Ben Patton - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Discussion

maggieminn wrote:I am wondering how "the end" all plays out on Tuesday. Espcially in Ben's case he would have to make his decision before being ont the set since he propses in the vinyard scene. Do all the girls come back icliding his F2 to watch them come out as a couple????

Also if he didn't chhose Angela and proposed to Ali in the vineyard where he had his date with Angela would be a big slap int the face. I don't think he would do that. i'm team Angela all the way!!!

I remember that people were so convinced that Deanna would not take Jason to the finale without him being her F1. They didn't think that she would do that to the guy and his son; but she did. I'm not totally convinced that Allie's date wasn't at the same site. It could have been in a different location on the same site. jmo :Smiley:

I don't think that Angela would commit to someone that she's met on the Show. I never got the impression that Ben's faith was a priority for him like Angela's is for her. I maybe wrong, but it didn't come off like that on the Show. I also think that the "problems" that Ben and his F1 were/are having dealt with them not being able to be together which sound more like Allie. I would think that is would be very easy for Ben to see Angela since they are both from Texas and could drive to a location un-noticed. As always, this is just my opinion.

I don't know what to think about Ben. I'm looking to see if he has demonstrated anything different with any of the girls.

All I saw was him kissing and kissing the girls and some very provocatively that he let go like Renae, Taryn, etc.

What does he want? He wants a wife to love him and help him raise his kids. He's not looking for a business partner.
He wants someone who is willing to say I'll take care of that rather than him having to constantly front (pay) for everything in the relationship.
He wants a down to earth girl that would show her real emotions to him and it is not about perfection.

Post shows clues are few with him, but the few seems to point him with Angela. Location of the proposal, dress etc.

I have not seen anything with Allie's timeline about her comings or goings (very quiet)

One question is Why a proposal Ben?

2observe wrote:

maggieminn wrote:I am wondering how "the end" all plays out on Tuesday. Espcially in Ben's case he would have to make his decision before being ont the set since he propses in the vinyard scene. Do all the girls come back icliding his F2 to watch them come out as a couple????

Also if he didn't chhose Angela and proposed to Ali in the vineyard where he had his date with Angela would be a big slap int the face. I don't think he would do that. i'm team Angela all the way!!!

I remember that people were so convinced that Deanna would not take Jason to the finale without him being her F1. They didn't think that she would do that to the guy and his son; but she did. I'm not totally convinced that Allie's date wasn't at the same site. It could have been in a different location on the same site. jmo :Smiley:

Oh my gosh, that was my argument for Jason as F1 and I argued it over at FORT until the bitter end! Deanna has readily admited that she was wanting to throw in towel after Graham left at F4 (and there was a whole bunch of insiders on FORT who knew this but I just wouldn't believe them). I was naïve and I saw what I wanted to saw and I rooted for who I wanted Deanna to pick ... not who she wanted to pick.

Sorry, I digress ...

I think editing stinks so much on RFL that I am trusting post show evidence more than what I see onscreen. We've got some evidence saying that Ben & Angela was together in San Fran and NYC on major holidays. Who knows? Esp when Reality Steve had evidence of Brad Womack together with Chantal over Thanksgiving (later proven wrong!)

I still say it's a toss up who Ben picks and honestly don't care too much ... esp if they are already kaput.

Not sure where to put this:

@docdnash 02 Jun
@TarrynFranco Was the tell all filmed last summer or more recently?
Tarryn Franco Tarryn Franco
@TarrynFranco
@docdnash It was filmed last summer after the last date.

Well.. that's a bummer. I was hoping for an update. Since the show was cancelled, I wonder if anyone will even bother to interview them?

Do we know who Ben's final pick is yet for sure? Do we know if they are still together?

I didnt see a big attraction between Ben and any of the girls personally.. If there was any one ahead of the others I would think it to be Angela. Their attraction seems more physical to me than anything. At least Ben's is. I think Angela is competitive in nature and maybe this is more about winning than love for her. She may really fancy him now, but in 5-10 years is she still going to be into him? She is young, fresh, hip, fashionable, and she strikes me as an independant thinker and an independant gal. She doesn't need a man and if she wanted a man ir to settle down I hardly think she needs to on a reality show to find it.

