Re: Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 Contestant - Spoilers - Discussion - Thread #3

by Longhornfan Sun Jun 08, 2014 1:29 pm

Piper, don't you think that if we were to rule out everyone with whom we did not have a 100% physical attraction to - from the very beginning - that we might miss out on finding someone very special? I believe that some of the very best relationships and marriages only started out a good friends, but eventually ended up as a loving and enduring relationship.

I speak from experience in overlooking some guys from my previous relationships, the ones that did not give me the butterflies in the stomach and who were not the kind of guy that I was physically attracted to. Some of those guys would have been a much better match for me than my ex-husband was. So, sometimes that 100% physical attraction to someone is just that. And sometimes it progesses into more.

So, I guess by the end of this show we should have a better idea if Josh appears to be Andi's perfect (not settling for less) partner in life. But, I am trying to keep an open mind, although I do think that she will choose Josh as her F1. And I do believe that Josh and Nick are her true F2 at this point.

by Piper61 Sun Jun 08, 2014 1:48 pm

Longhornfan wrote:Piper, don't you think that if we were to rule out everyone with whom we did not have a 100% physical attraction to - from the very beginning - that we might miss out on finding someone very special? I believe that some of the very best relationships and marriages only started out a good friends, but eventually ended up as a loving and enduring relationship.

I speak from experience in overlooking some guys from my previous relationships, the ones that did not give me the butterflies in the stomach and who were not physically attractive to me. Some of those guys would have been a much better match for me than my ex-husband was. So, sometimes that 100% physical attraction to someone is just that. And sometimes it progesses into more.

So, I guess by the end of this show we should have a better idea if Josh appears to be Andi's perfect (not settling for less) partner in life. But, I am trying to keep an open mind, although I do think that she will choose Josh as her F1. And I do believe that Josh and Nick are her true F2 at this point.

I totally agree with all that you have said because I have experienced it both ways myself. My ex-husband actually was the opposite for me, I knew from the beginning that the total chemistry butterflies feeling was not quite there, but the conversation and laughter were there. One of my best relationships early in life began as friends as I could not see myself attracted to him at all, until I did get to know him and realized I wanted him to ask me out. I saw stars with the first kiss. It was all good. Then I had another true friendship with a guy who my family both loved and who liked me as much as I liked my then current boyfriend. I moved away, we wrote constantly and when I came back to town, we hung out and he wanted to date. He was a terrific guy, but when he kissed me I felt like I was kissing my brother and there went that . It is different for all people and all connections. Anyway, sorry all for the TMI.

We will see further when Josh and Andi have their first date.

I, too, think it is Josh and Nick at the end, and it could be that Andi had a lot to think about but if Josh is the F1 after all that she has had with Nick, then it could be because he completes her in all aspects, family and all. I think those two could have a real shot.

by bilolo Sun Jun 08, 2014 2:12 pm

Piper61 wrote:
bilolo wrote:I think it's not easy to compare Andi's relationship with Nick and Marcus to hers with Josh, as the two had already their one on ones which allowed us to see more about them and Josh is still waiting for his turn but even taking that into consideration, he still can compete with them as to who's Andi's favorite based on what we've seen imo.

PS : sorry for my bad english
Your English is just fine and I agree.

Thanks Piper !

by albean99 Sun Jun 08, 2014 4:57 pm

Josh may not be my type but if Andi picks him then I'll hope they're a good match. It's fair to speculate about it though. I'm not seeing more than a superficial chemistry but it may be just that they haven't had a 1 on 1 yet.

by atem Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:02 pm

Andi and Josh also have a ton in common. From where they live, Jewish/Christian parents, into sports and hunting.

by bilolo Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:43 pm

atem wrote:Andi and Josh also have a ton in common. From where they live, Jewish/Christian parents, into sports and hunting.

That is cool ! Hope they 're good together, i like to watch them. :yes:

by dw_a_mom Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:05 pm

dpao84 wrote:Just wanted to bring this topic back to life in the Josh thread since I think it's actually a big clue. The bracelet that he's been wearing on his right wrist seems to be purple and gold. Someone pointed out that those are LSU's colors where Andi went to school. I believe the black one he wears on the same wrist is for UGA bulldogs. It would make sense for her to give him the gold and purple as sort of a joke but to represent their blending. He also wore this bracelet at the wedding he was at last weekend.

https://i.servimg.com/u/f39/18/80/10/51/image13.jpg

LSU does have some spirit bracelets that could be the right width:

http://www.lsushop.net/COLLEGE_LSU_Tigers_Mens_Accessories/LSU_Tigers_Multi-Layered_Team_Bangle_Bracelets

by nutty1 Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:43 pm

The gold/beige/yellow band on Josh looks flat, not rounded.

by livlafluv1 Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:51 pm

I was wondering if the black one could be a #livelikeEric band. ??

by **GuardianAngel** Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:58 pm

livlafluv1 wrote:I was wondering if the black one could be a #livelikeEric band. ??

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Live Like Eric

by docnash14 Sun Jun 08, 2014 7:09 pm

livlafluv1 wrote:I was wondering if the black one could be a #livelikeEric band. ??

I have noticed Josh wear the black one in some of these early episodes.

by luvlady345 Sun Jun 08, 2014 7:20 pm

Oh my Gosh it's a yellow and purple band that you can buy in any novelty store....This is my theory if Josh is the F1, Andi gave him those bands imo, they are something playful and something to remember her by since LSU is her Alma mater.. As someone who has lived in GA for 16 years NO WAY in the world would a Bull Dawg player or fan be caught wearing Florida, Alabama or LSU colors that's just not done....

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