Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #2

^I know Chris and JJ visited Nick post show. 
Since this is Andi's thread, I will leave at that.

sdmom wrote:^I know Chris and JJ visited Nick post show. 
Since this is Andi's thread, I will leave at that.

Definitely best because I don't want to get too off topic, but Chris himself said he didn't go to visit Nick. Chris was visiting Chicago with his sisters, which he said he does frequently, and while he was there, Nick met up with him in a bar. Regardless, I still find there to be a difference. Josh was the one who ended up with a fiancé that the other guys dated and the guys he was most friendly with in the house went on another show and had a lot going on after it.

From past history, there are constant get togethers with alums from their own season and others in Vegas and other locals, regardless of gender. Couples that enjoy each other and other singles don't need excuses to hang out--they just do! 
Tonight there will be many getting together.

I don't come on this side of the forum very often because I am a big fan of Josh and Andi, however I think it is silly to think none of their wedding planning is done because they haven't announced anything, no one has seen a registry, or she doesn't have a pinterest account for people to look at. I think has time has gone on, both Andi and Josh have become rather private regarding their relationship. As I recently said in the fan forum, they realize putting themselves out there leads to negativity and even the strongest couple would struggle with that. I do believe they are planning. That doesn't mean I think or know their wedding will happen this spring but considering Josh's brother plays football, if they don't getting married this spring/summer, they would pretty much have to wait until 2017 as Aaron is getting married in 2016. I don't see them wanting to wait that long. In an interview they did in Atlantic City, when asked about wedding planning they said they were excited but "not all the details were ironed out". That is a lot different IMO to what has been said earlier about them just beginning or being too busy. I know there are a lot of nay-sayers, but I think they will be surprised with this couple.

Just some thoughts:
1) Just because they haven't announced certain plans does not mean they've made any, either. That tail wags both ways, not meant to be said in a nasty or mean way. I have a six degrees of separation of this couple--and all is quiet on that front from what I heard. Silence. Period. And again, all that means is is basically zero in the scheme of things.
2) Aaron's wedding in 2016 is truly irrelevant to JODI's. JASH got married within 8 weeks of JP's bro's wedding.  When/if JODI chooses to get married, they can plan around the other wedding and schedules.

Kashathediva wrote:Just some thoughts:
1) Just because they haven't announced certain plans does not mean they've made any, either. That tail wags both ways, not meant to be said in a nasty or mean way. I have a six degrees of separation of this couple--and all is quiet on that front from what I heard. Silence. Period. And again, all that means is is basically zero in the scheme of things.
2) Aaron's wedding in 2016 is truly irrelevant to JODI's. JASH got married within 8 weeks of JP's bro's wedding.  When/if JODI chooses to get married, they can plan around the other wedding and schedules.

Kasha, I totally agree that goes both ways and you very well may be right.

On the Aaron thing, from sources, I am almost positive if Josh and Andi didn't have at the very least intentions of getting married this spring/summer, they wouldn't of waited until 2016 for theirs.

We are hovering on the borderline of the rules. Please do not speculate assume or discuss, Aaron and Kacie. Thank you.

Sprite wrote:

albean99 wrote:This is JMO but I'm thinking it may be like Ali & Roberto and others who pushed back the date. I can't see a May wedding it they're too busy to plan now.

Frankly I don't see WTH she is doing that is keeping her so busy. She is no longer working as a lawyer, she makes occasional charity event appearances, has done some magazine interviews and photo shoots and her blog. Oh yeah...the infamous redesign of an iconic T. Other than hanging around with her friends and family, working out at the gym and spending lots of time at the mall, I can't see what makes her so busy. I see shades of Emily all over this.

Eating out and shopping can be expensive, and she doesn't seem to have a steady source of income. I could be wrong though. How does her t-shirt do in terms of sales? If I were her, I would ask a certain percentage of proceeds to benefit charities. That will be a great PR move, IMO.
For a supposedly "strong, intelligent, independent" women, I have higher expectations of her and think she can make better use of her time.
How long did she work as an attorney?

sdmom wrote:

Sprite wrote:

albean99 wrote:This is JMO but I'm thinking it may be like Ali & Roberto and others who pushed back the date. I can't see a May wedding it they're too busy to plan now.

Frankly I don't see WTH she is doing that is keeping her so busy. She is no longer working as a lawyer, she makes occasional charity event appearances, has done some magazine interviews and photo shoots and her blog. Oh yeah...the infamous redesign of an iconic T. Other than hanging around with her friends and family, working out at the gym and spending lots of time at the mall, I can't see what makes her so busy. I see shades of Emily all over this.

Eating out and shopping can be expensive, and she doesn't seem to have a steady source of income. I could be wrong though. How does her t-shirt do in terms of sales? If I were her, I would ask a certain percentage of proceeds to benefit charities. That will be a great PR move, IMO.
For a supposedly "strong, intelligent, independent" women, I have higher expectations of her and think she can make better use of her time.
How long did she work as an attorney?

I think we figured out she had been working for a relatively short time...one year or perhaps a year and a half. I can't remember exactly. I know someone figured it out based on when she had graduated.

As Andi has stated before, she doesn't feel that at this point she can devote the attention to law as she should since so many other things are going on in her life at this point. So, as was said previously, as soon as the "dust settles" and their schedules have some measure of normalcy or consistency, then she'd return to law. I give her props for not being too consumed in work so that she can give her relationship sufficient time to nurture. They are already fighting an uphill battle of getting engaged after two months, so what's wrong concentrating energies on that for right now? There is no expiry date to her law degree, she can certainly go back to that if she wants. If she doesn't that's okay too. Many times people start careers in a field and they realise at some point that it's not really what's at the core of their heart. What if her heart has always been in the fashion industry? We don't know. Let's just give her a chance to be!!!

Haven't the other couples that have gotten married stated that they "were in the process of planning" after getting engaged, not giving any public details of the planning that's going on? Seems I heard that a lot from Des and Chris - no details given, just that they were in the process. They even had engagement parties well ahead of their upcoming wedding. I admit I'm not an Andi or Josh fan, but I would at least expect to hear that they are "planning" without giving details.