Bachelor In Paradise *Sleuthing* - *Spoilers*

murasaki1393 wrote:

Amberish wrote:He's such a phony that the TPTB could have such fun with him, but he's really not into age appropriate women so could be he'd blink once or twice before packing early for production.

I read Arie and Jef are on the outs. Any idea what happened there?

Me two... I extremely curio on what went wrong between Those 2 after SeanCat wedding???? . Hoping Arie diehard fans here could set my curio's mind free ...

This is what I read and all I know ...

If Jef Holm is in a Relationship, It’s in “Serious Jeopardy” — Exclusive
March 5, 2014 at 08:30PM EST by Julia Wayne

Well, here’s a twist better than any Bachelor finale could dream: Just a few days after Jef Holm gave an interview saying he’s “dating someone” who he’s “really excited about,” sources tell Wetpaint that’s highly unlikely. And that if it is true, it won’t last long.

On February 22, reporters caught up with the Season 8 Bachelorette winner — who broke up with fiancé Emily Maynard back in October 2012 — and he couldn’t stop gushing about a mystery girl. While he said that he’s “dating” and not in a relationship, he also hinted that the relationship would end with a walk down the aisle, saying “I think in the next few months to a year I’ll probably not be single with this person. I’m taking it slow!”

But sources who partied with the recent Los Angeles transplant claim his actions don’t match his words. He met up with the ladies from Juan Pablo Galavis’s season of The Bachelor when they were in town filming “Women Tell All,” and managed to make a few frenemies along the way. “The way Jef was acting over the weekend [of “Women Tell All” filming, February 21], I would guess he’s dating nobody. Either that, or his relationship is in serious jeopardy,” a source tells Wetpaint Entertainment.

That same weekend, the former Utahan knocked the girls’ collective ex for his womanizing ways, saying “I think he’s by far the sleaziest Bachelor that’s been on the show. He basically just hooks up with the girls.” So, is this a case of a pot calling a kettle black? It sounds like it.

“He was acting like a total d—bag, and everyone noticed. He was hitting on every girl from [Season 18], especially Christy [Hansen], and he even hit her up to meet him down in Orange County. She wasn’t into it. None of them were…” an insider says of the 29-year-old.

But things didn’t just stay at the bar. “After the bar with the girls who were in town for ‘Women Tell All,’ he invited everyone up to his house for an after party, and he acted like such a jerk. He told everyone that the house was his house and we found out later that he’s just renting a room there.” Adds another source, “he wants everyone to think he has a lot of money, and he talks about how nice his house is, trying to show up everyone.”

That same weekend, Jef had a paid appearance with former bestie Arie Luyendyk, Jr., with whom he had a falling out just a month prior, at Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici’s wedding. And Arie seems pretty sure that there’s no way Jef is in a relationship. When he saw Wetpaint’s article about Jef being in a relationship he’s “really excited about,” Arie tweeted us “this is laughable.”

http://www.wetpaint.com/jef-holm/articles/2014-03-05-relationship-serious-jeopardy-wta-exclusive

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I wonder if @CRAIGR1 is being considered for Bachelor in Paradise?? @Millsy11374 ??

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Amberish wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

Amberish wrote:He's such a phony that the TPTB could have such fun with him, but he's really not into age appropriate women so could be he'd blink once or twice before packing early for production.

I read Arie and Jef are on the outs. Any idea what happened there?

Me two... I extremely curio on what went wrong between Those 2 after SeanCat wedding???? . Hoping Arie diehard fans here could set my curio's mind free ...

This is what I read and all I know ...

If Jef Holm is in a Relationship, It’s in “Serious Jeopardy” — Exclusive
March 5, 2014 at 08:30PM EST by Julia Wayne

Well, here’s a twist better than any Bachelor finale could dream: Just a few days after Jef Holm gave an interview saying he’s “dating someone” who he’s “really excited about,” sources tell Wetpaint that’s highly unlikely. And that if it is true, it won’t last long.

On February 22, reporters caught up with the Season 8 Bachelorette winner — who broke up with fiancé Emily Maynard back in October 2012 — and he couldn’t stop gushing about a mystery girl. While he said that he’s “dating” and not in a relationship, he also hinted that the relationship would end with a walk down the aisle, saying “I think in the next few months to a year I’ll probably not be single with this person. I’m taking it slow!”

