Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Nick is first just like I thought.

Have to say, for me, when I learned to love for real, I didn't have to minimize my previous loves.  The previous loves in my life made me better appreciate how great my husband was.

To me it was a sign of my maturity and the maturity of my husband when I didn't have to not admit to loving the ones who came before to make my current love real.

I am sorry if I offend but the Suave clips with the former leads are hilarious. Like any of them would use Suave on a daily basis.

Personally I don't think that just because someone is an ex, it automatically means that you didn't love them at some point and that when it was said it wasn't real. Of course that may be because I'm not someone who believes in the whole "soulmate" thing and "one person for a person" and instead believes that different people can come into your life for different reasons and even if they end up not being your forever, they still have some profound impact on your life.

So yeah, I get Josh is in the bubble and saying anything to push his great love for Andi and I doubt he meant it to be insulting but personally I would find it a little side-eye worthy that he apparently threw around the words so easily and didn't mean them but now suddenly with a woman he's known all of six weeks who's been dating other guys while dating him he totally means it? Okay then.

Alanna wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:

Alanna wrote:
ITA. He knows what he's getting into here with her and he loves all of her.

I like Chris! He would be a great Bach, arrests notwithstanding.

 what arrests

Chris has a long list of arrests from his early 20s, mostly drinking/driving iirc.

hadn't heard that. hopefully it won't affect him being the Bachelor, since they do rigorous background check s.

The producers are doing a dang good job creating doubt because my unspoiled friend thinks J Murr is going home this episode...

Piper61 wrote:

emusha wrote:ahh! Andi gets vulnerable/emotional during Josh's date!! Her face is very telling....

  That is precisely what I have been witnessing all season.

I would argue that she hasn't actually been vulnerable at all all season except for when nick told her he can feel her falling

Did I just see a yellow ribbon on Andi' wrist????

Alanna wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:

Alanna wrote:
ITA. He knows what he's getting into here with her and he loves all of her.

I like Chris! He would be a great Bach, arrests notwithstanding.

 what arrests

Chris has a long list of arrests from his early 20s, mostly drinking/driving iirc.

hadn't heard that. hopefully it won't affect him being the Bachelor, since they do rigorous background check s.

happygirl77us wrote:

Alanna wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:
 what arrests

Chris has a long list of arrests from his early 20s, mostly drinking/driving iirc.

 hadn't heard that. hopefully it won't affect him being the Bachelor,  since they do rigorous background check s.

traffic tickets are not the same as arrests

Adult romance?? I think porn... wth?

soccermom333 wrote:Adult romance??  I think porn... wth?

IA that is the oddest choice of words regardless of what she meant

I guess them fam threw him under the bus. Oy.