Re: Catherine & Sean Tweets/Facebook Updates - Discussion

by blessed66 Tue Oct 22, 2013 12:52 am

I am sorry but I think we are making excuses for bad behavior. This woman needs to stop, Sean and Catherine do not owe her an explanation or any photos. Sean is not marrying the whole world but only Catherine so if he decides to love her privately or publicly it is his choice. This woman needs to just stop and I am sorry I do not have any kind words for her. She is a bully and a trouble maker, it is about time for her to grow up.

by lovebites8727 Tue Oct 22, 2013 12:56 am

blessed66 wrote:I am sorry but I think we are making excuses for bad behavior. This woman needs to stop, Sean and Catherine do not owe her an explanation or any photos. Sean is not marrying the whole world but only Catherine so if he decides to love her privately or publicly it is his choice. This woman needs to just stop and I am sorry I do not have any kind words for her. She is a bully and a trouble maker, it is about time for her to grow up.

Just to tell you some people told her to stop and get off here . Yeah she is being responsive and said goodbye but "she put the most of her time on twitter and keep provoking and bugging seancat ". What else to give anyway ? It is obvious no one can stop her and it is obvious she is tearing her tweets toward them ". And it is pure insanity! Sicko ! Sicko! I don't know of what she's doing is making her so proud and feel peaceful of her life every day. Some of you here think she might be eating her obssession of these two or been into bad relationship or had a bad experienced with men that's why she is acting like this". We'll I would say maybe? Or maybe not and she is really dealing with mental illness or she is really sick and staying at the one of the mental institution Lol. I am really feeling bad with our friend and sad about her situation but sometimes you also have enough even she is entertaining us with her craziness but you can't help to feel that she is out of control already . She needs to know her boundaries as a fan . Not happy what she's doing at all atleast to me and all I need to do is laugh about it Suspect

I think even you tell her to stop and delete her twitter account . Doubt it will stop that she will keep making her new twitter and do her damn thing laugh out loud

. Everyone is power less laugh out loud

. Oh well whatever . Life sometimes you have to deal with this type of person .

by landrje Tue Oct 22, 2013 12:59 am

docnash14 wrote:
landrje wrote:
blessed66 wrote:I just do not like her approach, Sean and Catherine are not obligated to share anything, yes we miss them but she has no right to demand anything from them. We are blessed that they are willing to share when they have time but they did have a life outside us.
Rational thought, reasoning, and common sense have no place in her world, and suggesting otherwise is a waste of time IMO

A common mistake in our society in dealing with the mental and emotionally unstable occurs when behavioral standards are not imposed because of feelings of sympathy and a belief that such people "just can't help themselves," hence misdeeds and bad behavior often goes unchecked. I've worked in the special needs community as a volunteer for 10+ years and have learned that most children and adults with special needs can and will learn to control their actions when appropriate boundaries are set and consistently applied. Too much of the "kid gloves" treatment, almost always with the best intentions, leads to bad results; and I suspect our friend has been the victim of a "kid gloves" existence. Does anyone really believe that how she's acted towards Sean and Catherine is her first such offense? She didn't wake up one day and suddenly decide to have a first-time ever obsession with Seancat (and Peta). I'd be willing to bet she engages in stuff like this on a regular basis and has simply never been conditioned to stop her silliness. Unfortunately we're kind of powerless to create any disincentive for her to stop.

I can't imagine her returning to this forum, but if by chance she does, there's no reason not to tell her that she's been hurtful and out-of-line with what she's doing, ask her to immediately stop sending messages, and to delete her twitter account. No need to reason with her or try to engage in a rational discourse, simply deliver a strong, direct, and unmistakable message that what she's doing is wrong.
While I understand what you are saying, I must respectfully disagree with some of your points. As a psychologist who has been in private practice for over twenty years, I have worked with many delusional and/or obsessive individuals. Both are mental illnesses that one cannot simply snap out of. However, there are certainly cognitive behavioral strategies that are used to treat OCD. Conversely, for someone who is suffering from a delusional disorder, medication is typically needed to ameliorate the condition. It is not my place to either assess or to treat this particular individual. What I do know is that ridiculing/shaming her can exacerbate her situation.

Exactly, which is why there's no suggestion in my post to ridicule or shame the individual, simply to tell her to stop doing what she's doing. There's no need to be mean to her or to disrespect her. We obviously don't have any means to treat her with medication, so that's off the table for us, and I harbor no hope that she'll simply snap out of it either. But I see no reason not to tell her that she's wrong and to stop what she's doing.

by blessed66 Tue Oct 22, 2013 1:03 am

landrje wrote:
docnash14 wrote:
landrje wrote:
blessed66 wrote:I just do not like her approach, Sean and Catherine are not obligated to share anything, yes we miss them but she has no right to demand anything from them. We are blessed that they are willing to share when they have time but they did have a life outside us.
Rational thought, reasoning, and common sense have no place in her world, and suggesting otherwise is a waste of time IMO

A common mistake in our society in dealing with the mental and emotionally unstable occurs when behavioral standards are not imposed because of feelings of sympathy and a belief that such people "just can't help themselves," hence misdeeds and bad behavior often goes unchecked. I've worked in the special needs community as a volunteer for 10+ years and have learned that most children and adults with special needs can and will learn to control their actions when appropriate boundaries are set and consistently applied. Too much of the "kid gloves" treatment, almost always with the best intentions, leads to bad results; and I suspect our friend has been the victim of a "kid gloves" existence. Does anyone really believe that how she's acted towards Sean and Catherine is her first such offense? She didn't wake up one day and suddenly decide to have a first-time ever obsession with Seancat (and Peta). I'd be willing to bet she engages in stuff like this on a regular basis and has simply never been conditioned to stop her silliness. Unfortunately we're kind of powerless to create any disincentive for her to stop.

