Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #2

by AnandaMarie Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:28 am

Eden, I sent you a PM. Please check it whenever you have time.

by luvlady345 Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:34 am

Laudergirl wrote:I'm not against Andi, I think she has a lot of admiral qualities and I absolutely adored them together. But since the breakup I find myself most concerned about Josh and his future happiness. I just have a gut feeling it was Andi that initiated the split, and that at the end they were going through the motions because she wanted to still put n the happy front. There was something about the way she carried on at the premiere. She seemed so happy and giddy and I felt like she was more in control, with Josh just having to get through the night the best he could. That screams he was the one hurting more here to me. I just feel he is the more genuine and truthful with his feelings and would probably have preferred to not go through the act.

I would like to think she is heartbroken over this as well, and that she really did truly love him very deeply as she has said. I have no doubts that he truly loved her.

But I contribute that to her being the LEAD of the show, really Josh is/was just a by product she chose him.. So she had more of a responsibility to show than Josh so of course she would.... Doesn't mean that she is not hurting.... If E news account is correct yeah Andi did call it off... I doubt if either wanted to go through the act but both did an in several interviews.....

by AnandaMarie Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:51 am

Regardless of who ended it, or if it was mutual, I think that Andi is just as hurt as Josh. I don't think that she came on the show for fame and I don't think fame changed who she is as a person. I think it may have changed her priorities a little but it doesn't make Andi a bad person. People make mistakes. Maybe Andi did. If she did, I hope that she can learn from them and readjust her priorities in life.
I don't think either of them wanted to pretend anything but they could not have announced their breakup at Chris's premiere. They were just being kind and considerate to him, by not wanting to take away from his attention at his premiere.

by mamahamme Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:54 am

I'm not sure who broke it off either. The media didn't doesn't know anymore that what we know. But I believe Josh might have loved her more. It seemed lately he was drinking more than usual or his eyes always looked different. I.m not saying he was drunk . It just seems his eyes always looked shiny or glassy. I'm sure after the breath up he was hurting.One thing we all agree on is the love we saw between them was very special. So maybe with that love they will be able to fond their way back together. Living in the same town not far apart I'm sure they will see each other. At least I'm counting on it. laugh out loud

I don't think we've heard the last of it.Josh has very high standards, which he should,so it might be hard to replace Andi and with him wanting a family he realizes it might get harder to find the lady.As for Andi, Wake up girl and see what you lost, every girls dream of a man!

by edenpol Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:00 pm

I know Andi didn't fake it, she wasn't there for the fame. There is no way she is that good of an actress. We saw it ourself, we all fell inlove with them. Plus, 8 months is a lot of time to pretend. Something went wrong, but we don't know what, and I don't think we should choose who to blame.
Josh fell in love with Andi, and they stayed together for 8 months, that shows she's special. I believe in them. I love them both just the same.

by luvlady345 Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:02 pm

edenpol wrote:I know Andi didn't fake it, she wasn't there for the fame. There is no way she is that good of an actress. We saw it ourself, we all fell inlove with them. Plus, 8 months is a lot of time to pretend. Something went wrong, but we don't know what, and I don't think we should choose who to blame.
Josh fell in love with Andi, and they stayed together for 8 months, that shows she's special. I believe in them. I love them both just the same.

AGREE, 100% no blame for either of them for me..

by mag pie Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:05 pm

I'm not against Andi either & wish her the best. I do believe that what she wanted was ultimately more important to her than building a long term relationship which requires work. There's someone that's awesome out there for Josh.

by mamahamme Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:08 pm

I believe in them too! This thing about blondes I'm not sure how that started but I saw a picture of a gf on a boat back in summer 2013 and she had dark hair. Now I know the gf they talked about had blondish brown hair but I don't think that matters to Josh it's about the person them self. I'm with ya edenpol still got my fingers crossed. Oh I don't think Josh would ever be interested in Nikki especially everything that was so public about her and Juan Pablo. Plus I don't think his family would promote that. They really are a special family.

by AnandaMarie Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:11 pm

luvlady345 wrote:
edenpol wrote:I know Andi didn't fake it, she wasn't there for the fame. There is no way she is that good of an actress. We saw it ourself, we all fell inlove with them. Plus, 8 months is a lot of time to pretend. Something went wrong, but we don't know what, and I don't think we should choose who to blame.
Josh fell in love with Andi, and they stayed together for 8 months, that shows she's special. I believe in them. I love them both just the same.

