Re: Juan Pablo & Nikki Ferrell Facebook - Twitter Updates - Fan Forum -Discussion - Thread #7

by Nabsie Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:29 am

After JPG left Evel talked about their break up. He said Nikki told him before Bali she was going to break up with him but then in Bali JPG wrote te amo with shells so then she obviously didn't break up with him when they got back. But then she must have realized it's still not working after that. Evel said Nikki told him she bought a house but hadn't told JPG so I think she had no intention of ever moving. Evel think JPG had a new gf but when he asked him he said no. Evel said they're both happy and they can rather move on.

by stuckinsc Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:32 am

Nabsie wrote:After JPG left Evel talked about their break up. He said Nikki told him before Bali she was going to break up with him but then in Bali JPG wrote te amo with shells so then she obviously didn't break up with him when they got back. But then she must have realized it's still not working after that. Evel said Nikki told him she bought a house but hadn't told JPG so I think she had no intention of ever moving. Evel think JPG had a new gf but when he asked him he said no. Evel said they're both happy and they can rather move on.

How nice of Nikki to tell people other than JPG that she is going to break up. Isn't that the kind of thing she should discuss with him. And of course she couldn't do it before Bali because then she wouldn't get her free trip. Such a sweet girl, NOT!

by Nabsie Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:41 am

Evel and Nikki are really close and she clearly confides in him. Don't think there's anything wrong with that if she had made up her mind. Evel probably shouldn't have mentioned that. I'm sure every girl thinking about breaking up with their bf will tell their girl friends or best friend before they break up. That's just how it is. As for the holiday, don't know anyone who would pass up an opportunity of a lifetime with their bf even if she had plans of breaking it off.

by stuckinsc Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:52 am

Nabsie wrote:Evel and Nikki are really close and she clearly confides in him. Don't think there's anything wrong with that if she had made up her mind. Evel probably shouldn't have mentioned that. I'm sure every girl thinking about breaking up with their bf will tell their girl friends or best friend before they break up. That's just how it is. As for the holiday, don't know anyone who would pass up an opportunity of a lifetime with their bf even if she had plans of breaking it off.

Nikki and Evel are so close that she didn't talk to him for the majority of the show.

To me it is incredibly suspect that Nikki's bffs seem to be people she meets briefly on reality tv, which she also claims to hate to be on.

Umm, yeah, I actually would skip the trip if I had to go with someone who I wanted to break up with, but that is just me.

by **GuardianAngel** Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:53 am

I could never take advantage of a holiday like that knowing I was going to break off the relationship, unless I made it very clear to him before hand.

I hope they both move on because I stated yesterday I was glad there were no trust issues, but I feel much differently today.

by chinita Thu Nov 13, 2014 12:10 pm

I agree with you Stuck and GA I wouldn't go either. I mean, how could enjoy a trip when you want to separate this person from your life? Also, no wonder the interview she stated she worked really hard. I was wondering, what's it that's so hard? Now I know, it was hard for her to tell him about the house and the breakup. Also, she said JPG broke it off with her first. He must have been pissed when he found out about the house. Not surprised if he found him from Evel or her friend

by Mommyof2 Thu Nov 13, 2014 12:17 pm

It sounds like JPG is either in denial of the breakup or hopeful for reconciliation in the future. I wonder if Nikki is upset that Dick shared the details of JPG saying, "I love you."

by chinita Thu Nov 13, 2014 12:45 pm

Mommyof1 wrote:It sounds like JPG is either in denial of the breakup or hopeful for reconciliation in the future. I wonder if Nikki is upset that Dick shared the details of JPG saying, "I love you."

Yup, he's on denial and hopeful of a reconciliation

Nikki would not get mad at Dick, if she didn't want anyone to know, she should have kept it to herself. She seems to confide her feelings to her recently new friends than to JPG. Sad

by Maggenzm Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:40 pm

stuckinsc wrote:
Nabsie wrote:After JPG left Evel talked about their break up. He said Nikki told him before Bali she was going to break up with him but then in Bali JPG wrote te amo with shells so then she obviously didn't break up with him when they got back. But then she must have realized it's still not working after that. Evel said Nikki told him she bought a house but hadn't told JPG so I think she had no intention of ever moving. Evel think JPG had a new gf but when he asked him he said no. Evel said they're both happy and they can rather move on.

How nice of Nikki to tell people other than JPG that she is going to break up. Isn't that the kind of thing she should discuss with him. And of course she couldn't do it before Bali because then she wouldn't get her free trip. Such a sweet girl, NOT!

I doubt very much that she wanted a free trip, I am sure she can effort it if she wanted to. I think she really loves him, she is just spoiled. IMO one of her flows is not addressing issues head on, she avoids confrontations at all costs, it's easier for her to talk it over with someone else, which never works, so she is always frustrated. Remember at CT, how she was terrified to talk to Cecily when she finds out that she was angry at her. yes, poor baby, that's one area she needs to work on. I know she wants to get married, but this has to change if she wants to have a healthy relationship with anyone.

by SerenityGirl Thu Nov 13, 2014 2:00 pm

Nabsie wrote:Evel and Nikki are really close and she clearly confides in him. Don't think there's anything wrong with that if she had made up her mind. Evel probably shouldn't have mentioned that. I'm sure every girl thinking about breaking up with their bf will tell their girl friends or best friend before they break up. That's just how it is. As for the holiday, don't know anyone who would pass up an opportunity of a lifetime with their bf even if she had plans of breaking it off.

I agree Nabsie. I've confided in my friends about things before my boyfriend and lots of my girlfriends have confided in me about things about their boyfriends. Don't see anything wrong with that. What I think is crappy, is Evel sharing that on the recap show. She needs to stick to only confiding in her long time friends from KC and not ones she met from Reality TV.

Regarding the Bali trip, it was for all intent and purposes a business trip/commitment not a romantic get-a-way. If she or he hadn't gone, there would be no trip. It was for them as a couple to promote the resort. They didn't post a single romantic pic of them together from the trip. Which at the time I thought was odd but now knowing what we know makes total sense. They were on the verge of breaking up. The trip was before CT began airing so the negativity from CT hadn't started yet.

by Maggenzm Thu Nov 13, 2014 2:05 pm

chinita wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:It sounds like JPG is either in denial of the breakup or hopeful for reconciliation in the future. I wonder if Nikki is upset that Dick shared the details of JPG saying, "I love you."

Yup, he's on denial and hopeful of a reconciliation

Nikki would not get mad at Dick, if she didn't want anyone to know, she should have kept it to herself. She seems to confide her feelings to her recently new friends than to JPG. Sad

That's right! Hopefully, she will learn one of the greatest relationship tool from the bible "if your brother/anyone offends you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone:Matt 18:15". Wow, here is the man of her dream, but she doesn't know how to communicate her frustrations to him, so she gets feedback from other which makes her more insecure, and react to him instead of responding, which in turns freaks JPG out so he can't say ILU just in case it doesn't work out. Boy, they really needed a break.

by soccerm3m Thu Nov 13, 2014 2:06 pm

I think JP realized he was starting to lose Nikki around the Bali trip. He posted that cryptic IG message that showed a sign with Ferrel Key Way and said I hope this is the key to get into her heart or something similar to those words. I thought that was strange because I thought you are already in her heart but not the other way around. It makes more sense now.

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