Chris Siegfried -Bachelorette Contestant - Spoilers - Discussion

mercieme wrote:

sportsfan76 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

riddlexo3 wrote:She's has been saying she loves brooks the whole time and then suddenly realizes its infatuation. I just think that you can't fake how devastated des was. She's going to look like a liar who doesn't want to be alone. I feel bad for chris because even if she has this total change of heart how can he trust her.

Keep in mind that IF they are together (and I am not necessarily hoping they are) they have had 3 months to sort through her feeling on this whole mess. One way or another, they would have been able to decide by now. Same goes for Brooks, how can she trust him after all he said? I have said quite a few times they should all go home alone. It's too crazy!!

I have nothing against any of the F3; I use F3 because I think Brooks does return in some capacity.  Either he has a change of heart or to see if she is OK.  A couple of things keep going through my mind; one why would Brooks say in the limo something to the effect of hoping she found love with Drew or Chris?  That strikes me as odd; if he was conflicted about his feelings, why hope she found love with someone else?  To me, it seemed like he was looking for the easy out and truly cares for Des as a friend but not as a lifetime partner.  I admire him for what he did though by being honest with her.

The producers/Chris H. say it is a weird ending that almost doesn't make sense and one that comes out of left field.  

I think Drew is not F1; I think he is a sweet guy, family oriented and will make a great husband and father.  His downfall is he is not spontaneous enough for Des in my opinion.  

I believe it comes down to Brooks versus Chris.  I think there are a couple of options; Brooks coming back to say he has a change of heart or if it is more of can she let go of what her feelings were for Brooks if he does not return?  In my opinion, the predictable ending is Brooks coming back saying he has a change of heart and does love her.  He proposes and Des says yes.  This would be weird given what he had said to her a few days earlier.  But does it come out of left field?  Not so much in my opinion because I think that is what a lot of people are predicting.

A weird ending for me would be Brooks coming back, professing his love, proposing and Des saying no and accepting a proposal from Chris.  

I believe Chris is F1; I think their relationship is a lot stronger than what is shown (Chris H. said in an interview that she has said she loves Chris).  I believe they have only shown her saying she is falling for Chris.  I think her comment about not being able to love Drew or Chris the way she loves Brooks was said in the heat of the moment and can be easily remedied by saying she loves her F1 more than Brooks after realizing what she almost lost by focusing her heart only on Brooks.  In a sense, love has been redefined for her.  

I think the weird ending that makes almost no sense is her turning down a proposal from Brooks and the "coming out of left field" is a reference to Chris given his baseball background.  Why would she being having a meltdown a few days earlier and then accepting a proposal from another guy?  It almost makes no sense except I think, with what Brooks did to her, she loves Chris and realizes he has been a calm source of strength for her throughout the journey.  He has been a rock, they connect physically and emotionally and they love each other.  I think the picture of him in the limo is one of nervousness because he doesn't know if she'll accept a proposal or not.  I think it is of him on his way to the FRC not on his way back from the FRC.

Personally, I would not take Brooks back but that choice is up to Des.  If they are engaged, I wish them all the best.   Regardless of how this all plays out, I can't wait for Monday to get here!  And the After the Final Rose should be really interesting.  Chris H. says he has questions for Des based on how it unfolded.  Maybe "How can you accept a proposal from another man when you clearly stated your heart was taken by Brooks."  

Thanks for posting this well thought out analysis in Chrisville. The AFTR should be the most interesting regardless of any of the scenarios and I do hope that Chris H does not let anyone of the them off the hook. Remember Chris H also said on his last blog that 'no one will come out of this unscathed'. If Chris and Drew are not F1, I could see this statement as not applicable to all of them but definitely something 'out of left field' went down for Chris H to make that statement.

2boys3girls wrote:Yes, he said both when he was pacing after Des went to go sit alone.

grace8136 wrote:

2boys3girls wrote:Yes, he said both when he was pacing after Des went to go sit alone.

ugh.. I'm so confused. When I listen to it I hear.. "we were supposed to be..."

grace8136 wrote:

2boys3girls wrote:Yes, he said both when he was pacing after Des went to go sit alone.

ugh.. I'm so confused. When I listen to it I hear.. "we were supposed to be..."

treschicas wrote:Okay it's officially Sunday. I think we all have gone mad analyzing....we'll know the results in less than 48 hours!

sportsfan76 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

riddlexo3 wrote:She's has been saying she loves brooks the whole time and then suddenly realizes its infatuation. I just think that you can't fake how devastated des was. She's going to look like a liar who doesn't want to be alone. I feel bad for chris because even if she has this total change of heart how can he trust her.

