Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Thread #6

[cindebugg]

She told him she liked what he was saying to her and that she never thought he'd be the type to say it. That's when he responded with the "why not?" She just said she didn't know.

Thanks!!  Andi is so frustrating..every week seems to be a new issue w. her.  

Yes next week she tells him she has been spending more time thinking about what could go wrong instead of what could go right!

I don't believe that's any sort of drama.  I'm guessing that she was talking about how she was feeling through out the process.   Lord knows she tried for weeks to find something wrong with him and every time she thought she found something it turned out to be nothing and she didn't need to worry at all.

[Alanna]

Thanks!!  Andi is so frustrating..every week seems to be a new issue w. her.  

Yes next week she tells him she has been spending more time thinking about what could go wrong instead of what could go right!

I don't believe that's any sort of drama.  I'm guessing that she was talking about how she was feeling through out the process.   Lord knows she tried for weeks to find something wrong with him and every time she thought she found something it turned out to be nothing and she didn't need to worry at all.

This is also true. He wants to hear all of her insecurities regarding him/their relationship so he can address them with her and since she's been reluctant to open up, it makes sense he's only hearing about it now. Like she told him he didn't think he was the type to express his love for her on their last date.

It's so great to see how Josh went from talking too fast during the lie detector fight because he didn't understand Andi or her fears and was afraid she'd send him home, to now being so calm and a great listener because he knows her better and understands what's driving the fears.

[Luvvy]

To be frank, I think the "real" Andi is on the serious side (more how we've seen her with Nick).  I think that Josh brings out her more playful side, not because it is "more" the real her, but because that is who HE is.  And that is good for her; she needs to laugh and be silly.  I can tell that she likes it when men bring that out in her.  

Speaking from my own experience, it is good for a smart, serious woman to marry a guy that has a lighter side, and can make her laugh.  That is a big part of what makes Andi and Josh click:  that he balances her, and gets her laughing.

That's a great point. I'm just referring more to the diva/brat side that she mentioned more so than the serious side. When she was talking about Josh she said she could be her "complete self" with him. So we agree, but I just am referring to all aspects of Andi more than just the serious side. I do think that it is important he can make her laugh and lighten her up. I also think it's important he can "handle" her bratty self.

ITA. Josh sees and loves all of her, and told her as much. He knows she can be difficult and I loved how he laughed and said "of course!!!" he can handle it and then teased her. She needs that! I also really like that he doesn't rest until he "has" all of her, like he can tell there are still some walls up and she's on guard and he's actively working to talk through it with her so she's totally and completely in it like he is. It's so sweet imo that he isn't going to give up on her no matter how hard she wants to make it.

Josh looks happy!

Aww I love it. Thanks for posting.

He makes the funniest faces at her! It's hilarious! And her response is always, always to roll her eyes and laugh. So cute! I hope she's practicing the shake face because I don't think he'll rest until hers is up to snuff.

Alanna, ITA! It's like Josh knows he still has some work to do and he's okay with it! I think you are right that he won't give up on her. I think that thought is so swoon-worthy. I love him! I really hope they last.

[MJC1969]

[cindebugg]

Yes next week she tells him she has been spending more time thinking about what could go wrong instead of what could go right!

I don't believe that's any sort of drama.  I'm guessing that she was talking about how she was feeling through out the process.   Lord knows she tried for weeks to find something wrong with him and every time she thought she found something it turned out to be nothing and she didn't need to worry at all.

This is also true. He wants to hear all of her insecurities regarding him/their relationship so he can address them with her and since she's been reluctant to open up, it makes sense he's only hearing about it now. Like she told him he didn't think he was the type to express his love for her on their last date.

It's so great to see how Josh went from talking too fast during the lie detector fight because he didn't understand Andi or her fears and was afraid she'd send him home, to now being so calm and a great listener because he knows her better and understands what's driving the fears.

Yes, and now he's confident that she won't be sending him anywhere unless she's going too.

[Alanna]

I don't believe that's any sort of drama.  I'm guessing that she was talking about how she was feeling through out the process.   Lord knows she tried for weeks to find something wrong with him and every time she thought she found something it turned out to be nothing and she didn't need to worry at all.

This is also true. He wants to hear all of her insecurities regarding him/their relationship so he can address them with her and since she's been reluctant to open up, it makes sense he's only hearing about it now. Like she told him he didn't think he was the type to express his love for her on their last date.

It's so great to see how Josh went from talking too fast during the lie detector fight because he didn't understand Andi or her fears and was afraid she'd send him home, to now being so calm and a great listener because he knows her better and understands what's driving the fears.

Yes, and now he's confident that she won't be sending him anywhere unless she's going too.

Haha soooo true! I already said this in the other thread but at this point, the only place Josh is going right now is home to atl with Andi.

[Luvvy]

I loved the Josh/Andi part of the show last night. Not sure if this has been addressed already today, but I really saw Andi pulling back from Nick. I'm not sure if it was the edit but their beach date seemed a bit awkward. Also, I saw the purple ribbon in one shot of Josh in next weeks preview...I suspect it's after the LCD and when he goes to pick out a ring. I also think the reason they aren't showing us the final rose ceremony preview is because I think she lets Nick go before (hence her crying in the car) and Josh is the only one the final day. IMO. I am so excited!!! Josh was so sweet last night and they are letting us (finally) see more of them as real couple without the silly edit. Swoon worthy for sure!

A couple of people have mentioned this - her pulling back with Nick. I noticed some awkwardness on their date too, not as easy-flowing as it's been earlier on. I don't know how to describe it but she's definitely on another level with Josh - more lighthearted and giddy. I hope your explanation of the previews is correct! Imagine pretty much the last half of the finale would be Josh and Andi if she lets Nick go early. I hope anyway.

[Retiredswimmom]

JPCook,

I'm sorry to say this. I saw your post in the Nick fan thread. His fan won't like it. Because it's only for positive post. Next time, if you want post something like that. Do it in the Nick contestant thread, it's where for all opinion and nobody would get upset.

Other than that, ITA. Good observation!

[Luvvy]

So Andi understands Spanish but can't speak it fluently? Josh can speak the language. He's such a great, well-rounded guy.

[MJC1969]

[Jpcook4]

JPCook,

I'm sorry to say this.  I saw your post in the Nick fan thread.  His fan won't like it.  Because it's only for positive post.  Next time, if you want post something like that.  Do it in the Nick contestant thread, it's where for all opinion and nobody would get upset.

Other than that, ITA.  Good observation!

thank you, I am new to this

[Piper61]

She will marry a man who has a purpose in life, a passion to match with wit, a man who makes her laugh, a man who makes her feel protected, nurtured and happy.  A handsome face and a ripped body are only the icing on a cake.  That man is our Joshy!

Love this!    And yes, that man is Josh!   

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