Re: Ashley and JP *Picture thread* - Thread #3

[Love_Me]

I also noticed that Ryan walked in through the double doors to the main hotel room and out the door JP seems to be exiting from.

[Guest]

I think JP is wise and has a lot of pride, and while he visibly is not happy about this girl he feels he loves spending all night with another man - he has pride, and isn't going to act like a lunatic, and he didn't either. So, any ideas of "dangerous jealousy" are coming from the viewer's own thoughts and maybe experiences, because in no way was he causing a scene, being violent, or dangerous. It is kind of silly to even go there - they showed a man in love with Ashley and he was adorable how he told her his feelings - watch it again, he is just so overcome with LOVE for this girl - he is going crazy with love and healthy jealousy. I dated the indifferent man - no PDA (he didn't believe in it) and "trusted me thoroughly" while he was in to his own life - I never felt so alone in my life. My husband is more JP like - he cares, he adores me, he cherishes me and at one NY Eve party when a drunk guy tried to make the moves on me (gross!), my husband was really upset. No, he isn't angry or violent - it is normal. I love him the same way and am jealous when I think someone at work is flirty with him. Should I not be? So, this is just one perspective. Making JP out to be some dangerous psycho from what we've seen is really odd to me. It was all so darn cute seeing him all worked up over Ashley. I sure hope she picks him, or the sadness at the FRC will be palpable. Plus - just foreshadowing - like most F2's, they are also angry at that point - feeling they have been lead on. I'm sure JP would be angry too - like, "WHAT? What was all that passion and what were those promises for if you weren't even going to pick me?" Who wouldn't be mad?
This is my take on it all - I realize you all might think much differently. We see things as we are - right? My experiences in love and life make me connect to JP - and I think he is incredible! I really bet I'd feel the same about Ben, I just can't get a handle on his humor or personality - I feel like they hardly show Ben! Which makes me suspicious that he in fact could be F1. I don't care who Ashley picks - I hope she is happy. But, I sure do love JP! Like I said before, it is probably my mid-life crisis working me in to a frenzy over a reality tv show -good thing I can be on here anonymously - ahem - this could be embarrassing if those in my world here found out my secret obsession! HA!

[Guest]

So, I joined four days ago and have already logged in 15 posts - is there an addiction therapy group around here?! ;)

[mnmhughes]

So, I joined four days ago and have already logged in 15 posts - is there an addiction therapy group around here?! ;)

Haha! Just you wait! You'll be both ashamed and proud of the number of posts you can write in one day.

[mnmhughes]

JP still sitting there after he leaves



Did he really "storm out" of the suite or is he leaving for the group date?

(The reason I ask is if JP did indeed get up and storm out then how come none of the guys seemed fazed that he just up and left the suite. The only guy that even gazes towards his direction is Dino. Everyone else continued with the conversation. Wouldn't Ben have said something like "What's up with JP." or the other guys said "This must be really getting to him" or something along those lines. I do think he did get up and leave the conversation to collect his thoughts, but I'm not convinced that it was bad as it was edited.)

I'm so skeptical

You're such a great sleuther!!

[ironcat]

I think JP is wise and has a lot of pride, and while he visibly is not happy about this girl he feels he loves spending all night with another man - he has pride, and isn't going to act like a lunatic, and he didn't either. So, any ideas of "dangerous jealousy" are coming from the viewer's own thoughts and maybe experiences, because in no way was he causing a scene, being violent, or dangerous. It is kind of silly to even go there - they showed a man in love with Ashley and he was adorable how he told her his feelings - watch it again, he is just so overcome with LOVE for this girl - he is going crazy with love and healthy jealousy. I dated the indifferent man - no PDA (he didn't believe in it) and "trusted me thoroughly" while he was in to his own life - I never felt so alone in my life. My husband is more JP like - he cares, he adores me, he cherishes me and at one NY Eve party when a drunk guy tried to make the moves on me (gross!), my husband was really upset. No, he isn't angry or violent - it is normal. I love him the same way and am jealous when I think someone at work is flirty with him. Should I not be? So, this is just one perspective. Making JP out to be some dangerous psycho from what we've seen is really odd to me. It was all so darn cute seeing him all worked up over Ashley. I sure hope she picks him, or the sadness at the FRC will be palpable. Plus - just foreshadowing - like most F2's, they are also angry at that point - feeling they have been lead on. I'm sure JP would be angry too - like, "WHAT? What was all that passion and what were those promises for if you weren't even going to pick me?" Who wouldn't be mad?
This is my take on it all - I realize you all might think much differently. We see things as we are - right? My experiences in love and life make me connect to JP - and I think he is incredible! I really bet I'd feel the same about Ben, I just can't get a handle on his humor or personality - I feel like they hardly show Ben! Which makes me suspicious that he in fact could be F1. I don't care who Ashley picks - I hope she is happy. But, I sure do love JP! Like I said before, it is probably my mid-life crisis working me in to a frenzy over a reality tv show -good thing I can be on here anonymously - ahem - this could be embarrassing if those in my world here found out my secret obsession! HA!

