Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it. Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

pavalygurl wrote:I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it.   Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

IA how can someone be concerned that they are always happy? she's worried that Josh is always happy

pavalygurl wrote:I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it.   Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

Funny... when my DH proposed, my first answer was "even though I am a PITA"? (my way of calling myself a Pain in the A...)
The point is not changing IMO, the point is evolving, growing together.

GuardianAngel wrote:

pavalygurl wrote:I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it.   Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

IA how can someone be concerned that they are always happy? she's worried that Josh is always happy

Its ridiculous. She worries about the craziest things.

How can she be taken seriously when she worries about Josh being "too" positive and Nick being too serious which he clearly isn't ? She's a strange one.

I LOL'ed at the BIP commercial. That theme song and all those tears. Don't know if I'll watch. Don't really know most of these people, as my viewing of this show has tapered off dramatically the past couple of seasons. Just watched the finale with JPG, and I've only watched the last two episodes of this one. Started Des's, tuned out due to boredom and tuned back in for the finale.

Did Josh call Andi his "baby"? He said something like, "you're my..." "I know you can't say anything back..."

pavalygurl wrote:I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it.   Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

The sad part is that Andi comes across as though she is the only one in this universe. I was hoping to see her redemptive qualities emerge by the end of this but even the last episode which was heartbreaking has not seemed to soften her. IMO of course.

sophienette wrote:

pavalygurl wrote:I'd like Andi better if she tried to work on not being "difficult" rather than expecting her guy to deal with it.   Karma will come one day and it won't be pretty.

Funny... when my DH proposed, my first answer was "even though I am a PITA"? (my way of calling myself a Pain in the A...)
The point is not changing IMO, the point is evolving, growing together.

I like your team yellow ribbon tag line. I can totally see them having a future together. :cutesmile!: 

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richmondrose wrote:
Yup, she really turned me off this week.

She turned me off last season. ugh.

She got from Chris what Emily was looking for from Sean - him consoling her.
Plus she got Chris to admit that they would not be a good idea instead of being upfront with him and pulling the plug. She manipulated that whole situation so well.
Poor Chris.

I'm a bit floored at how clear it was for me during that sit down with CH -- thinking back it was similar in all the sit downs with CH - i think i was giving her the benefit of the doubt and wanting to see something more when there isn't but also seeing how controlled she was with Josh when he was professing his love -- IF she was indeed wanted it to be him and was ready to fall in love with him it didn't even look like she'd inched her way close until he gave her his full confession (emotions/vulnerabilities wise)... and for her to keep on being giddy at the idea of two guys proposing to her when she knows one will end in heart break is just ridiculous to me esp with her possibly knowing which way she's leaning...i find it quite callous...

You know this is the most difficult part of the whole bach/ette premise - someone at some point is probably going to be taken in and then hurt. It happened in the first bachelor with Alex, it happened in the first bachette with Trista (Charlie) and it will happen again this season. I think that in most cases the lead does know who they are choosing significantly before the FS or MTP. In fact CH in an interview said that women in particular seem to home in on a guy early and go after him, while the guy leads seem to remain open longer. So what is a girl to do?: You sign up for the show's premise and you actually fall in love but then, wait, the show's premise is suspense so you can't just stop the train and get off with your guy before the last episode. I think Andi feels a responsibility towards the franchise (in fact she said as much during the notification of Eric's death) and the show must go on. It is a very hard place to be.

SafronSahara wrote:Did Josh call Andi his "baby"? He said something like, "you're my..." "I know you can't say anything back..."

If he did, then those hastags were definitely for both Sabel and Andi . Maybe slightly more for Andi, since she is a human girl and also a bit needier than Sabel.

SafronSahara wrote:Did Josh call Andi his "baby"? He said something like, "you're my..." "I know you can't say anything back..."

Download came through! Will rewatch and tell you!

IA how can someone be concerned that they are always happy? she's worried that Josh is always happy[/quote]

Its ridiculous. She worries about the craziest things.

How can she be taken seriously when she worries about Josh being "too" positive and Nick being too serious which he clearly isn't ? She's a strange one.[/quote]

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