Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #2

[1funnyfish]

Anyone have a take on why they haven't tweeted about the two interviews they've done? I find it interesting.

In my opinion, it definitely supports my thought that they really don't want any attention to be on them at this moment in time. I bet they are annoyed with all of the false stories out there and don't want to draw any attention towards themselves.

But at the same time, if people (other than us, of course) knew about these interviews and listened to them, a lot of lingering questions would be cleared up and tabloids would slow down on posting negative things about them when they hear how happy they are.

[bamagal]

Hi everybody!  
I've been lurking here the past few days, reading through spoiled and unspoiled discussions and catching up. This last interview (thank you all for bringing it here) reminded me of a certain point during Jodi's FD. Right after their talk about their parenting style and him reassuring her about his intentions and feelings again. They are all happy and giddy, kissing - and Andi says she thought he would never be the type to say it. The whole atmosphere changes, he asks why and she keeps saying "I don't know, I didn't know how you feel!"
I thought it was weird she freaked out like this, when they seemed to be in a happy place, but figured she was just self sabotaging again. However, this interview made me re-watch it and here is what she might have been thinking at that moment. "Ohh CRAP, I wasn't sure how you felt!!! I would have never slept with Nick if I knew! Please tell me I didn't jeopardize my fairytale ending with you!!!" Go and look at her face. Makes me really feel like they talked about Nick and everything else later that night and decided to focus on their bright future  :cutesmile!: 
Sorry for my rambling, English is my second (well, make it third) language   

PS. I still think she has no reason to feel guilty, but that is jmo

ITA - Initially I was way too focused on Josh's sexy "growl" saying "Don't categorize me!" But focusing on her, she definitely has an "oh crap - what have I done?" moment.

[bamagal]

Anyone have a take on why they haven't tweeted about the two interviews they've done? I find it interesting.

In my opinion, it definitely supports my thought that they really don't want any attention to be on them at this moment in time. I bet they are annoyed with all of the false stories out there and don't want to draw any attention towards themselves.

But at the same time, if people (other than us, of course) knew about these interviews and listened to them, a lot of lingering questions would be cleared up and tabloids would slow down on posting negative things about them when they hear how happy they are.

IMO, the tabloids will never slow down -- they have a certain number of words to publish each week! What I have finally realized is that those words don't necessarily HAVE to be true, or even partially true!  I no longer read the tabloid reports -- I rely on the members of this forum for the TRUTH!

[Jolena]

A thought I had.... Josh's comment on ATRC...he is trying....did he succeed?  We might get all three DWTS, wedding date and baby!

 Boy wouldn't that be GREAT !!!!   

[docnash14]

10 Degrees South
We loved having The Bachelorette's Andi Dorfman and Josh Murray dine with us at 10 Degrees South last night! Here the couple is with owner Justin Anthony and wife Kelly. Maybe a double date is in the future?

[docnash14]

At what time though do you think she precisely started to pull away from Nick to the point where Nick was having doubts? When was the turning point for her. I think I remember Nick when he met Andi's parents, on their farewell kiss, I believe while kissing her he opened his eyes to see if she was in the moment just as much as he was. Was that the moment when he started having doubts or before?

Not at all trying to be flippant, but was there ever a time when Nick had doubts? I know there were some ITMs and VOs when he seemed to express doubts but we can't be certain when they were filmed; they could have been filmed much later than they were shown. He was a little vague when he talked to Hy on the MTP so he might have had some slight misgivings then, but I think right up until the time Nick answered a knock on his door, expecting Neil Lane and getting Andi, he was pretty confident.

I think the turning point for Andi was the FD with Josh with all that resolved then, beginning with Josh telling her he loved her. As Andi told Chris when she sent him home, she was having a fight between he heart and her brain which were telling her different things and once she knew how Josh felt (including IMHO all that had happened with Nick) it unleashed a tsunami of emotions and her heart took completely over. After that Andi was pretty clearly shut down but even before then it was less that she was pulling away from Nick and more that she was being pulled closer and closer to Josh. That started before hometowns and quite some time before she could admit to herself how she really felt about Josh.

Totally agree and is exactly what I think Andi tried to say to Nick at the ATFR

[Spencer81]

Oh I was just thinking of his sexy growl today!! How many times I watched that scene so I could hear his hot voice say it so low and growly.. oh joshy, so yummy!!!

