Re: Bachelorette 10 - Media Thread - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion Thread #2

[Beagle]

I really think he's just trying to get their goat, err, sheep

I doubt Josh will watch and she's so much Josh's at this point that it's really irrelevant imo. She's Josh's when it's all a "secret," once the atfr starts and Josh walks out, I'm sure he'll make it known just who is the f1, the LION, the MAN, etc., blahblahblah, insert whatever words/phrases Jodi can think of to make up between now and then, is this season.

But yeah, I understand Nick's anger but agree it doesn't make him look good.

Inserting GROWN ASS MAN.  , Nicks sister is 10. She shouldnt be watching any of the Fantasy dates. I don't think that makes his tweet xrated.

Right - but that's a truth that for most would go unstated.  He's inserting the knife and twisting...

Well, the way I see it, Andi dismissing their relationship on SM after she went out of her way to make him a believer, also letting her best friend sitting next to her be her mouthpiece to degrade him, favoring tweets that insult him, it is her way of inserting that knife and twisting it. She is no angel either.

[Maggenzm]

Well she sure did a great job of faking their chemistry if all that Nick & Andi had/have is an intellectual connection.

I believe Andi has mentioned enough times that what she has with Nick is passion.

In the interview she said that she feels like a woman around him  

A 'woman', which conveys mature - as opposed to Josh who makes her feel young & vibrant (I think her words?)  So I think she's drawing a comparison there...

What matters is what's important to her. Feeling like a women? or young and vibrant? I think she chose Young and vibrant. Case closed.

[BachfanNY]

Inserting GROWN ASS MAN.  , Nicks sister is 10. She shouldnt be watching any of the Fantasy dates. I don't think that makes his tweet xrated.

Right - but that's a truth that for most would go unstated.  He's inserting the knife and twisting...

Well, the way I see it, Andi dismissing their relationship on SM after she went out of her way to make him a believer, also letting her best friend sitting next to her be her mouthpiece to degrade him, favoring tweets that insult him, it is her way of inserting that knife and twisting it. She is no angel either.

Well if that's the way this is all playing out then I guess he's not F1. Unless they have a really cruel way of showing love for each other.  

[Alanna]

Well, the way I see it, Andi dismissing their relationship on SM after she went out of her way to make him a believer, also letting her best friend sitting next to her be her mouthpiece to degrade him, favoring tweets that insult him, it is her way of inserting that knife and twisting it. She is no angel either.

I agree. Both are misbehaving, where's Josh the grown azzzzz man to put them in line???

[Maggenzm]

“The dynamic of it is really the cameras go away,” she explains. “All the producers go away, all the cameras go away, and it is you and that person in whatever magical suite or huse you’re in that evening. So it really is as true as they say it is. Nothing’s recorded … everyone goes away and it’s just the two of ya’ll.” As for the Final 3, Andi says, “I would say Josh is along the lines of my type of guy for sure … This season I definitely learned kind of to separate the type and the person. Josh falls into that category of my type, the athlete, the outgoing, really fun guy, but there’s a part of me that sees he’s a different person than my type … obviously, you have Nick and Chris, who are totally not my type, but still there’s something there with them. Nick has the smile, but he also has the intellect.” - See more at: http://www.ryanseacrest.com/2014/07/14/andi-dorfman-dishes-on-the-bachelorette-finalists/#sthash.f7rlhpSA.dpuf

she's def up-playing josh and downplaying nick! her response is leaning towards F1 josh for me right now particularly if he's the jealous type she wouldn't want to hype up nick at all... in either case it is sounding to me like she picked someone...

It cant get any clearer than that as to who is F1. And really there has been no filter with her throughout the season on SM pointing to who she chose, only thing left is her standing with his picture and a caption my fiancee. I guess the lead is allowed to ruin the ending with no consequences.   

When you decide to date someone who is dating 25 others, and on television, you have to be prepared to get hurt and move on after the show whether you are F1 or not. It 's out of your control. Life goes on.

[Beagle]

Well, the way I see it, Andi dismissing their relationship on SM after she went out of her way to make him a believer, also letting her best friend sitting next to her be her mouthpiece to degrade him, favoring tweets that insult him, it is her way of inserting that knife and twisting it. She is no angel either.

I agree. Both are misbehaving, where's Josh the grown azzzzz man to put them in line???

He is exhausted from frolicking with his other woman.  

[happygolucky]

Can I just ask, why do you take every tweet by Nick as a personal response/jab/dig/opinion to/at/about Josh or Andi?

