Re: Bachelorette 10 - Media Thread - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion Thread #2

[timfan]

I like Andi and I liked that she told Juan Pablo what she thought of him and her meltdown is probably because she is exhausted I remember Sean saying dates would be very long and sometimes he could hardly wait to get back to the hotel to sleep plus also tptb probably telling her things to get the drama for the show it happens every season

[nannymargie]

Well if the meltdown happens in ep 4 Josh has a 1/1 in ep 5. Josh to the rescue.

 I guess it also matters who steps up to the plate in epi 4 RC to comfort her too.  Chris was the guy last time so it will be interesting to see who does it this time.

I thought the meltdown was esp 4 when Eric leaves. Do not see any melt down in 3 unless I missed it.

[nd4reality]

Even Emily had a breakdown over Kalon in England (ep 5) after her 1on1s with Sean and Jef. Sean was her comfort during the Pre-RC. She looked so peaceful dancing with him I had the gif in my siggy at the time.

[atem]

Here's the link to the letter vid http://video.us.msn.com/watch/video/the-bachelorette-sneak-peek-moving-in/5nljqkn?from=sharepermalink&cpkey=eac63696-6eab-4a2a-9d0e-b67be97bb4d4%257c%257c%257c%257c

[SLA44]

Here's the link to the letter vid http://video.us.msn.com/watch/video/the-bachelorette-sneak-peek-moving-in/5nljqkn?from=sharepermalink&cpkey=eac63696-6eab-4a2a-9d0e-b67be97bb4d4%257c%257c%257c%257c

This one wasn't the letter - it was the guys moving in to the house they are staying in. Here is the link to the video with the letter:

http://video.us.msn.com/watch/video/the-bachelorette-sneak-peek-andi-dorfman/5flzgjp?from=sharepermalink&cpkey=eac63696-6eab-4a2a-9d0e-b67be97bb4d4%257c%257c%257c%257c

[Sprite]

If she is exhausted this early then she is in for a heap of trouble. I don't think it has anything to do with exhaustion, more like control. When she doesn't have it, she doesn't like it. If she is confronted, she doesn't like it. When they don't kiss her a**, she doesn't like it. Period.

I get that the premise of the show is for her to find a man who presumably is interested in her, so naturally, she wants them attentive. That does not however, require her to throw a tizzy fit every time they don't. Just don't give him a rose or send him home on the spot. I guess I just see her fake crying/whining/poor, poor exhausted me as acting...or rather over-acting...and I wonder if she is truly looking for a relationship, why that is necessary?

[atem]

If she is exhausted this early then she is in for a heap of trouble. I don't think it has anything to do with exhaustion, more like control. When she doesn't have it, she doesn't like it. If she is confronted, she doesn't like it. When they don't kiss her a**, she doesn't like it. Period.

I get that the premise of the show is for her to find a man who presumably is interested in her, so naturally, she wants them attentive. That does not however, require her to throw a tizzy fit every time they don't. Just don't give him a rose or send him home on the spot. I guess I just see her fake crying/whining/poor, poor exhausted me as acting...or rather over-acting...and I wonder if she is truly looking for a relationship, why that is necessary?

I seriously don't know. It's not like someone told her she's ugly or boring. Just said she's hard to read. Plus, if you have a problem with a guy (or guys) then go and tell them about it personally. Why throw a fit in front of everyone and make everyone else feel down?

[jcrbil]

They're making a TV show. That's why anything that's hard to imagine in real life makes it on the air.

[Guest]

If she is exhausted this early then she is in for a heap of trouble. I don't think it has anything to do with exhaustion, more like control. When she doesn't have it, she doesn't like it. If she is confronted, she doesn't like it. When they don't kiss her a**, she doesn't like it. Period.

I get that the premise of the show is for her to find a man who presumably is interested in her, so naturally, she wants them attentive. That does not however, require her to throw a tizzy fit every time they don't. Just don't give him a rose or send him home on the spot. I guess I just see her fake crying/whining/poor, poor exhausted me as acting...or rather over-acting...and I wonder if she is truly looking for a relationship, why that is necessary?

I seriously don't know.  It's not like someone told her she's ugly or boring.  Just said she's hard to read.  Plus, if you have a problem with a guy (or guys) then go and tell them about it personally. Why throw a fit in front of everyone and make everyone else feel down?

I really like watching Andi as Bette a lot, but the bolded I have to completely agree with. That just seems to be her. Makes me wonder what type of guy is really a fit for her.

[Kashathediva]

Probably none of these guys. Someone that can match her intellectually, yet give back to her what she gives. I don't think women like her are generally happy with whipped guys for very long, it gets old and it's not a challenge.
I don't think she has probably had many bfs that will stand up to her and give her what she is able to hand out best. That might be a unique situation for her.

[SLA44]

It seems she didn't like Eric giving her anything she didn't like - she sent him packing. I don't think she is going to take kindly to someone giving it back to either I really think she needs to be in charge. I guess we will find out as the we get further into the show and see how she interacts with the guys more.   

[docnash14]

It seems she didn't like Eric giving her anything she didn't like - she sent him packing.  I don't think she is going to take kindly to someone giving it back to either I really think she needs to be in charge.  I guess we will find out as the we get further into the show and see how she interacts with the guys more.   

She admitted as much more than once last season. I was hoping that experience (having to interact with feelings of powerlessness) might mitigate her need to be in control - so far this season, not so much. Unfortunately, I think that all of the feedback she got (much of it positive as in you go, girl) in response to her telling JP off and then leaving the show of her own volition may have reinforced to her that being in control is the way to go.

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