AGREE, 100% no blame for either of them for me..

Agree also. I hope and pray for them to get back together every day. I honestly believe that they can make it work.

by nannymargie Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:39 pm

IMO they were happier when they were home and in hiding and focused on their relationship 24/7.

The last few months there have been a lot of traveling for interviews and events. They were always packing, unpacking, flying somewhere doing the event flying back on red eye most of the time. Then get home rinse and repeat for the next event. That has to take a toll on any relationship much less a new one. Had they been able to stay home more and do charity events in ATL I think things might have been better.

Josh wanted to be a married man by the summer and start a family. I think Andi was pushing that back some because there was no planning going on.

The last event they did for Veterans Days they were both truly happy. Josh says he's not a bachelor anymore and Andi says no you're not and they were laughing. Josh even mentioned looking for a house. Something happened after that and things changed.

When they did that shoot for Travel Magazine something was not right then because Josh posted a picture of the scenery and never mentioned Andi. Then he posted one of him and Andi all dressed up and again he didn't mention Andi. Just said it was peaceful out there. I am not sure how long ago that was. But that was one of the first hints I got.
Then Andi going to Mexico and Josh posting about the same time that " He doesn't know what lies ahead but his Faith tell him God is already there. That was a major hint for me.

I know they are both hurting deeply and the love is still there. It all depends on how big the problems were if they can be over come.

Josh was out last nite because he had to be, it was an Advocare event. I can only imagine how hard that was for him to put on a happy face when he was hurting.

All I can say is, Jesus Take the Wheel, and wish the best for both of them. I would love to see them work things out but we will have to wait and see. I love them both.

by nannymargie Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:42 pm

AnandaMarie wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:
edenpol wrote:I know Andi didn't fake it, she wasn't there for the fame. There is no way she is that good of an actress. We saw it ourself, we all fell inlove with them. Plus, 8 months is a lot of time to pretend. Something went wrong, but we don't know what, and I don't think we should choose who to blame.
Josh fell in love with Andi, and they stayed together for 8 months, that shows she's special. I believe in them. I love them both just the same.

AGREE, 100% no blame for either of them for me..

Agree also. I hope and pray for them to get back together every day. I honestly believe that they can make it work.

I think they could also but they would both have to stay grounded and focus on what important and stop the traveling. There is plenty of charity events to do in ATL and they can be home.

by edenpol Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:43 pm

nannymargie wrote:IMO they were happier when they were home and in hiding and focused on their relationship 24/7.

The last few months there have been a lot of traveling for interviews and events. They were always packing, unpacking, flying somewhere doing the event flying back on red eye most of the time. Then get home rinse and repeat for the next event. That has to take a toll on any relationship much less a new one. Had they been able to stay home more and do charity events in ATL I think things might have been better.

Josh wanted to be a married man by the summer and start a family. I think Andi was pushing that back some because there was no planning going on.

The last event they did for Veterans Days they were both truly happy. Josh says he's not a bachelor anymore and Andi says no you're not and they were laughing. Josh even mentioned looking for a house. Something happened after that and things changed.

When they did that shoot for Travel Magazine something was not right then because Josh posted a picture of the scenery and never mentioned Andi. Then he posted one of him and Andi all dressed up and again he didn't mention Andi. Just said it was peaceful out there. I am not sure how long ago that was. But that was one of the first hints I got.
Then Andi going to Mexico and Josh posting about the same time that " He doesn't know what lies ahead but his Faith tell him God is already there. That was a major hint for me.

I know they are both hurting deeply and the love is still there. It all depends on how big the problems were if they can be over come.

Josh was out last nite because he had to be, it was an Advocare event. I can only imagine how hard that was for him to put on a happy face when he was hurting.

All I can say is, Jesus Take the Wheel, and wish the best for both of them. I would love to see them work things out but we will have to wait and see. I love them both.

Thank you for your post. I do too believe that traveling didn't help their relationship, and I believe they could solve things, I pray they will. Love them both.

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