Re: Chris Siegfried -Bachelorette Contestant - Spoilers - Thread #7

[Baseball Mom]

Quick SLA.. figure out the location and run over to meet Chris and get some answers for us!  

 yes!!! and don't forget to take a picture and then tweet it so we can post it on this thread  

[JBF]

I've always liked Chris for her, so a lot of this is focus on him but as of HTD I am including what she says about each of the F3 going into Finale Part 1. I know what the spoilers say, but I am trying to listen more to what she says as the weeks commence. Just putting it all in one place, for clarity.

I copied this stuff for my own notes... ha ha!

Chris Gets a Rose
That night I had really great conversations with everyone, but the highlight was my time with Chris. I didn't expect our conversation to come so easily. I felt like I'd known him for years. He was so witty and confident, and I knew I wanted to spend more time with him. Giving Chris the rose meant a lot to me and the slow dance in the park was the romance I had hoped for.

from Chris H's blog:

Chris, who we also finally got to know this week, was able to make a big enough impression on Des that he got the group date rose and the private show with Kate Earl. It was brutal that the guys had to sit and listen to the concert knowing that Des and Chris were sharing an intimate moment together.

That last line is amusing.

Chris H. June 15, 2010 (episode #4 / Ali’s season)

Jesse’s singing blew everyone away, but it was Roberto who pulled out the smooth move and stole the show, literally. One of the guys brought up a great point about Roberto and Ali. They have shared some crazy moments together. Walking across a tightrope in downtown LA, performing in The Lion King. Those are the types of moments that relationships are built on, and the guys know this, and it’s killing them.

May 6 interview with People mag:

"I like someone who's spontaneous and adventurous and enjoys every aspect of life. And not to get too serious, but someone who could be my best friend and be a support system, someone who I can see as the father of my kids," the 26-year-old tells PEOPLE.

You covered this below...

Des to Becky on hometown date (ep #8): “He really has all of the qualities… and the lasting qualities, I think… that I really want in a husband and a father of my children”

from Chris H's blog:

Chris got the first one-on-one date this week. This is a guy who has really emerged from the pack the last few weeks. He was a slow starter but has really made up ground and seems to be making an impact on Des. The date was going great until Bryden decided that not only did he need to leave, but he really needed to leave right then and there. So he set off to find Des to break the news to her immediately. I don’t necessarily think he needed to bust into her date to do this, but I do respect the fact that Bryden pulled himself out of this situation as soon as he was absolutely sure Des wasn’t right for him. At this point, taking up space in the house and on dates just isn’t fair to Des or the other guys. While Des wasn’t exactly blown away by this news she was upset by the realization that this can happen. Chris was put in a tough spot, having to help Des recover and also save his date. He did a great job pulling the situation together, assuring Des he was there for the long haul. Later that night when Des was explaining that she really needs words of affirmation in a relationship, Chris whips out a poem he wrote. This was perfect timing and Des really took it to heart. It was the icing on the cake for what had been a really good date.

No question which one Mister Harrison wants for her.

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from Chris H's blog:

Brooks got the first one-on-one this week. I find these two very interesting. They seem happy together, but they also seem very cautious. It’s almost as if they spend time trying to figure out how to define their relationship or figure out how the other person is feeling. For example, they came up with “adjectives” to describe where they are between like and love. Now the fact that they actually came up with verbs, and not adjectives, is something I know mortified every English teacher in the world, but that’s not the point. The point is while their outward appearance is happy and free, their words still seem cautious. Des later admitted to me that she isn’t “running” toward love, she’s actually at the “finish line.” She’s in love with Brooks and she feels he’s in love with her as well, although he hasn’t expressed that to her verbally.

Chris got the second one-on-one this week and as good as Brooks’ date was, Chris’ was just as emotional, if not more. When these two are together they just seem right. It’s unbelievably easy and nothing seems forced between them. Chris really seems to make Des happy and he became the first this season to tell Des he loves her. He did it in a poem, but it still very much counts and Des knows exactly how he feels about her. Later, during our deliberation, Des admitted she’s also fallen for Chris and that she could easily see a future with him. I’m glad she’s kept an open mind and is still able to separate each man and each date at this point.