Wonderful post and welcome! I totally agree with you, especially that trying to prove that JP is a dangerous psycho seems to be an odd obsession to have. Unlike posting on this board, which is a perfectly normal obsession :laughingoutlou , and involves no caloric consumption to boot! Post away!!

[Bloomers]

JP still sitting there after he leaves



Did he really "storm out" of the suite or is he leaving for the group date?

(The reason I ask is if JP did indeed get up and storm out then how come none of the guys seemed fazed that he just up and left the suite. The only guy that even gazes towards his direction is Dino. Everyone else continued with the conversation. Wouldn't Ben have said something like "What's up with JP." or the other guys said "This must be really getting to him" or something along those lines. I do think he did get up and leave the conversation to collect his thoughts, but I'm not convinced that it was bad as it was edited.)

I'm so skeptical

That is funny, but I'm not sure it is quite as funny as the one somebody caught that is supposedly Ben driving the motor scooter, but now he doesn't have on any pants! When we saw him before, he had on long pants, but the driver of that pic was wearing shorts.....

[klarson79]

Wow! That is amazing cupcakes! Thanks for catching that!

Does this mean he's not so dangerous after all???

[Jeepers]

JP still sitting there after he leaves



Did he really "storm out" of the suite or is he leaving for the group date?

(The reason I ask is if JP did indeed get up and storm out then how come none of the guys seemed fazed that he just up and left the suite. The only guy that even gazes towards his direction is Dino. Everyone else continued with the conversation. Wouldn't Ben have said something like "What's up with JP." or the other guys said "This must be really getting to him" or something along those lines. I do think he did get up and leave the conversation to collect his thoughts, but I'm not convinced that it was bad as it was edited.)

I'm so skeptical

That is funny, but I'm not sure it is quite as funny as the one somebody caught that is supposedly Ben driving the motor scooter, but now he doesn't have on any pants! When we saw him before, he had on long pants, but the driver of that pic was wearing shorts.....

Ben came back fro his date in shorts.

[Love_Me]

I might move the JP and Ashley screencap threads to Jordan Paul's Forum. Is that ok with everyone? If not I will leave all of them here for now.

[Bloomers]

JP still sitting there after he leaves



Did he really "storm out" of the suite or is he leaving for the group date?

(The reason I ask is if JP did indeed get up and storm out then how come none of the guys seemed fazed that he just up and left the suite. The only guy that even gazes towards his direction is Dino. Everyone else continued with the conversation. Wouldn't Ben have said something like "What's up with JP." or the other guys said "This must be really getting to him" or something along those lines. I do think he did get up and leave the conversation to collect his thoughts, but I'm not convinced that it was bad as it was edited.)

I'm so skeptical

That is funny, but I'm not sure it is quite as funny as the one somebody caught that is supposedly Ben driving the motor scooter, but now he doesn't have on any pants! When we saw him before, he had on long pants, but the driver of that pic was wearing shorts.....

Ben came back fro his date in shorts.

Yes, but he wasn't driving the motor in shorts. The one pic showed a guy's bare leg which gave away the fact that it was one of the cameramen or someone else getting a shot of the scenery.

[Samantharose]

“No more drama. Guys hate to admit it, but sex complicates things, especially if the couple isn’t on the same page…. I seem to go for the girls who bring drama.”
—J.P., 33

Read More http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2010/12/ask-men-whats-your-new-years-resolution-in-bed#ixzz1RxiFfCOG

Now isn't that the truth LOL

I think that's his favorite shirt. :giggle:

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