Re: Nick Viall Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Discussion - Thread #4

[Guest]

Anyone care to interpret it for me?    

Nothing says hump day better than being accosted by a dog who has yet to be neutered. Happy Wednesday!

— Nicholas Viall (@viallnicholas28) July 16, 2014

[jen689]

You're welcome!

Jen!...love your Avi...love a happy Nick in a checkered shirt!

Thank you!

The shirt, the smile, the scenic background...a perfect combination for   Nick

[notarose]

You're welcome!

Jen!...love your Avi...love a happy Nick in a checkered shirt!

Thank you!

The shirt, the smile, the scenic background...a perfect combination for   Nick

Great posts of the blogs Jen!   

[Guest]

loving their journey so far!

"sometimes I start a sentence and I don't even know where it's going...I just hope I find it along the way". Michael Scott. #icanrelate

— Nicholas Viall (@viallnicholas28) June 20, 2014

sooo...to honor the jean jammin against the tree (again!) between these 2, here is the Update:

---  :sweetheart:  THE SECRET ROMANCE BETWEEN :peanutbutter: AND THE   ---

Miss her man much?   

Words of wisdom Wednesday... pic.twitter.com/BKnlo7Z5Hy

— Andi Dorfman (@AndiDorfman) July 9, 2014

3 days after 4th of July (the alleged SH visit). Just sayin again.

Gosh I love peanut butter

— Nicholas Viall (@viallnicholas28) July 7, 2014

just before 4th of July (the alleged SH visit).Just sayin.

Why are Reese's peanut butter cups and red wine so good together?

— Andi Dorfman (@AndiDorfman) July 3, 2014

Where it all begins  

If you have a whole bottle of red wine.. You'll end up with purple teeth. Now I know.#TheBachelorette

— Nicholas Viall (@viallnicholas28) June 17, 2014

[notarose]

True Love: How Do You Know?
By SAMUEL LÓPEZ DE VICTORIA, PH.D.

"Part 1: Passion
This part includes physical and sexual attraction. It is like “Wow!”… You might hear angels and music…… . You initially cannot get over this person. The attraction is overwhelming. Pheromones abound. Electricity and chemistry are constantly zapping and bubbling in and around you. You feel an obsessive need to have your feelings reciprocated. For most persons, this is the first part of feeling attraction.

Part 2: Intimacy
Intimacy leads to attachment. It creates closeness and connectedness. We call this process becoming bonded with another person. Intimacy grows first by spending much time with another person. Then it grows deeper by sharing with one another every aspect of our lives. Intimacy is built on trust and safety. If you cannot trust and feel safe with a person then intimacy disappears and will degenerate into distrust and suspicion.

Since intimacy takes patience to develop, many are not prepared for such task. It is work. It implies a lot of talking and disclosure. If a person has been hurt in previous relationships, then they will have great difficulty finding closeness due to previously existing walls of distrust. The tendency will be to project past hurts on the present relationship.

Part 3: Commitment
Commitment implies the ability to stay connected no matter what. A mature person is one who can work through misunderstandings and hurts. A key to staying together is believing the best of the other person, not prejudging them with bad motives. It is working positively to resolve issues. For a couple to stay together they must consistently break through the barriers of being hurt while assuming that the other person wants to resolve the issue also.

Commitment involves being conciliatory and pursuing the relationship no matter how you feel. That is why we have social contracts such as engagement and marriage. Sure, these can be broken, but it will make you think twice before breaking them, especially when you have a lot of “equity” invested into the relationship. Commitment is not for the lighthearted. Herein lies the real test. Will you be committed to that person even when they gain some pounds, lose their hair, get sick, change in their economic status, etc.? Commitment does not mean you have to agree with everything, just that you can respect their differences.

True love has all three of these components. Having only a couple will show that the relationship has lost its air and needs help. The famous wise king Solomon once said, that “many waters cannot quench love” True love is like a flame. All the monsoon rains, hurricanes, and floods cannot put out the flame of love. What is your love made of?"

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/05/24/true-love-how-do-you-know/2/

[remockered]

Do not give up and lose hope. Have faith in what is being shown. That is all I can say.

[isittrue]

I want to thank everyone who posts in this thread for being so positive. It is a nice haven for us Nick fans to escape to when things are a little, shall we say, negative, in the other threads.

[SueSt]

Thanks so much for posting the blog recaps, Jen!   

[Guest]

Do not give up and lose hope.  Have faith in what is being shown.  That is all I can say.

Thanks so much remockered. You have no idea how much it means to us, on these crazy days, on the bumpiest road.!..That is all what we can ask for! 

[GuardianAngel]

Do not give up and lose hope.  Have faith in what is being shown.  That is all I can say.

Your input is very much appreciated. I hope you stick around once this is all said and done for post show discussion.

[SueSt]

Do not give up and lose hope.  Have faith in what is being shown.  That is all I can say.

"I do .....and I do", remockered...   
Is that good enough???   

[SueSt]

True Love: How Do You Know?
By SAMUEL LÓPEZ DE VICTORIA, PH.D.

"Part 1: Passion
This part includes physical and sexual attraction. It is like “Wow!”… You might hear angels and music…… . You initially cannot get over this person. The attraction is overwhelming. Pheromones abound. Electricity and chemistry are constantly zapping and bubbling in and around you. You feel an obsessive need to have your feelings reciprocated. For most persons, this is the first part of feeling attraction.

Part 2: Intimacy
Intimacy leads to attachment. It creates closeness and connectedness. We call this process becoming bonded with another person. Intimacy grows first by spending much time with another person. Then it grows deeper by sharing with one another every aspect of our lives. Intimacy is built on trust and safety. If you cannot trust and feel safe with a person then intimacy disappears and will degenerate into distrust and suspicion.

Since intimacy takes patience to develop, many are not prepared for such task. It is work. It implies a lot of talking and disclosure. If a person has been hurt in previous relationships, then they will have great difficulty finding closeness due to previously existing walls of distrust. The tendency will be to project past hurts on the present relationship.

Part 3: Commitment
Commitment implies the ability to stay connected no matter what. A mature person is one who can work through misunderstandings and hurts. A key to staying together is believing the best of the other person, not prejudging them with bad motives. It is working positively to resolve issues. For a couple to stay together they must consistently break through the barriers of being hurt while assuming that the other person wants to resolve the issue also.

Commitment involves being conciliatory and pursuing the relationship no matter how you feel. That is why we have social contracts such as engagement and marriage. Sure, these can be broken, but it will make you think twice before breaking them, especially when you have a lot of “equity” invested into the relationship. Commitment is not for the lighthearted. Herein lies the real test. Will you be committed to that person even when they gain some pounds, lose their hair, get sick, change in their economic status, etc.? Commitment does not mean you have to agree with everything, just that you can respect their differences.

True love has all three of these components. Having only a couple will show that the relationship has lost its air and needs help. The famous wise king Solomon once said, that “many waters cannot quench love” True love is like a flame. All the monsoon rains, hurricanes, and floods cannot put out the flame of love. What is your love made of?"

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/05/24/true-love-how-do-you-know/2/

Really good article NR; thanks for posting.
So at this point in the show Andi is at #1 with Josh and #2 with Nick...
Looking forward to seeing the love bloom with Nick as they move to #3.

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