Re: Nick Viall Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Discussion

by sdmom Thu Jul 03, 2014 8:04 pm

Thanks jen

by MiaHawk Thu Jul 03, 2014 8:06 pm

So if Nick is F2, I guess her excuse is she said all those things about Nick before Josh told her he was falling in love with her? Interesting..... She even stated that her and Nick have Passion... Physical, mental, and emotional connection.... I guess what she said didn't mean anything to her ?...... [/quote]

I agree: It's going to be hard for her to explain herself out of that corner, unknown82.[/quote]

If you were to ask me, I'd say that the very definition of Love (of the marrying kind) is exactly what she said she has with Nick: Passion and a Physical/Mental/Emotional Connection.

There has to be the romantic spark...They have it. She said they have a hard time keeping their hands off of one another.

There has to be a Mental connection...equally matched intellect/some interests shared/the desire to learn about things the other person is interested in/appreciation for each other's careers, etc. A mental connection is paramount to good communication...the cornerstone of every marriage. To me, I see (with what we have been shown) the best communication between Andi and Nick.

Everyone knows that over time the sexual/romantic flame can wane, but if you have a shared mental and emotional connection you can fan those flames. To me, an emotional connection means that they both have open hearts, are allowing themselves to be vulnerable, are being honest for the sake of the relationship, and truly are interested in and concerned for the well-being of the other person. It also requires maturity. I see that between them. I think that Andi appears more mature when she is with Nick. I think he has the ability to enhance her and make her a more mature person.

I have my own theory as to why Josh is F1 and Nick is F2. Since I cannot remember which thread I am in (senior moment), I will post my thoughts in the F1-F2 thread.