[Maggenzm]

Hi everybody!  
I've been lurking here the past few days, reading through spoiled and unspoiled discussions and catching up. This last interview (thank you all for bringing it here) reminded me of a certain point during Jodi's FD. Right after their talk about their parenting style and him reassuring her about his intentions and feelings again. They are all happy and giddy, kissing - and Andi says she thought he would never be the type to say it. The whole atmosphere changes, he asks why and she keeps saying "I don't know, I didn't know how you feel!"
I thought it was weird she freaked out like this, when they seemed to be in a happy place, but figured she was just self sabotaging again. However, this interview made me re-watch it and here is what she might have been thinking at that moment. "Ohh CRAP, I wasn't sure how you felt!!! I would have never slept with Nick if I knew! Please tell me I didn't jeopardize my fairytale ending with you!!!" Go and look at her face. Makes me really feel like they talked about Nick and everything else later that night and decided to focus on their bright future  :cutesmile!: 
Sorry for my rambling, English is my second (well, make it third) language   

PS. I still think she has no reason to feel guilty, but that is jmo

ITA - Initially I was way too focused on Josh's sexy "growl" saying "Don't categorize me!" But focusing on her, she definitely has an "oh crap - what have I done?" moment.

ITA, this interview cleared up a lot of questions for me regarding the FS date. We talked about that FS date in the fan forum that Andi looked sad and remorseful, and it was also said that if Josh date was first, she would not have slept with Nick. So, ITA, she freaked out ... now, I understand the reason of her statement "the whole thing can blow up to my face", she was still wondering if Josh is going to go thru it knowing that information..Josh has really proven to be the loyal partner he said he would be.

[Jolena]

Listening to it now.

Definitely one of their best. Josh totally knew about Nick, he says "of course I knew everything!!" when the topic gets brought up. Also, like someone mentioned already, Andi really does say Josh was secluded during ATFR so Josh wouldn't bash his (Nick's) skull in . I think the announcement is about the wedding, not dwts. He answers immediately that they have announcement when asked about the wedding, not mentioning spring like they do in other interviews.

They're really good at being interviewed!

I agree . She def told Josh about Nick in the Fantasy suite . "when she was sitting on the wall in the black dress" she said "this could all blow up in my face". She was probably worried that josh would think about what she told him went on with Nick and maybe decide not to propose in the end.
I also agree that had she had the FD with Josh first , there would have been no Fantasy suite for Nick.

I'm thinking that the producers did have a hand in Nick throwing her under the bus .,now that Josh said he was in the back room and didn't see or hear anything that went on , on stage ATFR , and that they kept him away from it. ( did tptb know before hand what was going to go down on stage? ) ( I was at the ATFR when Jason was the Bachelor and he watched it back stage, other leads did as well). Maybe they changed things up since then but seeing how Nick was a puppet for tptb this season makes me believe that they had a hand in it. Niki sure did seem to think it from her tweet afterwards. No excuses for Nick because it was still Classless and dumb of him to sell out like that if that's what indeed happened. just saying.

[Jolena]

Oh I was just thinking of his sexy growl today!!  How many times I watched that scene so I could hear his hot voice say it so low and growly..   oh joshy, so yummy!!!  

One of my favorite parts too !!Can't say it enough, Andi is a lucky girl !!   

[Eagle Eye]

Even if he isn't the blond-haired, blue-eyed type she says she normally prefers, I don't think Andi's suffering too much having to settle for Josh.     On the FD episode when she was recapping all the guys, she was practically drooling describing him: "He's got that dark hair, that olive skin, those piercing eyes... he's tall, he's built... he's a hunk." Um, that's putting it mildly. And it's funny because they're just so, so pretty together that I really can't imagine them with anyone else. I don't actually think they look alike, as Kelly Ripa said, but they just "go." I mean, let's be honest. It's completely ridiculous how good they look together. Could they BE more stunning?

[Maggenzm]

Even if he isn't the blond-haired, blue-eyed type she says she normally prefers, I don't think Andi's suffering too much having to settle for Josh.     On the FD episode when she was recapping all the guys, she was practically drooling describing him: "He's got that dark hair, that olive skin, those piercing eyes... he's tall, he's built... he's a hunk." Um, that's putting it mildly. And it's funny because they're just so, so pretty together that I really can't imagine them with anyone else. I don't actually think they look alike, as Kelly Ripa said, but they just "go." I mean, let's be honest. It's completely ridiculous how good they look together. Could they BE more stunning?

ITA  

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