Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray *Fan Forum* Questions & Answers to Josh and Andi

[bamagal]

The question I have spent the most time dwelling on is "Where did they spend 4th of July?"  I think we all agree they were together, but WHERE?  (Not sure why I just HAVE to know the answer to that one!)  AND, for all the times I have watched and counted those three little kisses,  please confirm that they were "code" for ILY!
With that being said, I think the questions should focus on letting Josh and Andi know just how "invested" we all were in watching their developing relationship and confirming the answers to all the "clues" we gathered along the way. Anything more seems like an invasion of privacy to me!

[docnash14]

The question I have spent the most time dwelling on is "Where did they spend 4th of July?"  I think we all agree they were together, but WHERE?  (Not sure why I just HAVE to know the answer to that one!)  AND, for all the times I have watched and counted those three little kisses,  please confirm that they were "code" for ILY!

We already have you covered about your first question and I think one other person already suggested the one about the kisses as well.

[docnash14]

Question: We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it?

Got it, thanks, Lucas.

[Guest]

Even the wardrobe malfunction photo (scarf) pic, I think Andi took it! Can we group that in with the night time fishing, Sabel/Josh nose kissing pic. They've come out and said they were together everyday, so I think we have fun and just ask if she took all of the photos of Josh that were posted before they came out and then name them specifically. Again, as Docnash said come at this from a fun fan prospective, how excited we are showing that we picked up on these things hoping that they were true.

[docnash14]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I totally agree with your post.   

I agree DocNash!

My 2 Cent:   :hidingchair  :hidingchair 

I think we need to be careful and make sure we don't ask too many questions about "the past" and maybe more about them as a couple, our sleuthing suspicions, how they fell in love, what we didn't see,  and PLANS for the future. We are fans of JODI so lets keep the questions 100% positive and happy.  I don't think we should ask any questions about Nick or the other guys.  I'm afraid if she or Josh sees 1 question,  they may not answer the rest.  They've moved on passed the drama and probably don't want to deal with these questions anymore.  

As far as how many questions....I suggest maybe 7-10...All positive JODI questions.

We have some good questions so far: I only have 2 question suggestions(not that important):   When the pic w. Steph was taken or has she been to Tampa since filming ended? What we didn't get to see during the HTD with Josh(i.e their goodbye and what else did they talk about)?

Steel, I am with you about Steph's picture. I either posted about it or have it in my own notes. I am very intrigued about how the HTD ended but am not sure that, if, in fact they were allowed extra time, they would be able to answer truthfully but we sure can ask!

[luvlady345]

Yeah, I agree enough with rehashing about the show.... I would like to know how the apartment/house hunting is going? If Andi or Josh would participate on DWTS?

[Alanna]

Even the wardrobe malfunction photo (scarf) pic, I think Andi took it!  Can we group that in with the night time fishing, Sabel/Josh nose kissing pic. They've come out and said they were together everyday, so I think we have fun and just ask if she took all of the photos of Josh that were posted before they came out and then name them specifically. Again, as Docnash said come at this from a fun fan prospective, how excited we are showing that we picked up on these things hoping that they were true.  

ITA. Who would want to answer if she feels guilty kissing other guys and all this private, sensitive stuff? This is way more fun. JMO.

I think the wardrobe malfunction pic was a selfie. Andi was watching the show with Kelly. I've stalked his sm too much, I know!

Interesting sm note- he used the same Bible quote immediately after filming ended and then Monday night when the finale aired about finding what he's looking for in life, obviously Andi. Have we mentioned she's a lucky girl yet??

[Laura Walsh]

Doc Nash,

I totally agree with you. Because you are the one with the most experience in the way the mind works I would suggest that you take out any questions about Nick. I think that would totally turn them off. And we are doing this for answers to our questions not to think we're being nosy about Andi and Nick's relationship.

And as you're the one sending the questions I think you should word the questions as you think appropriate.

[Laura Walsh]

To all:

I am going to send the flowers tomorrow being today's Sunday. I will call the floratampa shop that someone suggested on here. I agree that ten instead of a dozen would have more meaning.

What I need help with is exactly what to write on the card. I want it to be from all of us. Also in a vase or in a box?

Thank you for those that offered to chip in but this is the least I can do for all the months of enjoyment this forum has given me not to mention all the times my doubts would surface and the encouragement I was given by all.

So please give me suggestions on what to put on the card and vase or box.

Thanks
Laura

[bamagal]

To all:

I am going to send the flowers tomorrow being today's Sunday.  I will call the floratampa shop that someone suggested on here. I agree that ten instead of a dozen would have more meaning.

What I need help with is exactly what to write on the card.  I want it to be from all of us.  Also in a vase or in a box?

Thank you for those that offered to chip in but this is the least I can do for all the months of enjoyment this forum has given me not to mention all the times my doubts would surface and the encouragement I was given by all.

So please give me suggestions on what to put on the card and vase or box.

Thanks
Laura

Perhaps something along the lines of "Thanks for sharing this special family time with all of us" or "In appreciation for allowing us to be a part of this beautiful love story"

[GrahamGal]

I hope I won't offend anyone by letting the psychologist in me speak for just a minute.  I think it important that we demonstrate how grateful we are to Andi and Josh for being willing to entertain these questions.  In no way do I want them to think we are putting either or both on the spot (or that we are subjecting them to a lie detector test!).  Therefore, I think we need to ensure that we don't ask closed-ended questions (questions that require a yes or no response) or questions starting with why as both tend to foster defensiveness.  So may I suggest that some of these be re-worded?  As GuardianAngel suggested, I think the plan is for everyone to throw questions out here like we are already doing, and then (after everyone has a chance to chime in) decide which ones and how many for me to forward on to Josh's mom.

I 100% completely agree. When I have been going through my mind about questions I also think about not wanting to offend them or ask questions I know they can't answer. I too want to make sure they understand they do not have to answer any anything they do not want. I don't want them to feel obligated. I will be adding to the list later today. Thanks again for reaching out to MM docnash!

[GuardianAngel]

I have 6 pages to catch up on. May I suggest quoting this post, and adding your question to the list in a simple sentance format. It would be much simpler to keep track of all the questions.

Or just copy all the questions, paste it in your reply box, add your question.

If you click quote, put your mouse before [/quote , at the very end of the quote,  enter twice,  and add your question. Make sure the last thing you see is [/quote ] or add it if it's not there.

Once all the questions have been listed, it will be decided amongst yourselves which questions should be asked. The questions will go along with a letter, explaining what the sleuthers have been up to, letting them know the ribbons were sleuthed out, they don't have to answer questions they are not comfortable with, and the appreciation everyone has for them to take the time to do this.

I have some good questions!

1. Did Josh talk to Hy night one? If so, did Hy immediately know who he was? What was their interaction like?

2. What did Andi and Josh talk about in their first conversation night one other than sushi?

3. When and how did Andi realize that Josh was Aaron Murray's brother?

4. When Andi visited the losing basketball team in CT, what did they do/talk about?

5. What did Andi write on the broken bat?

6. When/where/how did Josh give her chocolates for her birthday?

7. Where they together on Memorial Day and July 4th (Docnash)

8. Where they allowed additional off camera time during HTD. (Docnash)

9. Are any future appearances scheduled. like a pro baseball game for Josh to throw out first pitch. (Jolena)

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