

sounds stupid and jealous

[Guest]

I still think some are jumping the gun on judging her sister. Ashley said in an interview, and I can't remember when, that she and her sister are close. They depend on each other. I don't think we can make a fair assessment of her character with a 5 second edited clip....they may amount to nothing but MF created drama.

[bluwavz]

I still think some are jumping the gun on judging her sister. Ashley said in an interview, and I can't remember when, that she and her sister are close. They depend on each other. I don't think we can make a fair assessment of her character with a 5 second edited clip....they may amount to nothing but MF created drama.

I'm not falling for it just yet. I'm sure her family will like both guys. At least by the end of the meetups.

[skitts]

Hmmmmm, "I'm trying to save you from yourself". What exactly does that mean in reference to the two men left? That statement encompasses not only a flaw the sis sees in JP and/or Ben, but also a flaw in Ashley....interesting!

[Guest]

Hmmmmm, "I'm trying to save you from yourself". What exactly does that mean in reference to the two men left? That statement encompasses not only a flaw the sis sees in JP and/or Ben, but also a flaw in Ashley....interesting!

Well we all know she hits emotional highs and lows......and I know it's edited that way....but they had to get the footage to use from the source. So, she may well be needy and insecure. JMO. Maybe she acts before she thinks.....and they are trying to slow her down and make her think a little. I know she was a prime example at the HK cocktail party. She had no clue why the guys were a little upset. Sometimes honesty like that (without a warning) is a little bit much. JMO though, just thinking out loud.

[Kelad9]

I still think some are jumping the gun on judging her sister. Ashley said in an interview, and I can't remember when, that she and her sister are close. They depend on each other. I don't think we can make a fair assessment of her character with a 5 second edited clip....they may amount to nothing but MF created drama.

Hmmmmm, "I'm trying to save you from yourself". What exactly does that mean in reference to the two men left? That statement encompasses not only a flaw the sis sees in JP and/or Ben, but also a flaw in Ashley....interesting!

Well we all know she hits emotional highs and lows......and I know it's edited that way....but they had to get the footage to use from the source. So, she may well be needy and insecure. JMO. Maybe she acts before she thinks.....and they are trying to slow her down and make her think a little. I know she was a prime example at the HK cocktail party. She had no clue why the guys were a little upset. Sometimes honesty like that (without a warning) is a little bit much. JMO though, just thinking out loud.

I see her thinking quite a bit. so I think she's a thinker before she acts on anything IMO. Thou I think she misjudged how the other guys would react about Bentley since JP was wonderful in his acceptance of that she had moved on .

[Guest]

I still think some are jumping the gun on judging her sister. Ashley said in an interview, and I can't remember when, that she and her sister are close. They depend on each other. I don't think we can make a fair assessment of her character with a 5 second edited clip....they may amount to nothing but MF created drama.

Hmmmmm, "I'm trying to save you from yourself". What exactly does that mean in reference to the two men left? That statement encompasses not only a flaw the sis sees in JP and/or Ben, but also a flaw in Ashley....interesting!

Well we all know she hits emotional highs and lows......and I know it's edited that way....but they had to get the footage to use from the source. So, she may well be needy and insecure. JMO. Maybe she acts before she thinks.....and they are trying to slow her down and make her think a little. I know she was a prime example at the HK cocktail party. She had no clue why the guys were a little upset. Sometimes honesty like that (without a warning) is a little bit much. JMO though, just thinking out loud.

I see her thinking quite a bit. so I think she's a thinker before she acts on anything IMO.

I think she is what is called an external processor. She needs to talk it through to think about it. I am like that also and get into trouble at times and I think for people that do it all internally (thinking things through), it is very annoying, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. I like her honesty and like how upfront she is being in her discussions. It was clear all season, including at HTDs. She was very honest with families. I do agree she could have discussed Bentley a little differently though.

[Guest]

I still think some are jumping the gun on judging her sister. Ashley said in an interview, and I can't remember when, that she and her sister are close. They depend on each other. I don't think we can make a fair assessment of her character with a 5 second edited clip....they may amount to nothing but MF created drama.

Hmmmmm, "I'm trying to save you from yourself". What exactly does that mean in reference to the two men left? That statement encompasses not only a flaw the sis sees in JP and/or Ben, but also a flaw in Ashley....interesting!

Well we all know she hits emotional highs and lows......and I know it's edited that way....but they had to get the footage to use from the source. So, she may well be needy and insecure. JMO. Maybe she acts before she thinks.....and they are trying to slow her down and make her think a little. I know she was a prime example at the HK cocktail party. She had no clue why the guys were a little upset. Sometimes honesty like that (without a warning) is a little bit much. JMO though, just thinking out loud.

I see her thinking quite a bit. so I think she's a thinker before she acts on anything IMO.

I think she is what is called an external processor. She needs to talk it through to think about it. I am like that also and get into trouble at times and I think for people that do it all internally (thinking things through), it is very annoying, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. I like her honesty and like how upfront she is being in her discussions. It was clear all season, including at HTDs. She was very honest with families. I do agree she could have discussed Bentley a little differently though.

Ohhhh don't get me wrong. I completely respect how she has been handling herself in the last few episodes. She knows what she wants, she is being up front and honest. I'm just trying to think of reasons the sister might want to back her down for a minute. I'm not sure I agree with her handling of the whole season, but certainly since she gave Bentley the big F U!! She has seemed to be more assertive and vocal about what she wants.

RE: HK and Bentley .....yeah, I do agree that she probably went into that discussion with a false sense of security because JP handled it so well. But, she did a good job at explaining her reasons, once they all settled down and listened to her.

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