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She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

but she wants a mental/personal connection.

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Actually - didn't spend a lot of time with the whole Eric drama thing. They obviously cut a lot of the conversation and her ranting and raving.
I love Dylan but they could have sacrificed a bit of his date for such an important piece.

And no I don't consider the fact that he said he had never had his heart broken the bit of importance but rather the entire conversation and kisses.

nd..related to your last Q as well,

was Drew's scene of kissing with Des and convo also being cut from the main show and was up as the deleted scene (s) instead?

Drew was the king of deleted scenes on that season. I know because I was mad.

Doesn't mean that Josh is the same fate as Drew obviously. I just found it strange that an important conversation was cut.
Next episode should get hot and heavy ?

GuardianAngel wrote:

She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

Silly question, great answer. What's he suppose to say, he's more afraid of hurting himself?

but she wants a mental/personal connection.

I'm seeing this mental connection once too many times. What is a mental connection?

nd4reality wrote:^^^ Yes.

Delete most of the good scenes.

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Actually - didn't spend a lot of time with the whole Eric drama thing. They obviously cut a lot of the conversation and her ranting and raving.
I love Dylan but they could have sacrificed a bit of his date for such an important piece.

And no I don't consider the fact that he said he had never had his heart broken the bit of importance but rather the entire conversation and kisses.

nd..related to your last Q as well,

was Drew's scene of kissing with Des and convo also being cut from the main show and was up as the deleted scene (s) instead?

Drew was the king of deleted scenes on that season. I know because I was mad.

Doesn't mean that Josh is the same fate as Drew obviously. I just found it strange that an important conversation was cut.
Next episode should get hot and heavy ?

apparently yes....agree with a poster  who said the edit for Josh as physical vs Nick as mental edit. We will get to see more and more of celebral connection with Josh on next epis, id assume

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Actually - didn't spend a lot of time with the whole Eric drama thing. They obviously cut a lot of the conversation and her ranting and raving.
I love Dylan but they could have sacrificed a bit of his date for such an important piece.

And no I don't consider the fact that he said he had never had his heart broken the bit of importance but rather the entire conversation and kisses.

nd..related to your last Q as well,

was Drew's scene of kissing with Des and convo also being cut from the main show and was up as the deleted scene (s) instead?

Drew was the king of deleted scenes on that season. I know because I was mad.

Doesn't mean that Josh is the same fate as Drew obviously. I just found it strange that an important conversation was cut.
Next episode should get hot and heavy ?

docnash14 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

Silly question, great answer. What's he suppose to say, he's more afraid of hurting himself?

but she wants a mental/personal connection.

I'm seeing this mental connection once too many times. What is a mental connection?

I would say it is the ability to stimulate each other intellectually

docnash14 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:^^^ Yes.

Delete most of the good scenes.

I am glad they included so much of Josh in the singing out-takes as I think they show more of his personality.  I thought he was adorable in them and in fact was reminded of Arie.

docnash14 wrote:

Sarah_XV wrote:

nd4reality wrote:
I have not had a chance to see the deleted scene seeing that it is not available for view in Canada.

However quick question - was that scene more of "nothing" or was there something substantial in terms of the storyline that is now a deleted scene ? Why delete it if it is part of the storyline and give us so much of the other stuff that episode ?
TIA.

It's the only scene of Andi and Josh we have where they actually talk about something substantial.
What has actually aired has just Josh talking about being nervous and Andi disagreeing.

In the clip Andi wants to 'dig deep and hear stories about who he is'. She says the chemistry they have is obvious, but she wants a mental/personal connection. She asks him what his fears are. He says he is scared because he hasn't had a relationship in 5 years, and he is scared that if he falls in love the other person might not feel the same way. He then tells her he has never had his heart broken.
She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

Then there is a PI with Josh, he says that their connection is growing and he is trying to open up as much as he can. Andi is the first person in a long while that he has had strong feelings for. He knows it's early in the process, but his feelings are strong.

Nice recap, thanks.  What I would add is that following the PI, the camera shifts back to their kissing.  Andi whispers - "two kisses this week is pretty good", Josh responds "that's very good.  I want more kisses."   Andi mentioned in her blog that during the group party with winners of the bb game she kept thinking of the guys on the losing team (shades of Sean later inviting the losing team which included Catherine to the group date) so she accompanied the "winning" guys back to the hotel where she spent time with all of the guys.  Wonder if she and Josh got their first kiss of the week then?

  (purposely magnified  )

docnash14 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

Silly question, great answer. What's he suppose to say, he's more afraid of hurting himself?

but she wants a mental/personal connection.

I'm seeing this mental connection once too many times. What is a mental connection?

I would say it is the ability to stimulate each other intellectually

notarose wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

She asks if he is more scared of getting hurt himself or him hurting someone else, he says both.

Silly question, great answer. What's he suppose to say, he's more afraid of hurting himself?

but she wants a mental/personal connection.

I'm seeing this mental connection once too many times. What is a mental connection?

I would say it is the ability to stimulate each other intellectually

Andi's dinner convo with JJ comes to mind as an example.  

Just like in Santa Barbara, I felt like Nick and I continued to have this intense mental and physical connection. The kisses were amazing and he definitely knows how to make me feel like a woman, and I loved how passionate he was."

Ash2214 wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:^^^ Yes.

Delete most of the good scenes.

I am glad they included so much of Josh in the singing out-takes as I think they show more of his personality.  I thought he was adorable in them and in fact was reminded of Arie.

Agreed. I actually thought it was cute when he said "my singing was so bad today I think it might have cost me a rose tonight." He smiled the whole time he said that too. I like that we've seen a lot of different sides of him so far. He's been silly, sweet, competitive and protective. I'm hoping to see more conversation on their 1-on-1 date coming up.