Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 4 - Mon June 2/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

How Andi talked about Eric at the end was so fake to me. She said she was grieving because she lost a family member and that was disrespectful to his actual family.His ACTUAL family members were probably the ones grieving. And it was more about Andi and not Eric.

happygirl77us wrote:The Today interviewed Eric sister. She wrote a beautiful tribute to him. http://www.today.com/entertainment/eric-hill-late-bachelorette-star-defies-death-through-show-sister-2D79736776

What a beautiful and touching interview to read by his sister.
THAT should have been part of the tribute on him tonight.

IF they would have been thoughtful enough to do a tribute.

I cannot even comment on the situation. Eric's loss of life was tragic. To me, life is too short to condemn others.

Why do you think Chris has been so hidden? I like him, but I thought when he was shown tonight, he just didn't look that cute. I still cannot imagine him as The Bachelor. I definitely could see Nick before him, or even Marcus or Marquel.

Goldie2 wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:The Today interviewed Eric sister. She wrote a beautiful tribute to him. http://www.today.com/entertainment/eric-hill-late-bachelorette-star-defies-death-through-show-sister-2D79736776

What a beautiful and touching interview to read from his sister.
THAT should have been part of the tribute on him tonight.

IF they would have been thoughtful enough to do a tribute.

The sister's interview was very heartfelt and touching. 
The family is setting up a memorial tribute to Eric as stated in the article: "a philanthropic foundation in his honor, LiveLikeEric.com." 
I am actually glad the show did not drag his family into any of the tribute segment.  Let them remember as they knew him best.

At the end of the day, Andi knew she wasn't going to end up with Eric and Eric basically said he knew it wasn't going to work with Andi. Unfortunately, this is a reality television show. There needs to be someone to create drama. Andi gets paid to do so. If Eric was still alive, I bet no one would be huffing and puffing the way they are. Did Andi overreact? 100%. Could Eric have maybe gone about it differently? I think so. But this is a television show and things like this need to happen and unfortunately a sweet guy involved in this particular set of drama passed away.

I wish the show honored Eric in the last 10 minutes rather than save face for Andi, but I do get why they did it. She's getting hammered on social media right now. Andi didn't know that Eric was going to tragically die and the negativity is a bit much, especially considering this sort of drama happens every single season, but she's getting plummeted with hate because the other person is no longer here.

I'm not so sure a sweet, humble and full of life guy like Eric would want that. #LiveLikeEric is a damn good motto.

Ash2214 wrote:At the end of the day, Andi knew she wasn't going to end up with Eric and Eric basically said he knew it wasn't going to work with Andi. Unfortunately, this is a reality television show. There needs to be someone to create drama. Andi gets paid to do so. If Eric was still alive, I bet no one would be huffing and puffing the way they are. Did Andi overreact? 100%. Could Eric have maybe gone about it differently? I think so. But this is a television show and things like this need to happen and unfortunately a sweet guy involved in this particular set of drama passed away.  

I wish the show honored Eric in the last 10 minutes rather than save face for Andi, but I do get why they did it. She's getting hammered on social media right now. Andi didn't know that Eric was going to tragically die and the negativity is a bit much, especially considering this sort of drama happens every single season, but she's getting plummeted with hate because the other person is no longer here.

I'm not so sure a sweet, humble and full of life guy like Eric would want that. #LiveLikeEric is a damn good motto.

I should just agree with all your posts instead of writing any myself!   

Now….do you like Nick??  

nutty1 wrote:I cannot even comment on the situation. Eric's loss of life was tragic. To me, life is too short to condemn others.

Why do you think Chris has been so hidden? I like him, but I thought when he was shown tonight, he just didn't look that cute. I still cannot imagine him as The Bachelor. I definitely could see Nick before him, or even Marcus or Marquel.

Well I find Chris to be rather boring so I'm glad he isn't being shown much. And I don't think he's hidden because he's F1. I just can't see that at all.

umngirl wrote:

nutty1 wrote:I cannot even comment on the situation. Eric's loss of life was tragic. To me, life is too short to condemn others.

Why do you think Chris has been so hidden? I like him, but I thought when he was shown tonight, he just didn't look that cute. I still cannot imagine him as The Bachelor. I definitely could see Nick before him, or even Marcus or Marquel.

Well I find Chris to be rather boring so I'm glad he isn't being shown much. And I don't think he's hidden because he's F1. I just can't see that at all.

Could you see him as the next Bachelor? I can't.

Alanna wrote:Seeing Andi lash out tonight makes me fear we're going to see a Vienna and Jake meltdown scene with her and Josh in the not too distant future. Yikesss. He's perfect on paper for her but I think she needs someone who is softer and a great listener without being a pushover.

ummm that'd be Nick but I think he wouldn't take the crap haha

missfire1977 wrote:

eusebeia wrote:Did Marcus really say he hadn't dated in 3 years because he was traumatized by his last breakup? What is it with these guys--first Josh, now Marcus?  Are we supposed to believe this?  Did producers tell them to say this?  Why?

I don't know about Marcus but I believe that about Josh.  I say this because he has talked about this with one of his co workers.  I've known about this since before the season started.  She told me he's EXTREMELY picky looking for the PERFECT woman.  

Thanks Missfire. I remember you or someone mentioned this before. The story on Marcus is harder to believe. They talked about him here in Dallas on a morning show and one of the DJ's had a date/hookup/encounter with him.

murasaki1393 wrote:i begin to think Nick-Andi would make a balance yin-yang combo couple while with Josh, they would be a yin-yin (or yang-yang ? )combo....

honestly, Andi-Nick somewhat resemble Trista-Ryan to me. The girl is annoying as hell , the guy is the opposite...

you and i are so on the same page haha     

nutty1 wrote:

umngirl wrote:

nutty1 wrote:I cannot even comment on the situation. Eric's loss of life was tragic. To me, life is too short to condemn others.

Why do you think Chris has been so hidden? I like him, but I thought when he was shown tonight, he just didn't look that cute. I still cannot imagine him as The Bachelor. I definitely could see Nick before him, or even Marcus or Marquel.

Well I find Chris to be rather boring so I'm glad he isn't being shown much. And I don't think he's hidden because he's F1. I just can't see that at all.

 

Could you see him as the next Bachelor? I can't.

Not sure yet. I can see them wanting him, I'm just not sure how I'm (and others) are gonna buy any of the girls cast being willing to move to Iowa. But I think he's the best option of the final 4 (not a Nick fan and Marcus is too young IMO).