Ditto MISTER Harrison.

Chris's Family
I was thrilled to meet Chris's family in Oregon. One of the qualities I love about Chris is his athleticism, so it was nice to share in his passion for baseball and see where he played as a kid. I enjoyed showing off my baseball skills and hopefully impressed him. Spending the day with Chris in his hometown felt effortless and I could picture what a life together would be like. I always have an amazing time with Chris and our relationship has progressed in such a wonderful way but I needed his family's blessing. I knew he was ready for a commitment but I needed to see if our lives meshed well together. I enjoyed talking with his mother and I could tell she only wants what is best for her son. That was endearing and I was glad that his family gave us their blessings. It felt great to know where my relationship stood with Chris and that made me hopeful for the rest of the journey.

what she said about the HTD with Drew and Brooks

Drew's Family
Since Drew tended to be more reserved and serious, I hoped his family would bring out a different side to him. Going with him to pick up his sister Melissa is a moment I will never forget. She was so excited to see Drew and I could see the love that they had for each other. The care he took with her showed me how he would take care of his own family one day. I was really looking forward to meeting Drew's father, Mal. After my conversation with him, I could see why he's Drew's hero. Mal was so kind-hearted, yet strong, and it was such a pleasure to meet him and get his blessing. His entire family was so loving and kind – the type of family you want to be around. Also Drew lit up around his family. I could see a more comfortable and charismatic side to him that I had been looking for. And the steamy kiss he laid on me as I left was quite memorable too!

Brooks' Family
It seemed like forever since I last saw Brooks in Madeira, so I couldn't wait to see him and meet his large family. I am always very comfortable with Brooks and love how engaging he is in conversation, so our time in the park brought me right back to where we left off. Since his confidence throughout this journey has waivered, I shared a list of our best memories to reassure him of my strong feelings for him.

It worried me that he still needed reassurance, so I did have questions for his family to see if he is ready for a committed relationship. Meeting a family that included nine siblings and their partners along with his mother, I was prepared for anything. His mother and siblings told me that Brooks is ready for a committed relationship once he meets the right girl and that he would be the best partner to have in life. After a great day, I felt confident in my relationship with Brooks and couldn't wait to see him again.

*cough cough*! Once he meets the right girl?

At least Des is more confident with Brooks than Ali was with Frank (people.com / July 13, 2010)

Last but not least, we take on Chicago! I absolutely love Chicago, so I was really excited that this was my last hometown date. To be honest, this visit was one I was most looking forward to so I was a little bit disappointed when Frank seemed off at the start of our date. But I didn't think much of it because Frank was always concerned about the process so I just thought he needed reassurance and it would pass. I was surprised to hear Frank say that love is complicated. I'm hoping that my relationship with my husband is the one thing in my life that isn't complicated. Yes, there will be tough times and we will have to work hard at it, but I never want to wonder if that person is right for me.

You didn't see my conversation with Frank's dad. He told me he doesn't think Frank is ready to be in a committed relationship. I was unsure what to think about those comments, but was grateful that his dad was being completely honest with me. When he first told me this, I thought he was talking about Frank not being financially ready to settle down, but as you can see in the previews, that wasn't the case. I had a great time with Frank’s family. They are super funny and easy to get along with. I was laughing the entire time I was with them.

And Ali dumped Kirk for Frank?!?

During the dates:

(about Drew) She doesn't do voiceover until after she meets Melissa. "Melissa loves Drew. I mean, her reaction tells it all and I can see how sweet and tender he is with her, and how much he cares. He does like to take responsibility and he really wants to help. Drew is an amazing guy. (in answer to his dad's question) first attracted me...his eyes. Because I could see the depth and the heart that really reflected...love. I honestly was attracted to him right away, but like, when he talks, I know he's honest and true. He really stays true to who he is...and I really like that about him. (VO) Drew's family is phenomenal, full of love, full of life and so accepting and warm and friendly - everything I would want in a family. I want to join Drew's family right now. I want to stay." (She leaves at night).

