Andi Dorfman- Bachelor 18 Contestant- Spoilers/Discussion

Andi Dorfman ‏@AndiDorfman  12m
Just got this gem... Seriously most amazing kids I have ever met in my life #St.Lucia #TheBachelor #behindthescenes pic.twitter.com/PrubLlAicI

Love this pic!  

I still like Andi - maybe even more than I did. I guess this snarky flawed gal can appreciate another one.

How is she flawed? I love the fact she woke up after the FD and the Bachelor Bubble was burst. Kudos to her. It was great (and rare) to see. JMHO but she will make a great bette.   

IrishGal wrote:How is she flawed?  I love the fact she woke up after the FD and the Bachelor Bubble was burst.  Kudos to her.  It was great (and rare) to see.  JMHO but she will make a great bette.    

We're all flawed in some way. I liked that she was honest however I think there was misunderstanding on both parts and I don't believe Andi saw that then. I wonder what she thinks now assuming she's watching the show?

albean99 wrote:

IrishGal wrote:How is she flawed?  I love the fact she woke up after the FD and the Bachelor Bubble was burst.  Kudos to her.  It was great (and rare) to see.  JMHO but she will make a great bette.    

We're all flawed in some way. I liked that she was honest however I think there was misunderstanding on both parts and I don't believe Andi saw that then. I wonder what she thinks now assuming she's watching the show?

Hugs, bean.

Obviously, we are all flawed. It does hold weight for me that the two women I most liked and respected left. I assume they saw something that we didn't get to see. And I believe them. I have seen nothing about JPG that makes me doubt Andi's assessment. I sincerely doubt she misunderstood him. On the contrary I think she figured him out. What was to misunderstand? He'd rather touch women like they were little Barbie Dolls than hold a real discussion.

IrishGal wrote:

albean99 wrote:

IrishGal wrote:How is she flawed?  I love the fact she woke up after the FD and the Bachelor Bubble was burst.  Kudos to her.  It was great (and rare) to see.  JMHO but she will make a great bette.    

We're all flawed in some way. I liked that she was honest however I think there was misunderstanding on both parts and I don't believe Andi saw that then. I wonder what she thinks now assuming she's watching the show?

Hugs, bean.  

Obviously, we are all flawed.   It does hold weight for me that the two women I most liked and respected left.  I assume they saw something that we didn't get to see. And I believe them.  I have seen nothing about JPG that makes me doubt Andi's assessment.  I sincerely doubt she misunderstood him.  On the contrary I think she figured him out.  What was to misunderstand? He'd rather touch women like they were little Barbie Dolls than hold a real discussion.  

I think he has more trouble understanding what Andi & Sharleen are talking about for one thing. He said some thoughtless things with Andi plus he apparently didn't try to pretend with her.  I don't blame her for being hurt or mad however this is also the nature of the show. I think it just hit her on the side if the head and she reacted naturally. I don't think JP is a big jerk but he definitely slipped up with Andi.

You know so often women has said I wish he would just be honest and tell the truth, now we have one complaining about one being honest. I guess it would be better to be dishonest and tell a lie to make her feel better.

pbmax wrote:You know so often women has said I wish he would just be honest and tell the truth, now we have one complaining about one being honest. I guess it would be better to be dishonest and tell a lie to  make her feel better.

I laughed when I first read this. It reminded me of Jpab saying he would rather be honestly disrespected than dishonestly respected...or some such thing. Nevertheless, I actually understood and agreed with what I think he meant, rather than what he said. I also agree with you, even though I think she wouldn't have been satisfied either way. She was pumped and primed by the producers for that audition. Didn't matter what he said.

I hope she remembers what happened because she should take heed. TPTB build up JPab out of nothing and then ripped him to shreds. They will not hesitate to do the same to her...and MF is usually much worse on the Bettes. Can't say I won't enjoy seeing her eat her words...

atem wrote:Yet, she's A-OK with her best bud hooking up with him, so I don't buy it.  

I think she just found out that she was just like all the others and was strung along for 'story' purposes.  That must have really tweaked her ego.  Why should she be mad at Juan Pablo when it gave her the opportunity to be the next Bachelorette?  It's not like she won't be doing the exact same thing he is.

Unless of course Nikki isn't the F1, despite what's been said.

Aunties_Love wrote:

atem wrote:Yet, she's A-OK with her best bud hooking up with him, so I don't buy it.  

I think she just found out that she was just like all the others and was strung along for 'story' purposes.  That must have really tweaked her ego.  Why should she be mad at Juan Pablo when it gave her the opportunity to be the next Bachelorette?  It's not like she won't be doing the exact same thing he is.

Unless of course Nikki isn't the F1, despite what's been said.

I would prefer Nikki as the Bachelorette if she isn't the F1 to be honest.

see2love wrote:I would prefer Nikki as the Bachelorette if she isn't the F1 to be honest.

  Me too!

I think maybe JP has several ladies that aren't suited to him. He seems to like to hang out, take it easy, go out dancing, watch sports and spend quality time with his daughter. A simple, relaxed life. I think it's fine, but maybe not the type of person suited to many. Andi realized they are different and not a match. So leave but why be mad at him and act like he's a jerk? I think it's much worse to be stringing women along implying you may be falling in love with them and getting their hopes up when you know they're not the one and saying all the right things to them for show. To me that's the required "normal" bachelor behaviour and much more worthy of anger than realizing you aren't into the guy and he's not that into you either.

I think JP had many great women, but none that really match his lifestyle or demeanour. He just doesn't seem like a jerk to me, and I have HATED many many of the Bachelors. He's not perfect and may not be that savy or politically correct with what he says to people, but I still like him. Never saw a match for him in this group of all-American girls.

eirekay wrote:

see2love wrote:I would prefer Nikki as the Bachelorette if she isn't the F1 to be honest.

  Me too!

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