Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #2

[nannymargie]

This is what MM posted on her facebook page:

Back in KC with these 2 cuties who roll out the red carpet every time I visit ... from fresh flowers to a wonderful dinner & my favorite chocolates

[Maggenzm]

I'm really not trying to stir up anything but I just made an observation. I know Andi and Josh have been in and out with the Bridal Week and the Pink Agenda etc. and have only recently settled back into Atlanta last week but... Kacie and Aaron got engaged on October 11 and MM flew back to KC to be with them again today (see her FB posts) and they are already working on their guest list. I'm just thinking, Aaron isn't lined up to play in any games anytime soon, at least as far as I know but yet, MM flew over to see them twice in about 3 weeks. I guess what I'm saying is, I want to see the balance. I would love to see MM fly into Atlanta, which is much closer to Tampa than Kansas City, to bond with Andi and Josh as well. Maybe I'm over analyzing and reading too much into the situation especially as Andi and Josh  have such busy schedules, but I just couldn't help but notice...

I think they are doing it right, Josh and Andi need to bond and build a strong foundation first, then the family will come to play. It's all going to balance out.

I hear what you are saying Maggenzm, but if that is the reason for the distance - spending time to build a strong foundation etc. how do you account for all the bonding with Andi's family? Yes, they live in the same state so it's natural that they'd see each other more often. But I mean, if they were to focus on their relationship then factor in the family equation, then the same would apply for the Dorfman family IMO.

I think the dorfman family is different to Murrays in that Josh was always the one giving to everyone, as was brought up on HMTD, so now he needs time to focus on his life, it will all work out eventually. But it's possible there is a little jalousie because now they have to share him, which might be a little difficult to adjust.

[aviej]

Ok MM said Kacie and Aaron will get married in 2016 so what's all the rush.  Kacie also posted that she needed suggestions on a bunch of things.  The way she is going at it you would think they were getting married in 6 months instead of Josh and Andi.

Precisely. IMO, she's doing that to keep up with the Joneses, who in this case are Andi and Josh, IMHO.

[Guest]

This is what MM posted on her facebook page:

Back in KC with these 2 cuties who roll out the red carpet every time I visit ... from fresh flowers to a wonderful dinner & my favorite chocolates

I am wondering if Kacie and Aaron are more needy right now.  That is why MM is spending some time with them.  They have both just moved to new cities and are having more transitions.  I think they need support.  Josh and Andi are more settled.   They do not need Momma Murray quite so much.  They have each other and Sable.  I too hope that the gossip mags do not read opinions or speculations on here and turn them into untrue and hurtful stories.

[Maggenzm]

Ok MM said Kacie and Aaron will get married in 2016 so what's all the rush.  Kacie also posted that she needed suggestions on a bunch of things.  The way she is going at it you would think they were getting married in 6 months instead of Josh and Andi.

Precisely. IMO, she's doing that to keep up with the Joneses, who in this case are Andi and Josh, IMHO.

Lets give her a little break, her first born is madly in love, and is giving all the attention to Andi in a way they didn't think he would, so she might feel a little threatened, it is understandable. I hear there is always a special place in a mother's heart for her first born, she might be missing him, but again, it will all workout.

[nannymargie]

Ok MM said Kacie and Aaron will get married in 2016 so what's all the rush.  Kacie also posted that she needed suggestions on a bunch of things.  The way she is going at it you would think they were getting married in 6 months instead of Josh and Andi.

Precisely. IMO, she's doing that to keep up with the Joneses, who in this case are Andi and Josh, IMHO.

Lets give her a little break, her first born is madly in love, and is giving all the attention to Andi in a way they didn't think he would, so she might feel a little threatened, it is understandable. I hear there is always a special place in a mother's heart for her first born, she might be missing him, but again, it will all workout.

We aren't saying anything about MM. She will always be'there for her children whenever she is needed. She did say Josh's wife would be his first priority. What I am not understanding what's the rush for Kacie to make a wedding list if there wedding is over a year away.

[aviej]

This is what MM posted on her facebook page:

Back in KC with these 2 cuties who roll out the red carpet every time I visit ... from fresh flowers to a wonderful dinner & my favorite chocolates

I am wondering if Kacie and Aaron are more needy right now.  That is why MM is spending some time with them.  They have both just moved to new cities and are having more transitions.  I think they need support.  Josh and Andi are more settled.   They do not need Momma Murray quite so much.  They have each other and Sable.  I too hope that the gossip mags do not read opinions or speculations on here and turn them into untrue and hurtful stories.

I like how you're thinking!

[Maggenzm]

Precisely. IMO, she's doing that to keep up with the Joneses, who in this case are Andi and Josh, IMHO.

Lets give her a little break, her first born is madly in love, and is giving all the attention to Andi in a way they didn't think he would, so she might feel a little threatened, it is understandable. I hear there is always a special place in a mother's heart for her first born, she might be missing him, but again, it will all workout.

We aren't saying anything about MM.  She will always be'there for her children whenever she is needed.  She did say Josh's wife would be his first priority.  What I am not understanding what's the rush for Kacie to make a wedding list if there wedding is over a year away.

You re right, we can only read btwn the lines, bcs it 's hard to tell what's really going on inside.

[MegMarie25]

Hi everyone my first time on here I am excited to see that others share the same love as I do.I am definitely going to have to get used to everything.

[aviej]

Welcome MegMarie25

[MegMarie25]

Thanks!! I have been following since the beginning and figured it was my time to join. You guys are good at this so I am glad to be apart of it now <3 I actually was just looking at MM on Facebook too a little odd I may add the way things have been lately with her but so glad Andi and Josh are having this time together
to become their own family.I definitely had to stop looking at different sites because as a fan it just makes me mad with what they come up with especially with
MM and the rest of the fam.I just remember to stay positive for them

[Lucas15]

Lets give her a little break, her first born is madly in love, and is giving all the attention to Andi in a way they didn't think he would, so she might feel a little threatened, it is understandable. I hear there is always a special place in a mother's heart for her first born, she might be missing him, but again, it will all workout.

It occurs to me that MM may be aware that the two most lasting bequests that parents can give to their children are roots and wings; roots to know where home is and wings to fly off, practice what they have learned and create their own family. It surely seems to me that Josh found more than just an adventure on The Bachelorette - he found gentle breezes, fair skies and his wings. I suspect MM is simply a proud parent watching her son soar on his own wings and giving him space to use them.

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