Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Thread #7

[Guest]

Sharleen's ep 9 blog on her website is even worse. She's so pro-Nick that it's so weird. I wonder what she'll say after she see's the video of Nick on the phone. Idk does anyone else feel like Andi will probably pull away from her as friends? I wouldn't even really consider them real friends as they have only known each other for a couple of months and doesn't seem like they see each other much IMO.

I don't find it that odd since she seems to really want Nick for herself. Best friends can have totally different types when it comes to guys. Perfect example is Nikki Ferrell who is still with JP. Andi couldn't stand him and Nikki is totally in love with him, but they still appear to be very close. The nice thing is that Sharleen, although bias towards Nick, does have good things to say about Josh too, although I wonder why she left out most of the evening portion of their FS date in her blog. I would have loved her input on the steamy pool scene.

[emilymelfan]

I love that my two favorites from this season are so close!  

[pander3575]

Sharleen's ep 9 blog on her website is even worse. She's so pro-Nick that it's so weird. I wonder what she'll say after she see's the video of Nick on the phone. Idk does anyone else feel like Andi will probably pull away from her as friends? I wouldn't even really consider them real friends as they have only known each other for a couple of months and doesn't seem like they see each other much IMO.

I don't find it that odd since she seems to really want Nick for herself. Best friends can have totally different types when it comes to guys. Perfect example is Nikki Ferrell who is still with JP. Andi couldn't stand him and Nikki is totally in love with him, but they still appear to be very close. The nice thing is that Sharleen, although bias towards Nick, does have good things to say about Josh too, although I wonder why she left out most of the evening portion of their FS date in her blog. I would have loved her input on the steamy pool scene.

I agree and she admits it which I do like but on another note she is always talking about Nick and Andi's chemistry that it is over the top but seems to skim Andi and Josh chemistry. I know the reasons why the couples like the ocean they can talk (and other things   ) but the pool they didn't have mics either and what was shown was over the top hot. I'd be surprised if they made it out of the pool with their suits on.

[BachfanNY]

I love that my two favorites from this season are so close!  

Yes, and they are both such sweethearts. That's why I can't get behind Nick. Personally, I'm attracted to sweetheart-ed men who are sensitive to the feelings of others. I loved that when Josh got out of the car to meet CH in the last RC he was chatting it up and making conversation. That's just who he is. Love it.

[Spencer81]

I would luv to hear from a cameraman how it really was!! Sometimes in the past they have made comments about how they could tell who was her choice. Dam.. I'm sure they could tell in that pool scene!

[Guest]

I read Sharleen's blog and also Chris Harrison's blog.  I am very much a Josh fan but what I'm saying here is not sour grapes about Nick.

I wish that everyone will stop pointing out that with Nick she has that intelligent guy that she can have deep conversations with.  With Josh this is Andi's comfort zone.  Josh is the guy she's used to.  This is pretty much what is said in both these blogs.

So again, they are pretty much saying that Andi should pick Nick but she picks Josh because she's comfortable with him as her type.  Whereas I think she picks Josh because she's over the moon in love with him.

I just see more with Josh than Nick.  Josh is the one she's always talking to in that low voice, like they're having a very private conversation.  I think Josh is the only one she's called babe.  I also think Josh is the only one that she's admitted to being nervous with.  Nervous on the first date, nervous to meet his parents.  In the hometown date Josh was the only date that she talked with his family as maybe any real girl starting a relationship with a guy would be, asking questions.  But with the others, it was mostly her answering questions from the guy's families.

I just don't think Josh is getting the credit that he deserves.  He could probably run rings around Nick in a deep conversation but no one seems to think of Josh this way.

Does anyone else agree with this?

I agree!  I don't know that I would necessarily go as far as the bolded because I think they both are intelligent and more than capable of deep conversations, but I do take issue with relegating Josh to "dumb jock" status, as I believe that is not the case.  I believe Andi had real feelings for Nick, and really gave a relationship with him all the consideration he deserved, but to me, her total heart and being are madly in love with Josh.

Another I agree! When I look at the personal maturity between Josh and Nick, I see Josh as the mature one.  He has chosen to look at life on the bright side.  That is a choice!  He has had a lot of hard things in his life to overcome, ie: baseball career, parents with cancer, who knows what else has happened, but those things are difficult no doubt.  One of the most impressive statements he said to Andi, was that I love you and I know that you cannot say anything back, but it is important to me that you know that.  He is looking at what her needs are more than his own. On the other hand,  Nick's treatment of the other guys in the house and his personal interviews do not show good emotional awareness or maturity to me.  I am sure that Nick is book smart and a schemer, and probably does well in business, however, I would guess that Josh is a very similar match in intelligence and he far exceeds Nick in emotional intelligence. Certainly Sharleen, has her preference and would choose Nick, however I believe that Andi may be choosing the safer option, but also the more mature, intelligent and what her heart needs option, in choosing Josh.  Just my thoughts on people who I really do not know, except through the filter of the bachelorette edit!

[ThankMeLater]

My issue is that she is just over the top pro nick and just disregards and downplays Josh and Andi's relationship IMO.

[MJC1969]

Meet the parents who goes first ??? Nick then Josh or Josh then Nick I would prefer Nick to go first ..JS

[Alanna]

I love that my two favorites from this season are so close!  

Yes, and they are both such sweethearts. That's why I can't get behind Nick. Personally, I'm attracted to sweetheart-ed men who are sensitive to the feelings of others. I loved that when Josh got out of the car to meet CH in the last RC he was chatting it up and making conversation. That's just who he is. Love it.

Josh's behavior at the rc was really funny, he was all relaxed and chill I guess Andi wasn't keeping him in suspense after the fs. It's interesting that the more emotionally generous he is with her (constant ilys), the more emotionally generous she is with him, which isn't natural for her I don't think. Same with the affection, I don't think she's naturally a girl who wipes sweat/tears (ewww ), kisses noses and all that stuff, but Josh is always hugging her, kissing her head and my favorite shaking her and she's learning to reciprocate back. So sweet.

[Retiredswimmom]

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[MJC1969]

Did josh delete that pic he tweeted?

I think that pick was from IG not from Twitter.

He re posted it with this caption

joshmurray11
3 minutes ago
I've just been made aware I'm allowed to do 2 #tbt pics, wow, what a revelation! Surfing on the Gondola in Venice one more time #scoopscoop

[Jolena]

Oh and how his face is 2 inches away from hers.  How can she even think straight!  I don't think she can..  

      I agree . There hasen't been not one time when Josh was with her that he isn't touching her or rubbing her or has his face very very close to hers) Not once. He was even rubbing her arm when they were arguing over the lie det test. IMO he is the REAL man and knows exactly what to do with his women.  :Nod: He even made sure again in the fantasy suite that knowing what was about to happen that night that she was confident that he loved her and that it was important to him that she know that. ( another words he was saying this isn't just another roll in the hay for him). Gotta hand it to him, he really has his Sh_t together. None of the other guys even come close., it's no wonder she was about to have heart failure if he didn't say ILY . And the pool scene trumps any other romantic scene she had with anyone else. ok MJC time to post that little hot pool scene video again.  :cutesmile!:    

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