Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray *Fan Forum* Questions & Answers to Josh and Andi

[Guest]

9. When Andi said her favorite GD was Boyz II Men and her favorite location was Belgium, was that because of the actual activity and location? Or did the growth in her connection with Josh during those episodes come into play?

10. If Andi had to do it again, would she change something just a little ?

11. Did they actually fight and did josh know that andi cried over him and how did they resolve it? Any kisses? We lacked some that episode

12. Did andi actually hope it was josh who snuck over and what did she and he think when nick went over instead?

13. Who said they had feelings for the other first? And did andi tell josh during fantasy suite that she loves him? And did josh have trouble expressing his feelings as shown?

14. Did andi ever feel guilty with the other guys especially nick during final date when she knew it was going to be josh all along? Was she constantly thinking about josh when with other guys?

15. The heart shaped necklace she has been wearing post show, is that a gift from Josh?

[joshfan]

Is there actually many photos of her wearing that heart shaped necklace, I remember only seeing her where it once?

[Guest]

Is there actually many photos of her wearing that heart shaped necklace, I remember only seeing her where it once?

She is wearing it in the People Magazine and I'm sure I have seen it somewhere else too.

[joshfan]

10. If Andi had to do it again, would she change something just a little ?

11. Did they actually fight and did josh know that andi cried over him and how did they resolve it? Any kisses? We lacked some that episode

12. Did andi actually hope it was josh who snuck over and what did she and he think when nick went over instead?

13. Who said they had feelings for the other first? And did andi tell josh during fantasy suite that she loves him? And did josh have trouble expressing his feelings as shown?

14. Did andi ever feel guilty with the other guys especially nick during final date when she knew it was going to be josh all along? Was she constantly thinking about josh when with other guys?

15. The heart shaped necklace she has been wearing post show, is that a gift from Josh?

16. Were those quick three kisses (as seen in belgium) andi's indirect way of saying i love you to josh?

[joshfan]

Ooh get rid of my 16 and replace it with: since they were together everyday, what did you guys do? And did they watch their parts together eventually since andi watched it with kelly and that and josh watched it alone?

[docnash14]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute. I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions. In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!). Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness. So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded? As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

[Guest]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I totally agree with your post.   

[Guest]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I totally agree with your post.   

I agree DocNash!

My 2 Cent:   :hidingchair  :hidingchair 

I think we need to be careful and make sure we don't ask too many questions about "the past" and maybe more about them as a couple, our sleuthing suspicions, how they fell in love, what we didn't see,  and PLANS for the future. We are fans of JODI so lets keep the questions 100% positive and happy.  I don't think we should ask any questions about Nick or the other guys.  I'm afraid if she or Josh sees 1 question,  they may not answer the rest.  They've moved on passed the drama and probably don't want to deal with these questions anymore.  

As far as how many questions....I suggest maybe 7-10...All positive JODI questions.

We have some good questions so far: I only have 2 question suggestions(not that important):   When the pic w. Steph was taken or has she been to Tampa since filming ended? What we didn't get to see during the HTD with Josh(i.e their goodbye and what else did they talk about)?

[joshfan]

Is it okay to ask what happened during the lie detector test although unhappy, it would be interesting to see how they resolved it? Andi did mention there were some good parts that we didn't see

[Lucas15]

Question: We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it?

[joshfan]

Question: We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it?

And without saying the 10 roses cause we actually saw that HAHAHA

[bamagal]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I agree! They have already been grilled by the media -- we are NOT the enemy and do not want to abuse the graciousness of MM!

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