Keep in mind that IF they are together (and I am not necessarily hoping they are) they have had 3 months to sort through her feeling on this whole mess. One way or another, they would have been able to decide by now. Same goes for Brooks, how can she trust him after all he said? I have said quite a few times they should all go home alone. It's too crazy!!

I have nothing against any of the F3; I use F3 because I think Brooks does return in some capacity.  Either he has a change of heart or to see if she is OK.  A couple of things keep going through my mind; one why would Brooks say in the limo something to the effect of hoping she found love with Drew or Chris?  That strikes me as odd; if he was conflicted about his feelings, why hope she found love with someone else?  To me, it seemed like he was looking for the easy out and truly cares for Des as a friend but not as a lifetime partner.  I admire him for what he did though by being honest with her.

The producers/Chris H. say it is a weird ending that almost doesn't make sense and one that comes out of left field.  

I think Drew is not F1; I think he is a sweet guy, family oriented and will make a great husband and father.  His downfall is he is not spontaneous enough for Des in my opinion.  

I believe it comes down to Brooks versus Chris.  I think there are a couple of options; Brooks coming back to say he has a change of heart or if it is more of can she let go of what her feelings were for Brooks if he does not return?  In my opinion, the predictable ending is Brooks coming back saying he has a change of heart and does love her.  He proposes and Des says yes.  This would be weird given what he had said to her a few days earlier.  But does it come out of left field?  Not so much in my opinion because I think that is what a lot of people are predicting.

A weird ending for me would be Brooks coming back, professing his love, proposing and Des saying no and accepting a proposal from Chris.  

I believe Chris is F1; I think their relationship is a lot stronger than what is shown (Chris H. said in an interview that she has said she loves Chris).  I believe they have only shown her saying she is falling for Chris.  I think her comment about not being able to love Drew or Chris the way she loves Brooks was said in the heat of the moment and can be easily remedied by saying she loves her F1 more than Brooks after realizing what she almost lost by focusing her heart only on Brooks.  In a sense, love has been redefined for her.  

I think the weird ending that makes almost no sense is her turning down a proposal from Brooks and the "coming out of left field" is a reference to Chris given his baseball background.  Why would she being having a meltdown a few days earlier and then accepting a proposal from another guy?  It almost makes no sense except I think, with what Brooks did to her, she loves Chris and realizes he has been a calm source of strength for her throughout the journey.  He has been a rock, they connect physically and emotionally and they love each other.  I think the picture of him in the limo is one of nervousness because he doesn't know if she'll accept a proposal or not.  I think it is of him on his way to the FRC not on his way back from the FRC.

Personally, I would not take Brooks back but that choice is up to Des.  If they are engaged, I wish them all the best.   Regardless of how this all plays out, I can't wait for Monday to get here!  And the After the Final Rose should be really interesting.  Chris H. says he has questions for Des based on how it unfolded.  Maybe "How can you accept a proposal from another man when you clearly stated your heart was taken by Brooks."  

mercieme wrote:

treschicas wrote:Okay it's officially Sunday. I think we all have gone mad analyzing....we'll know the results in less than 48 hours!

Yay!!!! Excited for the shenanigans to be over. No matter what, Chrisville will remain a happy place & no one can take our very own HRH Prince Siegfried's happiness away, it's been a joy to watch him the last few months.

brittany4400 wrote:

mercieme wrote:

treschicas wrote:Okay it's officially Sunday. I think we all have gone mad analyzing....we'll know the results in less than 48 hours!

Yay!!!! Excited for the shenanigans to be over. No matter what, Chrisville will remain a happy place & no one can take our very own HRH Prince Siegfried's happiness away, it's been a joy to watch him the last few months.

I'm a little sad not to have chris to look forward to on Monday nights :pinkcry: