Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray *Fan Forum* Questions & Answers to Josh and Andi

[bamagal]

Thanks, Alanna - I could not remember the other hashtag he used!

[docnash14]

I changed my mind, just post your questions here. I created a thread just for me, and the questions because it was getting to confusing. Review the list, and post here if I missed anything.

I did not add any questions relating to Nick, or anything I thought might be scripted, as she wouldn't be able to answer them honestly. Nor did I include any questions regarding any feelings of guilt, or involvement with any of the other guys.

Great questions everyone!

Carry on! I need a coffee.

GA, will you please add Lucas' question:

We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it? (I would like to add in parentheses other than Josh giving you the roses which we all thought was so precious)

Here's two more from me:

Josh, how closely did you follow some of your former teammates' (such as Chad and Christian) tweets about the season? They had us all in stitches.

What are your thoughts about doing another reality show leading up to the wedding?

[docnash14]

I changed my mind, just post your questions here. I created a thread just for me, and the questions because it was getting to confusing. Review the list, and post here if I missed anything.

I did not add any questions relating to Nick, or anything I thought might be scripted, as she wouldn't be able to answer them honestly. Nor did I include any questions regarding any feelings of guilt, or involvement with any of the other guys.

Great questions everyone!

Carry on! I need a coffee.

GA, will you please add Lucas' question:

We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it? (I would like to add in parentheses other than Josh giving you the roses which we all thought was so precious)

Here's two more from me:

Josh, how closely did you follow some of your former teammates' (such as Chad and Christian) tweets about the season?  They had us all in stitches.

What are your thoughts about doing another reality show leading up to the wedding?

GA, thanks for doing all of this. Hope it's not getting too confusing. More specifically, I would like to break #7 into 2 questions. First:

During Memorial Day weekend, we noticed that Josh quickly deleted a tweet and then Rachel (Andi's sister) tweeted that Andi was with her (although Rachel tweeted a picture with her husband). We are wondering if Rachel was covering for you and you and Josh were actually together. If so, where were you?
(Ash, let me know if you want to add something here since you were one, if not the first, to notice this)

And then:

Based on your favoriting of the tweet yesterday, Andi, we are assuming that our sleuthing correctly placed you and Josh together over the 4th of July. Just to satisfy our curiosities, on what lake were you? How accurate were our assumptions that you were the one taking those pictures of Josh (and, if we may say so, you are quite right that you have a very hot fiance!)

[GuardianAngel]

Docnash - Lucas's question was added along with your two.

Here is the link with the list of questions. Check the list before asking a question, to avoid duplicate questions.

Questions

[GuardianAngel]

GA, thanks for doing all of this.  Hope it's not getting too confusing.  More specifically, I would like to break #7 into 2 questions.  First:

During Memorial Day weekend, we noticed that Josh quickly deleted a tweet and then Rachel (Andi's sister) tweeted that Andi was with her (although Rachel tweeted a picture with her husband).  We are wondering if Rachel was covering for you and you and Josh were actually together.  If so, where were you?
(Ash, let me know if you want to add something here since you were one, if not the first, to notice this)

And then:

Based on your favoriting of the tweet yesterday, Andi, we are assuming that our sleuthing correctly placed you and Josh together over the 4th of July.  Just to satisfy our curiosities, on what lake were you?  How accurate were our assumptions that you were the one taking those pictures of Josh (and, if we may say so, you are quite right that you have a very hot fiance!)

It's not confusing now that I separated the list from this topic.

Re the bold. Which tweet?

[alwaystulips]

Great thread! Thanks docnash for communicating with Mrs. Murray and GA for organizing the questions!

Here's a couple:

1. Has Andi had the opportunity to meet Aaron's girlfriend Kacie yet and compare notes on the Murray boys?

2. Besides "Shake Face", are there funny Murray or Dorfman family traditions that they've learned about?

[Acrunch]

I think we need to be careful and make sure we don't ask too many questions about "the past" and maybe more about them as a couple, our sleuthing suspicions, how they fell in love, what we didn't see,  and PLANS for the future. We are fans of JODI so lets keep the questions 100% positive and happy.  I don't think we should ask any questions about Nick or the other guys.  I'm afraid if she or Josh sees 1 question,  they may not answer the rest.  They've moved on passed the drama and probably don't want to deal with these questions anymore.  

Completely agree! It should be fun for them and about only them. Thanks for doing all this. Love this couple!

[teachturtle]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I totally agree with your post.   

I agree DocNash!

My 2 Cent:   :hidingchair  :hidingchair 

I think we need to be careful and make sure we don't ask too many questions about "the past" and maybe more about them as a couple, our sleuthing suspicions, how they fell in love, what we didn't see,  and PLANS for the future. We are fans of JODI so lets keep the questions 100% positive and happy.  I don't think we should ask any questions about Nick or the other guys.  I'm afraid if she or Josh sees 1 question,  they may not answer the rest.  They've moved on passed the drama and probably don't want to deal with these questions anymore.  

As far as how many questions....I suggest maybe 7-10...All positive JODI questions.

We have some good questions so far: I only have 2 question suggestions(not that important):   When the pic w. Steph was taken or has she been to Tampa since filming ended? What we didn't get to see during the HTD with Josh(i.e their goodbye and what else did they talk about)?

I was just going to say that , Steel!  All positive, no Nick or other guys, questions.  Fun and sleuthing!  Thats just my two cents worth!  Now I will continue reading!

[Guest]

When Mr. Dormant met Josh, did he know his last name? Did the Murray family come up at all during your family visit that the viewers didn't get to see? We know Hy is a big UGA fan, just wondering if he truly kept that under wraps.

[Linds911]

Agree positive about Josh and Andi only!

Only Q i can think of right now that hasn't been posted is:

Have they thought about a first dance song yet? If not, hopefully they can tell us before the wedding day.

[Guest]

When Mr. Dormant met Josh, did he know his last name?  Did the Murray family come up at all during your family visit that the viewers didn't get to see?  We know Hy is a big UGA fan, just wondering if he truly kept that under wraps.

OMG stupid auto correct! Obviously I meant Mr. Dorfman!!!

[GuardianAngel]

When Mr. Dormant met Josh, did he know his last name?  Did the Murray family come up at all during your family visit that the viewers didn't get to see?  We know Hy is a big UGA fan, just wondering if he truly kept that under wraps.

It's a good question, although I don't think we should go there. They might avoid it and we all know that been speculated to death at this point. JMHO

Agree positive about Josh and Andi only!

Only Q i can think of right now that hasn't been posted is:

Have they thought about a first dance song yet? If not, hopefully they can tell us before the wedding day.

and what is your favourite song right now?

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