I can't imagine her returning to this forum, but if by chance she does, there's no reason not to tell her that she's been hurtful and out-of-line with what she's doing, ask her to immediately stop sending messages, and to delete her twitter account. No need to reason with her or try to engage in a rational discourse, simply deliver a strong, direct, and unmistakable message that what she's doing is wrong.
While I understand what you are saying, I must respectfully disagree with some of your points. As a psychologist who has been in private practice for over twenty years, I have worked with many delusional and/or obsessive individuals. Both are mental illnesses that one cannot simply snap out of. However, there are certainly cognitive behavioral strategies that are used to treat OCD. Conversely, for someone who is suffering from a delusional disorder, medication is typically needed to ameliorate the condition. It is not my place to either assess or to treat this particular individual. What I do know is that ridiculing/shaming her can exacerbate her situation.
Exactly, which is why there's no suggestion in my post to ridicule or shame the individual, simply to tell her to stop doing what she's doing. There's no need to be mean to her or to disrespect her. We obviously don't have any means to treat her with medication, so that's off the table for us, and I harbor no hope that she'll simply snap out of it either. But I see no reason not to tell her that she's wrong and to stop what she's doing.

I agree with you guys she needs to be told to stop everyday just maybe one day she will get it. I think it is very helpful at time to protect Sean and Catherine.

by lovebites8727 Tue Oct 22, 2013 1:06 am

blessed66 wrote:I am sorry but I think we are making excuses for bad behavior. This woman needs to stop, Sean and Catherine do not owe her an explanation or any photos. Sean is not marrying the whole world but only Catherine so if he decides to love her privately or publicly it is his choice. This woman needs to just stop and I am sorry I do not have any kind words for her. She is a bully and a trouble maker, it is about time for her to grow up.

Oh I know what you mean blessed. Sigh. Time for her to grow up. Knowing she is a nurse by a profession. She is just too much . She needs to realize everything . As in right now! Stop and change. Life is too short to be like that. Truly unbelievable no no

by **lipsis** Tue Oct 22, 2013 1:39 am

I'm not an expert in any psychological matters but I do know a little about message boards and twitter. There's not a doubt in my mind that this person still lurks here. She takes some of what we post to tweet to Sean and Catherine and their friends and family in a negative way. My hope is that she reads these very well thought out comments tonight, takes them to heart and stops doing what she doing.

Thank you all for your thoughtful comments.

by Guest Tue Oct 22, 2013 1:53 am

I wanna tell yybubula to get a life. If this person is irritating me, I can only imagine how the people she's harrassing are feeling. If this is the same person that claimed her house and family are getting neglected, I think her energy will be better spent on those that are physically closer to her. She's cyber-stalking The Filipinlowes.

by motheroffive Tue Oct 22, 2013 9:06 am

lipsis wrote:I'm not an expert in any psychological matters but I do know a little about message boards and twitter. There's not a doubt in my mind that this person still lurks here. She takes some of what we post to tweet to Sean and Catherine and their friends and family in a negative way. My hope is that she reads these very well thought out comments tonight, takes them to heart and stops doing what she doing.

Thank you all for your thoughtful comments.

I agree with you Lipsis. The thing I have learned from reading back through her crazy tweets is she believes everything she reads. She still believes the tabloids were true about Sean and Peta hooking up and now she believes the ridiculous reports that they are only marrying for money. I am thinking about tweeting her the Daily Mail article and see if she gets a clue!

by lovebites8727 Tue Oct 22, 2013 9:49 am

motheroffive wrote:
lipsis wrote:I'm not an expert in any psychological matters but I do know a little about message boards and twitter. There's not a doubt in my mind that this person still lurks here. She takes some of what we post to tweet to Sean and Catherine and their friends and family in a negative way. My hope is that she reads these very well thought out comments tonight, takes them to heart and stops doing what she doing.

Thank you all for your thoughtful comments.
I agree with you Lipsis. The thing I have learned from reading back through her crazy tweets is she believes everything she reads. She still believes the tabloids were true about Sean and Peta hooking up and now she believes the ridiculous reports that they are only marrying for money. I am thinking about tweeting her the Daily Mail article and see if she gets a clue!

Meh trust me motheroffive about the daily mail she knows and saw that already . No one can stop her. She will always be negative about them. I think by what she's doing to them is it shows how she looks at sean as individual and a man and my perception to her is she never respected sean at all! Because she keeps judging him and never been feel positive about him , throughout her tweets it says a lot . She only thinks that she has the right to act like that with them . So sometimes I can't blame if sean feeling the need to respond her a sarcastic funny tweets . For sure at some point he is feeling she's too much but he is playing cool with it . He and catherine are aware and truly understanding and just try to ignore and deal with it. I honestly don't think in any way to stop her. The problem here is she doesn't get it instead she just keep going and going which is very sad . I don't mind her being so protective that's okay but she's doing it wrong.

by umngirl Tue Oct 22, 2013 10:03 am

I honestly just want to tell this lady to give up social media. I mean, her obsession with them has led to her harassing them on a almost daily basis. I've tried to tell her to give it up or find something else to be crazy about, but that clearly hasn't worked. Hopefully after the wedding she will cease or at least tone it down big time.

by **lipsis** Tue Oct 22, 2013 10:46 am

And back to our regularly scheduled programming...

This is a sighting from last night. Old Monk is a restaurant in Dallas.

@hanbanan8701: Shawn the bachelor and Catherine spotting at old monk

by blessed66 Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:05 am

Good Morning Team FilipinLowe! I hope we will have a great day free of all that craziness.

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