Well... Drew ALMOST had it in the bag I guess. ha ha!

(about Chris) "Seeing Chris made me happy to be here. Every time I hang out with him...I feel "good" about our relationship and where it's going. I feel like, when we see each other, we pick up right where we left off. So, I'm excited to see what Chris has in store. Chris played professional baseball, and this is where it all started. I can picture Chris as a little boy, running the bases and hitting popflies.

It's...cute. When I'm with Chris, I feel like we have known each other for awhile, and I'm just very comfortable...and myself with him. Chris is a blend of all of the things I've been looking for.

(onscreen)He's athletic, he's adventurous but he's also poetic...and romantic. (VO) I'm having a blast with Chris. Chris is stealing my heart. I definitely have strong feelings for Chris. That's why today's a huge day for me. knowing how much Chris' family's opinion means so much to him, (onscreen) it's important for Chris' family to love me (VO) so that he can feel comfortable with moving forward in our relationship.  That makes meeting his family so important. They have to like me.

(VO)When Chris and I walk in the door, (onscreen) his family is so excited to see him.(VO) They want to give him a hug and give me a hug. It's a great feeling when a family's so energetic and so welcoming.

Chris' dad, George, is a chiropractor and...he thought he'd give me an adjustment. Laying down, face first, with my butt in the air, with Chris' dad who I just met, massaging my back (onscreen) it's not weird at all (smiling). Not weird at all...He's explaining all these things that he's doing to my back (VO) and I don't have a clue what those things mean. All I'm feeling is the breaks and the crinks. I really enjoy getting my back aligned but (onscreen) I really do want to talk to him about his son. Des says to his mom about Chris - he's such a wonderful guy. He's so kind-hearted and empathetic, and his confidence is very unique, I think. He really has all the qualities - and the lasting qualities, I think … I would really want in a husband and a father of my children. (VO while they kiss with music like on Trista/Ryan proposal..hmmm..fake out for the sleuthers?) I'm a little sad to say good-bye to Chris. I really don't want to leave just yet. (onscreen) It's so great to meet his family, and the day went...so well (back to kiss) (VO after kiss as she's getting into the van). He does have everything that I'm looking for. (onscreen) There's definitely potential husband in Chris. (VO as she drives off, he's watching) And...it's so amazing." (dubbed in from somewhere else? or did she say that then? just wondering) Note: it is still daytime there when she leaves.

About the Ryan/Trista music, here is our list since Deanna’s... subject to correction

Deanna: F1 Jesse (finale)
Jason: F1 Molly (episode #6) & “default” F1 Melissa (fantasy date & finale)
Jillian: F1 Ed (finale, when she was talking to her dad)
Jake: F2 Tenley (Last Chance Date). Not sure if F1 Vienna got it.
Ali: F2 Chris L. (Lisbon) & F1 Roberto (fantasy date/Tahiti)
Brad: F1 Emily (Nascar date)
Ashley: F1 JP (Hong Kong)
Ben: F3 Nicki (both Puerto Rico & Switzerland) but not Courtney for some reason
On Emily’s season: Tony (ep #2), Arie (Prague), Sean (fantasy date) and F1 Jef (hometown)… an all time record
Sean: Sarah (ep #5) & Catherine (fantasy date)
Desiree: Zak (Barcelona) & Chris (hometown)

… so yeah, except for Ben’s season (not sure of Jake’s), F1 is included although (s)he may not be the only one.

