Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #2

by mamahamme Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:52 pm

Great points nannymargie . When she went to Mexico and her friend told a friend it was a last minute trip I started thinking something wan't right. Plus I noticed josh added a Victoria secret model(very sexy) posts to his twitter I thought that odd. That isn't like him but he did that while she was in Mexico. I still baffled though seeing them out to dinner last friday and the mall a week ago and still going to the gym together . That part blows my mind. I am glad josh kept his obligation last night but that's how he was raised . Very responsible young man. Let's hope andi didn't take off to San Diego to get away. Her sister lives there.

by AnandaMarie Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:02 pm

edenpol wrote:
nannymargie wrote:IMO they were happier when they were home and in hiding and focused on their relationship 24/7.

The last few months there have been a lot of traveling for interviews and events. They were always packing, unpacking, flying somewhere doing the event flying back on red eye most of the time. Then get home rinse and repeat for the next event. That has to take a toll on any relationship much less a new one. Had they been able to stay home more and do charity events in ATL I think things might have been better.

Josh wanted to be a married man by the summer and start a family. I think Andi was pushing that back some because there was no planning going on.

The last event they did for Veterans Days they were both truly happy. Josh says he's not a bachelor anymore and Andi says no you're not and they were laughing. Josh even mentioned looking for a house. Something happened after that and things changed.

When they did that shoot for Travel Magazine something was not right then because Josh posted a picture of the scenery and never mentioned Andi. Then he posted one of him and Andi all dressed up and again he didn't mention Andi. Just said it was peaceful out there. I am not sure how long ago that was. But that was one of the first hints I got.
Then Andi going to Mexico and Josh posting about the same time that " He doesn't know what lies ahead but his Faith tell him God is already there. That was a major hint for me.

I know they are both hurting deeply and the love is still there. It all depends on how big the problems were if they can be over come.

Josh was out last nite because he had to be, it was an Advocare event. I can only imagine how hard that was for him to put on a happy face when he was hurting.

All I can say is, Jesus Take the Wheel, and wish the best for both of them. I would love to see them work things out but we will have to wait and see. I love them both.

Thank you for your post. I do too believe that traveling didn't help their relationship, and I believe they could solve things, I pray they will. Love them both.

Nannymargie and Eden, I could not agree with you more. They were so happy at AFR because they had spend two months in hiding, with each other almost 24/7 building their relationship. After the relationship went public, that changed and I think that contributed significantly to the split. They really were happy on Veteran's Day. But I still hope that they can fix things because they truly loved each other.

by nannymargie Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:14 pm

Chad posted an IG picture of Josh him and 3 others for an Advocare event today.

by ThankMeLater Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:21 pm

Hey guys I've been gone for a little while and I'm shocked by their abrupt break-up. Something must have happened at the premiere that must have got them to finally break things off.

by nannymargie Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:24 pm

ThankMeLater wrote:Hey guys I've been gone for a little while and I'm shocked by their abrupt break-up. Something must have happened at the premiere that must have got them to finally break things off.

There were signs before the premiere that something wasn't right with them. Josh looked very uncomfortable and Andi was trying to hard at being happy that it didn't seem natural.

by ThankMeLater Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:26 pm

^ I haven't watched the premiere yet so I'll check it out Smiley

by luvlady345 Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:35 pm

Well now that Josh is out at the Advocare event smiling because the show must go on, I wish the fans of the couple will cut Andi some slack at the red carpet for smiling because these where both obligations they had to attend regardless of what was/is going on in their personal lives/relationship...

by edenpol Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:36 pm

luvlady345 wrote:Well now that Josh is out at the Advocare event smiling because the show must go on, I wish the fans of the couple will cut Andi some slack at the red carpet for smiling because these where both obligations they had to attend regardless of what was/is going on in their personal lives/relationship...

Exactly! It was ashame it was not real, it seemed real to me back then, by I understand why they did it so..

by AnandaMarie Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:38 pm

luvlady345 wrote:Well now that Josh is out at the Advocare event smiling because the show must go on, I wish the fans of the couple will cut Andi some slack at the red carpet for smiling because these where both obligations they had to attend regardless of what was/is going on in their personal lives/relationship...

I don't think that he was smiling because he's happy. I think he's very sad and hurt but in public he makes everything seem fine. About the red carpet, I don't think either of them wanted to pretend. They were being courteous friends of Chris who didn't want to take away any of his attention and his premiere.
I just know that both Josh and Andi are very hurt and I would still love to see them get back together.

by ThankMeLater Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:40 pm

Were they contractually obligated to be there all smiles? If so, then yes I'll cut them some slack bc I'm sure if their relationship was rocky or even already broken up they wouldn't hav gone.

by luvlady345 Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:46 pm

edenpol wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:Well now that Josh is out at the Advocare event smiling because the show must go on, I wish the fans of the couple will cut Andi some slack at the red carpet for smiling because these where both obligations they had to attend regardless of what was/is going on in their personal lives/relationship...
Exactly! It was ashame it was not real, it seemed real to me back then, by I understand why they did it so..

Oh most definitely, I understand in both of these cases it's an obligation that they had... And in both cases (red carpet and advocare) they would much rather have not been there... Ali, talked about how when her and Roberto would have to go to events smiling for the masses, even though things were not right at home, especially on this scale it must be hard..... It's hard enough in my life when I get into an argument with my BF and have to go to a small gathering...

by edenpol Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:46 pm

ThankMeLater wrote:Were they contractually obligated to be there all smiles? If so, then yes I'll cut them some slack bc I'm sure if their relationship was rocky or even already broken up they wouldn't hav gone.

I think they did, but even if they didn't, if they didn't go, then all of the attention will be on them not coming instead of Chris. I think they took one for the team, and after thinking about it, I appriciate that.

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