Finale/After the Final Rose March 10

Bhaka wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:
Good for them.  Everyone keeps saying that JPG hasn't told Nikki he loved her.  He did it at the FRC.  Te quiero is I love you in Spanish.  It is the less formal, but it is I love you.  I grew up with Cuban, lived in Texas for a long time and for confirmation asked my new co-worker who just moved here from Puerto Rico if she says quiero or amo.  She said she and her family use quiero.  JPG also told Camila quiero.  I think that is how he say love.

I also think he has probably told her.  I believe RS when he said they offered him money to propose at the AFTR and I can see both Nikki and JPG being so disgusted by that, that together they decided to not admit he had said ILY and to basically give them nothing.  Nikki has already said it turning filming so she couldn't take it back, but my impression is that neither one of them want to give TPTB or CH anything last night.

This JPG was very angry and bitter when compared to the man on the WTA, it could be just losing DWTS, but it seemed like more than that to me.  

TPTB probably doesn't know how to act when a couple refuses money to do what they want.  It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

StuckinSC - Just wanted to let you know how often I agree with your posts.  Thanks!

Regarding the bolded, I thought JPG said something at the ATFR about a conversation he had with producers at the WTA.  I haven't gone back to listen to it again, but I thought he told CH that he and Nikki had a change of plans following whatever producers said to him at the WTA.  I had the impression JPG would have been more open at the ATFR if it hadn't been for that private conversation he'd had with the producers.  I remember thinking that whatever TPTB said to him, it was the last straw and he was done making any attempts to cooperate.  Was this when they offered him $$$ to propose?  I would have been very angry too, at anyone trying to "buy" something so priceless.

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

Linds911 wrote:

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

No an actual reality show. They turned that down ASAP. They also aren't the only ones tweeting about sponsors. Molly does it all the time especially on her podcast! and they have real jobs that don't require them to be in an office every day.

stuckinsc wrote:

Linds911 wrote:

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

No an actual reality show. They turned that down ASAP. They also aren't the only ones tweeting about sponsors. Molly does it all the time especially on her podcast! and they have real jobs that don't require them to be in an office every day.

To the SeanCat fans, I am sorry for saying they never turn down MF money.  I really have not had any problem with any of their actions until last night.  I felt they were both hostile toward JPG and I thought Cat had no right to talk to Nikki they way she did.  

Each relationship is different, so you can't expect anyone else's to be like yours.  I have thought it was truly a blessing they found each other they way they did.  But, more often this show doesn't work and there is nothing wrong with proceeding with caution.

Linds911 wrote:

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

No an actual reality show. They turned that down ASAP. They also aren't the only ones tweeting about sponsors. Molly does it all the time especially on her podcast! and they have real jobs that don't require them to be in an office every day.

Mustang19 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Linds911 wrote:

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

No an actual reality show. They turned that down ASAP. They also aren't the only ones tweeting about sponsors. Molly does it all the time especially on her podcast! and they have real jobs that don't require them to be in an office every day.

To the SeanCat fans, I am sorry for saying they never turn down MF money.  I really have not had any problem with any of their actions until last night.  I felt they were both hostile toward JPG and I thought Cat had no right to talk to Nikki they way she did.  

Each relationship is different, so you can't expect anyone else's to be like yours.  I have thought it was truly a blessing they found each other they way they did.  But, more often this show doesn't work and there is nothing wrong with proceeding with caution.

I agree with the you Stuckinsc, especially the bolded. I thought they were a little hostile. What worked for them, isn't going to be the same for everyone else. Jillian Harris posted a blog and addresses CH and Sean and Cat's comments last night. I felt she was right in that Sean saying when you are on the Bachelor/ette nothing is private is actually wrong. It's a choice to be private or put it all out there. Look at people like Chantal and Shantell from Brad's season, Lindzi and Emily from Ben's season (and the list goes on) who you never hear from any more because they choose not to seek the limelight. I don't see anything wrong with accepting opportunities that come your way, if that's what you want, but not everyone wants that and JP and Nikki should be allowed to choose that option too.

Tiggerlgh wrote:

Mustang19 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Linds911 wrote:

FLChica wrote:

chloep wrote:^^ It is obvious that Cat and Sean never have.

You know, that's not true.
SC turned down an offer to their very own reality : 

Are you referring to a separate show to chronicle their wedding planning?  There wasn't time to do that because Sean was filming DWTS.  No need for an additional show as it was already being filmed for the wedding extravaganza.  

They're also pretty busy tweeting for the sponsors of their wedding gifts, etc.  Busy folks, bless their hearts!

No an actual reality show. They turned that down ASAP. They also aren't the only ones tweeting about sponsors. Molly does it all the time especially on her podcast! and they have real jobs that don't require them to be in an office every day.

To the SeanCat fans, I am sorry for saying they never turn down MF money.  I really have not had any problem with any of their actions until last night.  I felt they were both hostile toward JPG and I thought Cat had no right to talk to Nikki they way she did.  

Each relationship is different, so you can't expect anyone else's to be like yours.  I have thought it was truly a blessing they found each other they way they did.  But, more often this show doesn't work and there is nothing wrong with proceeding with caution.

I agree with the you Stuckinsc, especially the bolded. I thought they were a little hostile. What worked for them, isn't going to be the same for everyone else. Jillian Harris posted a blog and addresses CH and Sean and Cat's comments last night. I felt she was right in that Sean saying when you are on the Bachelor/ette nothing is private is actually wrong. It's a choice to be private or put it all out there. Look at people like Chantal and Shantell from Brad's season, Lindzi and Emily from Ben's season (and the list goes on) who you never hear from any more because they choose not to seek the limelight. I don't see anything wrong with accepting opportunities that come your way, if that's what you want, but not everyone wants that and JP and Nikki should be allowed to choose that option too.

  I agree with Mustang19 and stuckinsc.  It is now up to JP and Nikki on how they live their life, just because they do it differently than other past contestants doesn't make them wrong or vice versa. Live your life how you choose.