Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 3 - Sun - Jun 1/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Alanna wrote:I think when Andi is really into a guy her tell is to lay her head on the couch and look up at him. She's done it a few times already, pretty coquettish for this ice queen.

That might just be the key though... she is strong and tough... maybe she needs someone who turns her into a softer, girly, giddy version? I know I do. I have had my share of hardship and was always the strong one of the family. With DH, I can be vulnerable a soft and he gets it.

  

Aunties_Love wrote:

IrishGal wrote:Josh was very confrontational and indignant for someone who only heard about something second-hand.  Seemed to me he jumped all over it as soon as JJ shared it with him.   JJ stirred the pot by telling Josh...he knew Josh would freak given his volatile personality.  It all seemed really fake to me.  Andrew could barely keep from bursting out laughing.

I agree though, Josh did get extremely agitated too quickly.  Me thinks he has a temper for sure!

This seems like manufactured drama by TPTB, starting with a hostess in the restaurant giving Andrew her phone number.  Andrew is nothing more than a MOT guy that probably enjoyed the extra screen time, but is a very poor actor.  You're right IrishGal - he could hardly hold back his laughter.

JJ had already shown TPTB that he could carry off a contrived situation with his wretchedly offensive doddering old man routine.  Josh had to cool his heels while JJ & Nick had 1-1 dates with "his" Me-andi.  The self-proclaimed grown-ass man with his alpha dog mentality was the perfect choice to join the drama.  Josh reacted according to type, just as TPTB knew he would.  

The drama will conclude with Me-Andi's righteous indignation over this heinous crime against her journey to find everlasting love.  Similar story, different Bachelorette.  Sound familiar Me-anna, Jillian, Ali, Des, Emily?

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:I think when Andi is really into a guy her tell is to lay her head on the couch and look up at him. She's done it a few times already, pretty coquettish for this ice queen.

That might just be the key though... she is strong and tough... maybe she needs someone who turns her into a softer, girly, giddy version? I know I do. I have had my share of hardship and was always the strong one of the family. With DH, I can be vulnerable a soft and he gets it.

  

Exactly. She is very testosterone-y she needs to be effeminate every once in a while.

FLChica wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

IrishGal wrote:Josh was very confrontational and indignant for someone who only heard about something second-hand.  Seemed to me he jumped all over it as soon as JJ shared it with him.   JJ stirred the pot by telling Josh...he knew Josh would freak given his volatile personality.  It all seemed really fake to me.  Andrew could barely keep from bursting out laughing.

I agree though, Josh did get extremely agitated too quickly.  Me thinks he has a temper for sure!

This seems like manufactured drama by TPTB, starting with a hostess in the restaurant giving Andrew her phone number.  Andrew is nothing more than a MOT guy that probably enjoyed the extra screen time, but is a very poor actor.  You're right IrishGal - he could hardly hold back his laughter.

JJ had already shown TPTB that he could carry off a contrived situation with his wretchedly offensive doddering old man routine.  Josh had to cool his heels while JJ & Nick had 1-1 dates with "his" Me-andi.  The self-proclaimed grown-ass man with his alpha dog mentality was the perfect choice to join the drama.  Josh reacted according to type, just as TPTB knew he would.  

The drama will conclude with Me-Andi's righteous indignation over this heinous crime against her journey to find everlasting love.  Similar story, different Bachelorette.  Sound familiar Me-anna, Jillian, Ali, Des, Emily?

She has reminded me of MeAnna more than any other lead; hence why I dubbed her MeAndi early on.

Emily had a hissy fit, but it was over her daughter. Ali confronted whatever his name was, but she didn't take it out on the all the guys. I don't remember Des or Jillian yelling at anyone during their seasons.

Ashley also had her moments!

Catdwoman50 wrote:

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:I think when Andi is really into a guy her tell is to lay her head on the couch and look up at him. She's done it a few times already, pretty coquettish for this ice queen.