(about Brooks) (VO while shown hugging him, greeting him with legs wrapped around him) "I'm so excited to see Brooks. I've been looking forward to this date with Brooks since our first date. (onscreen) I love Brooks, (VO while kissing him) and I love being around him and after the first date I really did want to be here. (onscreen) and meeting his family. (VO after they talk on the grass.) Brooks has been up and down this whole journey and (onscreen) it's understandable 'cause its kinda where I (back to VO) was last season with Sean. I think (VO) Brooks may be holding back from really...falling in love and letting himself go there, because I am dating other guy so I want him to just try to stay focused on what we have. (onscreen) When I picture my life with Brooks, I picture fun and I picture adventure. Every moment with Brooks is fun because he does have the tendency to make little, everyday things really romantic and special.

(VO)I walk in, and the energy was out of this world (onscreen) with so many siblings, and their significant others. This is the largest family I could ever think of. (VO) I come from a very small family. I have my mom, my dad and my brother. That's it. I love that Brooks' family members are just...energetic...and knowing how much Brooks' family's opinion means to him (onscreen) I really need their approval.

(VO) I was really looking forward to meeting his family because I want to get more insight and (onscreen) confirm what I already feel about Brooks. (VO) And I think for him he really wants to validate what he feels for me (onscreen) so that he can feel confident and comfortable with moving forward with his feelings.

Desie Baby, you confuse me to no end.

[Guest]

I've always liked Chris for her, so a lot of this is focus on him but as of HTD I am including what she says about each of the F3 going into Finale Part 1. I know what the spoilers say, but I am trying to listen more to what she says as the weeks commence. Just putting it all in one place, for clarity.

I copied this stuff for my own notes... ha ha!

Desie Baby, you confuse me to no end.

Me, too. I'm, like, totally bamboozled as to what she really wants...or needs. Come on, Monday, so we can be even more confused  

[Hotmomma]

Well I guess chris isn't with DES this weekend

[Velvety081]

So Chris was spotted in OR this weekend and Brooks' last night in SLC? I wonder what that means... unless there was no visit this weekend since ATFR is next week.

[Baseball Mom]

Copied this over from the episode thread....so all that speculation about the closed set may have been for nothing....

Not sure if this has been discussed but a bachelor blogger - Office Stace (she keeps away from spoilers) thought she had the opportunity to attend the ATFF and was unable to because she found out it was a closed set. She says last time it was a closed set was Jason. http://officestace.com/

That is interesting. I don't think it has anything to do with the spoilers being wrong. If it is live, leaks wouldn't get out anyway, so a closed or open set wouldn't matter.
But why closed? To continue the "illusion" of a mysterious ending?

I think they may have just tried to let this Office Stace down easy - it's not closed to people they invite
Today, Millsy invited a podcaster to the finale - here's the twitter exchange -

Robert Mills ‏@Millsy11374 8h
@julietlitman thanks for the mention in the podcast. Instead of tweeting from the finale why don't you come to it instead?


Juliet Litman ‏@julietlitman 4h
@Millsy11374 yes! How can I set that up


Robert Mills ‏@Millsy11374 2h
@julietlitman DM me your email and I'll hook you up!
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[SLA44]

Well where was Drew this weekend?

[nd4reality]

Well where was Drew this weekend?

If it is Drew she is meeting with they don't need to wait for weekends etc for meetups. Drew is right close by and they don't have to juggle work schedules and possible airport sightings for them to meet.
Besides, even if they are out and about on a daily basis they can still meetup at other times of the day or night. JMO of course.

[SLA44]

I'm beginning to think that it could just as easily be Drew as it could be Chris or Brooks. It looks like it is going to come down to a real crap shoot. SMH

[nd4reality]

I'm beginning to think that it could just as easily be Drew as it could be Chris or Brooks.  It looks like it is going to come down to a real crap shoot.  SMH

Whats that ?

[cantstopwatchin]

I'm beginning to think that it could just as easily be Drew as it could be Chris or Brooks.  It looks like it is going to come down to a real crap shoot.  SMH

Whats that ?

It means shaking my head :Smiley: 

[SLA44]

I'm beginning to think that it could just as easily be Drew as it could be Chris or Brooks.  It looks like it is going to come down to a real crap shoot.  SMH

Whats that ?

Shaking My Head

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