Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion

I must have missed it, where does it say Andi shared the results with Nikki?

Kashathediva wrote:I must have missed it, where does it say Andi shared the results with Nikki?

On page 11 kasha . It seems a jpg format so when I quote it wasn't quoted along

Guess I still missed it.  

I saw this quote: "I cannot put into words how much I love this girl. @andi_dorfman you are the definition of a true friend and I wish you all the happiness in the world. No one is more deserving of this than you. You're gonna kill it tonight. Love you! #bestfriends #thebachelorette
4.02 pm 5/19/2014"

And then the photo with the 2 of them with the attached "thank you", but missed anything indicating Andi shared her news of F1 with Nikki.

Isabel123 wrote:nikki_ferrell
I cannot put into words how much I love this girl. @andi_dorfman you are the definition of a true friend and I wish you all the happiness in the world. No one is more deserving of this than you. You're gonna kill it tonight. Love you! #bestfriends #thebachelorette
4.02 pm 5/19/2014

Muras - Are you referring to the portion that Nikki talks about being a secret keeper when you said that Nikki knows ?

Yes Nd... Well, sort of.. and also : ' I promise to do the same for you'

I hope I'm not misunderstanding this.. . SCMIIW

LOL there might be a bit of a leap there.
Initially, I took you to mean the knowledge was actually shared.
It could be that it was, but--I doubt it.

It is interesting to me that in tweets and interviews Nikki and Juan P. only say kind, encouraging and positive things to Andi.   However, she continues her supposedly scorn of Juan P, and really does not say nice things about Nikki or that she is happy for them.  This seems odd to me.  It seems that she was told to play a certain role and she is firmly playing the part.  Juan P was not going to pick her anyway, she did not want him either.  Could she not thank him and Nikki for their well wishes?  She seems sort of mean and spiteful.  I hope this is not true, I admire a woman who is tough and decisive but also does not blame others when things do not go her way. Personally I think they all laugh at this whole set up, and are all friends. Reality TV not Real TV, joke is on us, but we still watch   

The beginning theme of this season is "he wasn't the Juan" so I do think Andi is keeping that up because it's part of the persona that's been developed for her. Juan Pa and Nikki know that public perception is created by "the machine" and that while there are probably elements of truth, there is lots of intentional misperception. As Juan Pa says- he'll talk to Andi himself to know what's going on. He chose to be uncooperative, she has, to all appearances, chosen a different path.

Eviebloom wrote:It is interesting to me that in tweets and interviews Nikki and Juan P. only say kind, encouraging and positive things to Andi.   However, she continues her supposedly scorn of Juan P, and really does not say nice things about Nikki or that she is happy for them.  This seems odd to me.  It seems that she was told to play a certain role and she is firmly playing the part.  Juan P was not going to pick her anyway, she did not want him either.  Could she not thank him and Nikki for their well wishes?  She seems sort of mean and spiteful.  I hope this is not true, I admire a woman who is tough and decisive but also does not blame others when things do not go her way.  Personally I think they all laugh at this whole set up, and are all friends.  Reality TV not Real TV, joke is on us, but we still watch   

ITA, I really think that privately everything is good with all three of them.  Nikki seems to really love JP and she said herself that she is loyal to a fault.  I can not see her being so forgiving and supportive of Andi unless she knew that what Andi says (probably has to say) in public is not how she really feels IRL.

Eviebloom wrote:It is interesting to me that in tweets and interviews Nikki and Juan P. only say kind, encouraging and positive things to Andi.   However, she continues her supposedly scorn of Juan P, and really does not say nice things about Nikki or that she is happy for them.  This seems odd to me.  It seems that she was told to play a certain role and she is firmly playing the part.  Juan P was not going to pick her anyway, she did not want him either.  Could she not thank him and Nikki for their well wishes?  She seems sort of mean and spiteful.  I hope this is not true, I admire a woman who is tough and decisive but also does not blame others when things do not go her way.  Personally I think they all laugh at this whole set up, and are all friends.  Reality TV not Real TV, joke is on us, but we still watch   

To be honest, I have heard Andi mention it in one of her interviews that she heard things are going great with JP and Nikki and that she wishes them well. The only time I have seen any negative expression about JP was on the E interview, when they read JP's Facebook post to her. Even I as a casual observer thought the post was egocentric and well, plain dumb. I could be 100% off, but I have always had the impression that Nikki was dependent on Andi while they were filming, so now the so called friendship means more to her than it does to Andi.

JPG's message was ridiculous. I don't think Andi, an intelligent and confident woman, needs someone (tptb or anyone else) to tell her that the message was rude, stupid and barely coherent. It was extremely JPGish in displaying his worst qualities and I say this as someone who thinks he and Nikki are pretty cute together usually and can see their banter and find it cute. In any case, Nikki is totally under his thumb and if she's happy, that's great and I understand liking them together, but Andi doesn't need to think her BFF is making the right decision or needs to be overly supportive over this relationship. Saying she wishes them well and wants to move past this is plenty good enough IMO. If/when Nikki breaks up with him, I'm sure Andi won't be the only friend that goes "honey, thank goodness the aliens have given back your mind, we were worried!"

Alanna wrote:JPG's message was ridiculous. I don't think Andi, an intelligent and confident woman, needs someone (tptb or anyone else) to tell her that the message was rude, stupid and barely coherent. It was extremely JPGish in displaying his worst qualities and I say this as someone who thinks he and Nikki are pretty cute together usually and can see their banter and find it cute. In any case, Nikki is totally under his thumb and if she's happy, that's great and I understand liking them together, but Andi doesn't need to think her BFF is making the right decision or needs to be overly supportive over this relationship. Saying she wishes them well and wants to move past this is plenty good enough IMO. If/when Nikki breaks up with him, I'm sure Andi won't be the only friend that goes "honey, thank goodness the aliens have given back your mind, we were worried!"