But sources who partied with the recent Los Angeles transplant claim his actions don’t match his words. He met up with the ladies from Juan Pablo Galavis’s season of The Bachelor when they were in town filming “Women Tell All,” and managed to make a few frenemies along the way. “The way Jef was acting over the weekend [of “Women Tell All” filming, February 21], I would guess he’s dating nobody. Either that, or his relationship is in serious jeopardy,” a source tells Wetpaint Entertainment.

That same weekend, the former Utahan knocked the girls’ collective ex for his womanizing ways, saying “I think he’s by far the sleaziest Bachelor that’s been on the show. He basically just hooks up with the girls.” So, is this a case of a pot calling a kettle black? It sounds like it.

“He was acting like a total d—bag, and everyone noticed. He was hitting on every girl from [Season 18], especially Christy [Hansen], and he even hit her up to meet him down in Orange County. She wasn’t into it. None of them were…” an insider says of the 29-year-old.

But things didn’t just stay at the bar. “After the bar with the girls who were in town for ‘Women Tell All,’ he invited everyone up to his house for an after party, and he acted like such a jerk. He told everyone that the house was his house and we found out later that he’s just renting a room there.” Adds another source, “he wants everyone to think he has a lot of money, and he talks about how nice his house is, trying to show up everyone.”

That same weekend, Jef had a paid appearance with former bestie Arie Luyendyk, Jr., with whom he had a falling out just a month prior, at Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici’s wedding. And Arie seems pretty sure that there’s no way Jef is in a relationship. When he saw Wetpaint’s article about Jef being in a relationship he’s “really excited about,” Arie tweeted us “this is laughable.”

http://www.wetpaint.com/jef-holm/articles/2014-03-05-relationship-serious-jeopardy-wta-exclusive

thanks for filling me in, Amberish.... Well, i never be a fan of 1F, so I really dont care if he indeed took the gig. Perhaps it can boost their rating amongst 11-20 y.o girls...

I swear, the men are more catty than the women of this show! Geez!

Jef interview
http://ca.eonline.com/news/524893/bachelor-in-paradise-jef-holm-in-talks-to-join-new-show-insists-it-s-different-than-bachelor-pad

That's hilarious. He's all earnest when he says they want people to focus on love and building relationships then in the next breath says yeah he wouldn't expect to have any lasting relationship come out of this. So I guess producers will cast anyone willing to fake couple up with someone else for 3 weeks. I wonder if they will decide on "couples" before hand.

I'm ridiculously excited to watch this thing, actually!

relaxing wrote:That's hilarious.  He's all earnest when he says they want people to focus on love and building relationships then in the next breath says yeah he wouldn't expect to have any lasting relationship come out of this.  So I guess producers will cast anyone willing to fake couple up with someone else for 3 weeks.  I wonder if they will decide on "couples" before hand.

I'm ridiculously excited to watch this thing, actually!

Haha true. He is hilarious (sadly, in a sad way..  )... If Jefie Will be in it, I just hope he improves his kissing skill first!!

I for one can't wait for this show.  Sorry to drag up old material, but what did Jef do at the reception?  I haven't heard.  Thanks!   

murasaki1393 wrote:

relaxing wrote:That's hilarious.  He's all earnest when he says they want people to focus on love and building relationships then in the next breath says yeah he wouldn't expect to have any lasting relationship come out of this.  So I guess producers will cast anyone willing to fake couple up with someone else for 3 weeks.  I wonder if they will decide on "couples" before hand.

I'm ridiculously excited to watch this thing, actually!

Haha true. He is hilarious (sadly, in a sad way..  )... If Jefie Will be in it, I just hope he improves his kissing skill first!!

 I don't know whether to   or to   :pinkcry:  or maybe to just  :sourgrapes:.   I was never a fan of 1F.

Of course Jef will do it if offered the chance. He doesnt seem to have a job and he's got nothing but time on his hands. All he does is party and travel. He loves publicity. For him - this show would be a godsend. I've never watched BachPad and if Jef is on BachPad2.0 it'll save me from watching that as well. Yay.

I'm hoping they say no to Jef. They know they can't control his mouth post show.

This is so interesting, who woulda thought when he was on the show, that Emily would come out smelling a whole lot nicer than him. He was the well-liked (generally) and seemingly hard working guy looking for love, and now she's the one who (hopefully) found it and is actually working for a living. He probably hates getting asked about her, he's her Jesse Csinsak!