That might just be the key though... she is strong and tough... maybe she needs someone who turns her into a softer, girly, giddy version? I know I do. I have had my share of hardship and was always the strong one of the family. With DH, I can be vulnerable a soft and he gets it.

  

Exactly.  She is very testosterone-y she needs to be effeminate every once in a while.  

She laid her head on the couch with Josh and JJ so far. Did I miss anyone? Did she do it with Marcus as well?

Bet2Win wrote:

FLChica wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

IrishGal wrote:Josh was very confrontational and indignant for someone who only heard about something second-hand.  Seemed to me he jumped all over it as soon as JJ shared it with him.   JJ stirred the pot by telling Josh...he knew Josh would freak given his volatile personality.  It all seemed really fake to me.  Andrew could barely keep from bursting out laughing.

I agree though, Josh did get extremely agitated too quickly.  Me thinks he has a temper for sure!

This seems like manufactured drama by TPTB, starting with a hostess in the restaurant giving Andrew her phone number.  Andrew is nothing more than a MOT guy that probably enjoyed the extra screen time, but is a very poor actor.  You're right IrishGal - he could hardly hold back his laughter.

JJ had already shown TPTB that he could carry off a contrived situation with his wretchedly offensive doddering old man routine.  Josh had to cool his heels while JJ & Nick had 1-1 dates with "his" Me-andi.  The self-proclaimed grown-ass man with his alpha dog mentality was the perfect choice to join the drama.  Josh reacted according to type, just as TPTB knew he would.  

The drama will conclude with Me-Andi's righteous indignation over this heinous crime against her journey to find everlasting love.  Similar story, different Bachelorette.  Sound familiar Me-anna, Jillian, Ali, Des, Emily?

She has reminded me of MeAnna more than any other lead; hence why I dubbed her MeAndi early on.

Emily had a hissy fit, but it was over her daughter.  Ali confronted whatever his name was, but she didn't take it out on the all the guys.  I don't remember Des or Jillian yelling at anyone during their seasons.  

Ali confronted the ridiculous wrestler with the girlfriend back home while Jillian got played by Wes who shared a girlfriend with Brad.  Sweet Des got off easy by having her heart shredded by Brooks.  Even though Des clearly had feelings for Brooks, all of these situations were aided by production. 

A tip-of-the-cap to you on Andi's nickname.  Truly fitting!

sophienette wrote:I am looking at the show episode by episode, trying to forget the spoiler (I didnt last time as I was also "confirmed" separately the same spoiler) so I am not doing that again! (EVER!)

Off to rewatch the full episode and do my recap/thoughts for my blog! Will share here later if you guys are interested (jist of it in my earlier post though!)

I would be very interested in your thoughts. I still think Josh is her F1 but what so I know.   

Even if he is her F1, I like to analyse as I go along, to get a feel of what the relationship might be like post-show

sophienette wrote:Even if he is her F1, I like to analyse as I go along, to get a feel of what the relationship might be like post-show

Please share your thoughts when you are done. I am very interested in what you think.

Did you happen to get any information on who the F1 is?

nannymargie wrote:

sophienette wrote:Even if he is her F1, I like to analyse as I go along, to get a feel of what the relationship might be like post-show

Please share your thoughts when you are done.  I am very interested in what you think.

Did you happen to get any information on who the F1 is?

Nothing! I was told "not to believe RS 100%"... but then again, that doesnt take a brain surgeon considering how well he did on the F4 for Des!
Nohing else!

sophienette wrote:

Alanna wrote:I think when Andi is really into a guy her tell is to lay her head on the couch and look up at him. She's done it a few times already, pretty coquettish for this ice queen.

That might just be the key though... she is strong and tough... maybe she needs someone who turns her into a softer, girly, giddy version? I know I do. I have had my share of hardship and was always the strong one of the family. With DH, I can be vulnerable a soft and he gets it.

  

IA. With men she's not interested in, she's Andi the Bachelorette and has deep, interesting discussions/borderline interrogations with them. With the ones she likes, she's basically purring and talking nonsense and making out like it's going out of style.