Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

I never heard him say he sensed something was off.
Off to find transcript!!

Here it is. He says "I sensed it". He sensed they'd be together.

:23-34…“Because I sensed it throughout the whole thing…and I kept saying to her ‘I can’t wait til we’re in the real world…can’t wait til we get to do this stuff…we just go to, like, K-Mart and just chill…and don’t even have to worry about the this other stuff, you know?’”

nutty1 wrote:Here it is. He says "I sensed it". He sensed they'd be together.

:23-34…“Because I sensed it throughout the whole thing…and I kept saying to her ‘I can’t wait til we’re in the real world…can’t wait til we get to do this stuff…we just go to, like, K-Mart and just chill…and don’t even have to worry about the this other stuff, you know?’”

nick, please stop shopping at kmart. it shows and is not a good look on you.   

Piper61 wrote:^^^The instant to me was Josh, ""Nailed it. Pegged it. Damn."

And from that day on, every time they met, their connection got stronger, all Josh had to do is be himself and Andi was mush.

emusha wrote:...Regardless of what happens i think nick has been a profound gift to her (whether she sees it or not) on the possibilities of romance/love he seems to be broadening her view and understanding of it and of herself which is fantastic to see!

Beautiful post emusha.  Nick has been a gift to us all - in so many ways!

Norcalgal wrote:

emusha wrote:o bring  to bring to do  Josh  in nd y ...Regardless of what happens i think nick has been a profound gift to her (whether she sees it or not) on the possibilities of romance/love he seems to be broadening her view and understanding of it and of herself which is fantastic to see!

Beautiful post emusha.  Nick has been a gift to us all - in so many ways!

   This... Emusha your words are beautiful and you don't bring down any other contestant in the process. I wish some of the Josh fans would be able to do the same.  Josh seems great I'm happy for them I don't need to bring him down because I like nick.

emad0722 wrote:

Norcalgal wrote:

emusha wrote:o bring  to bring to do  Josh  in nd y ...Regardless of what happens i think nick has been a profound gift to her (whether she sees it or not) on the possibilities of romance/love he seems to be broadening her view and understanding of it and of herself which is fantastic to see!

Beautiful post emusha.  Nick has been a gift to us all - in so many ways!

   This... Emusha your words are beautiful and you don't bring down any other contestant in the process. I wish some of the Josh fans would be able to do the same.  Josh seems great I'm happy for them I don't need to bring him down because I like nick.

ITA! I love reading your posts Emusha, you show such great insight!

isittrue wrote:

emad0722 wrote:

Norcalgal wrote:

Beautiful post emusha.  Nick has been a gift to us all - in so many ways!

   This... Emusha your words are beautiful and you don't bring down any other contestant in the process. I wish some of the Josh fans would be able to do the same.  Josh seems great I'm happy for them I don't need to bring him down because I like nick.

ITA!  I love reading your posts Emusha, you show such great insight!

Can I add myself to the Emusha post love?  :cutesmile!:

ironcat wrote:I agree.  Andi is going to have an epic meltdown when she sends Nick home at FRC.  I bet that's why he, per the plane video convo, remained so calm and didn't try to argue with her.  I really don't see him yelling at her or even giving her the cold shoulder like Ben did with Ashley.  I think Nick is much nicer and much more mature than Ben.

My 10 year old nephew is more mature than Ben "Cream Dream" F.   

emad0722 wrote:

Norcalgal wrote:

emusha wrote:o bring  to bring to do  Josh  in nd y ...Regardless of what happens i think nick has been a profound gift to her (whether she sees it or not) on the possibilities of romance/love he seems to be broadening her view and understanding of it and of herself which is fantastic to see!

Beautiful post emusha.  Nick has been a gift to us all - in so many ways!

   This... Emusha your words are beautiful and you don't bring down any other contestant in the process. I wish some of the Josh fans would be able to do the same.  Josh seems great I'm happy for them I don't need to bring him down because I like nick.

To be fair, there have been numerous negative posts about each contestant on this forum coming from different posters that are fans of different guys. It's the way it is. Some people prefer a certain contestant over another. It happens every season. It's a silly reality television show that people post their opinions on. I've seen several negative posts today about both Nick and Josh and I've seen positive posts on both Nick and Josh coming from a bunch of different people. People here called Josh bipolar and said he had anger issues with an awful temper because he was upset he lost a basketball game where he could of gotten more time with Andi and that obviously wasn't coming from Josh fans. I've read posts where people thought Nick wasn't being genuine or was just a strategist in a game and that too wasn't obviously coming from Nick fans. No need to sort of call out one group, especially when we're all guilty of it. We've all seen it. We all shouldn't take things too seriously. This should just be a fun way to sort of extend watching the show each week and enjoy figuring things out and reading different responses from different people. At least, that's what it's been for me.

Thanks yall    :cutesmile!:  My fave thing about this show over the years has become to learn about these complicated humans and the enjoy the nuances of the relationships (as much as they allow us to see it) and to nalyze and discuss it... it's a fascinating thing to watch....

nutty1 wrote:Here it is. He says "I sensed it". He sensed they'd be together.

:23-34…“Because I sensed it throughout the whole thing…and I kept saying to her ‘I can’t wait til we’re in the real world…can’t wait til we get to do this stuff…we just go to, like, K-Mart and just chill…and don’t even have to worry about the this other stuff, you know?’”

I think Nick is very intuitive and he might be expressing the "unknown" factor of how andi and nick would be in the real world...I think nick is probably so unfamiliar to Andi's relationships dictionary/encyclopedia...she has nothing to go off of how their relationship could be in real life....and it's quite scary to make an "I do" decision based on this...it wouldn't be too surprising if she can't make that kind of commitment to be engaged with that level of unfamiliarity to the kind of relationship Nick brings...

I am happy I haven't witnessed any of those nasty posts by #TeamNick fans…..I have seen most of them not speak out against any of the others. Yea, they get silly and giddy over Nick, but if you can't have fun with this show, what's the sense?

I personally would rather carry on my girl (OK, middle aged woman) crush and not worry about putting others down!!

emusha, I must add to all the kudos!!!!