Why can he just simply state his thoughts/feelings about the episode, the show he was/is part of? Without reading into it as a public-but-not-so-public communication for Andi or Josh?

Dunno .. when I see his tweets, I never think of Josh or Andi. But that's just me.

[Guest]

Well, the way I see it, Andi dismissing their relationship on SM after she went out of her way to make him a believer, also letting her best friend sitting next to her be her mouthpiece to degrade him, favoring tweets that insult him, it is her way of inserting that knife and twisting it. She is no angel either.

I agree. Both are misbehaving, where's Josh the grown azzzzz man to put them in line???

This makes me believe that something else went down afterwards. There has definently been some shade being thrown on SM between them.

[stuckinsc]

She is trying to sweep the passion with Nick under the rug so it wont look bad for Josh. She knows there are steamy scenes coming on tonight with Nick and I will bet anything she is going to ignore it on twitter or make fun of it like it was nothing because she doesn't want Josh to be mad at her.   

Yeah, if this is what she's saying in the interview, I agree completely. Josh can be as understanding as possible but it's still Josh we're talking about...

I just saw Nick's latest tweet, and as usual, he's not going to let Josh or Andi forget what they shared just in case she wants to pretend it never happened.

This season's sm is almost as interesting as the show.

This is why I don't like Nick. He is immature and  still seems to be bitter.

No offense to anyone, but how is saying a 9 year old won't be able to watch an episode where Andi is going to be making out pretty heavy with at least two guys immature or a dig on Josh or Andi. That's what the FS are for and why most parents regardless of who is on would not let their 9 year old watch the FS episode.

I understand liking one guy or another, but not every statement is a slam. Some are actually jokes. Andi has a pretty good, sarcastic sense of humor. I wonder if she is nearly as upset about these things that some fans are? Anyone who can be bff with Kelly Travis has to appreciate sarcasm and a joke!

[sdmom]

 Can I just ask, why do you take every tweet by Nick as a personal response/jab/dig/opinion to/at/about Josh or Andi?

Why can he just simply state his thoughts/feelings about the episode, the show he was/is part of? Without reading into it as a public-but-not-so-public communication for Andi or Josh?

Dunno .. when I see his tweets, I never think of Josh or Andi. But that's just me.

ITA
Seriously, if you have a 9 or 10 year old girl, would you feel comfortable to let her watch the FD episode. I would not.

[emusha]

oh hold up a sec got a chance to listen to this...

and it's really interesting what she actually says which isn't written up in the article

"But then there's nick and chris who are totaaaallyy not my type but still there's something there with them." ryan: "nick's got that dreamy smile.." "Ya...you know Nick has the smile but he's also got the intellect. He is a guy who is very like mentally stimulating, very passionate and he's the guy you feel like a woman around...I haven't always had that before"

that's quite a lot to say and interesting if it's the edit....hard to see Josh being comfortable with this....
It's also very obvious that Andi didn't even know that this was in her margin of possibilities of romantic relationships! very cool that Nick's maturity is inspiring growth in her....

[stuckinsc]

Did Nick's tweet sorta imply that his scene with Andi is X rated?  I do not think that puts Nick in a good light.  I sure hope Josh does not watch this show or only his part especially since Andi is in Cali and can't be with him.

I really think he's just trying to get their goat, err, sheep

I doubt Josh will watch and she's so much Josh's at this point that it's really irrelevant imo. She's Josh's when it's all a "secret," once the atfr starts and Josh walks out, I'm sure he'll make it known just who is the f1, the LION, the MAN, etc., blahblahblah, insert whatever words/phrases Jodi can think of to make up between now and then, is this season.

But yeah, I understand Nick's anger but agree it doesn't make him look good.

I think people are reading too much into both Josh's and Nick's social media. Nick is a kind of awkward, funny guy and to me that tweet was opps, to much kissing, Bella doesn't get to watch this tonight. The preview shows him and Andi making out, so unless the producers are trying to poke at Andi and Josh, well then, no big deal. I don't see anger in this tweet. I see funny.

Just as Josh's somewhat spiritual contemplative social media posts don't mean he is broken hearted or anything else. I find a lot of what he tweets meaningful as I too have had struggles to get past in my life. I am past most of them, but it never hurts to remember when you see something like that. It makes you stronger. So in Josh's tweets I don't see heart break, I see strength.

We as fans are searching for any clues, but not everything is a dig or a clue. Somethings are just funny or touching and mean at that moment I liked that.

Maybe I chose to believe the positive about both of the final two.

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