Ben is the big CEO who wants, or wanted at one time, a woman that would let her career take a back seat to his.

"Ring Ringggg.... Hello Ben?? This is the 50's calling and we'd like our old male chauvinist ways and thinking back please!!"

And we're shocked to hear he and his final one are having problems? I don't think so. While I admire his honesty, that way of thinking is straight from the 50's and is controlling in nature. I dont see Angela staying in that type of a relationship for long. The other gal, Allie is it? The one with the twin on the show, she, or they, look just like Gweneth Paltrow to me. Uncanny resemblence!!

I'd ditch Ben any day for that cute matchmaker fellow!! That guy is the whole package!! Hubba hubba!! LOL

docnash14 wrote:Not sure where to put this:

@docdnash 02 Jun
@TarrynFranco Was the tell all filmed last summer or more recently?
Tarryn Franco Tarryn Franco
@TarrynFranco
@docdnash It was filmed last summer after the last date.

What?? This, RFL, was all filmed last summer?? As in last June July August? Seriously? Please tell me I missed part of the conversation and it was more recent then that.

crap wrote:Do we know who Ben's final pick is yet for sure? Do we know if they are still together?

I didnt see a big attraction between Ben and any of the girls personally.. If there was any one ahead of the others I would think it to be Angela. Their attraction seems more physical to me than anything. At least Ben's is. I think Angela is competitive in nature and maybe this is more about winning than love for her. She may really fancy him now, but in 5-10 years is she still going to be into him? She is young, fresh, hip, fashionable, and she strikes me as an independant thinker and an independant gal. She doesn't need a man and if she wanted a man ir to settle down I hardly think she needs to on a reality show to find it.

Ben is the big CEO who wants, or wanted at one time, a woman that would let her career take a back seat to his.

"Ring Ringggg.... Hello Ben?? This is the 50's calling and we'd like our old male chauvinist ways and thinking back please!!"

And we're shocked to hear he and his final one are having problems? I don't think so. While I admire his honesty, that way of thinking is straight from the 50's and is controlling in nature. I dont see Angela staying in that type of a relationship for long. The other gal, Allie is it? The one with the twin on the show, she, or they, look just like Gweneth Paltrow to me. Uncanny resemblence!!

I'd ditch Ben any day for that cute matchmaker fellow!! That guy is the whole package!! Hubba hubba!! LOL

I really think that Ben WANTS to be needed and I can see Allie supplying him with reasons to feel needed. I don't see that with Angela.

Idlemess wrote:
I don't know what to think about Ben. I'm looking to see if he has demonstrated anything different with any of the girls.

All I saw was him kissing and kissing the girls and some very provocatively that he let go like Renae, Taryn, etc.

What does he want? He wants a wife to love him and help him raise his kids. He's not looking for a business partner.
He wants someone who is willing to say I'll take care of that rather than him having to constantly front (pay) for everything in the relationship.
He wants a down to earth girl that would show her real emotions to him and it is not about perfection.

Post shows clues are few with him, but the few seems to point him with Angela. Location of the proposal, dress etc.

I have not seen anything with Allie's timeline about her comings or goings (very quiet)

One question is Why a proposal Ben?

Maybe he fell in love.

I know that Tim picked Sara because if you look at 1st episode the promo shows Jenna wearing a silver dress as she walks down and heads up to the elevator glass box. The person that Tim sings to from the picture wears a blue/black dress, so it couldn't be Jenna. I am not so sure about Ben. I would love for him to pick Angela because she seems more mature and drama free. Allie for me is a little too immature and she seems to not have a lot in common with Ben. Also, when Allie met Ben sister and she asked Allie what do you have in common, her answer was "I don't know." I mean come on you know this guy for a couple of weeks now, you should know is values or what he is looking for in a girl. I admit that Ben and Allie have a lot of chemistry but chemistry can only last so long and if you don't have similar interest and have commonality to talk about your relationship is not going to last. I also got this Kari vibe from her and if you go to nbc and watch an outtake of her vs Taryn you can see how immature she is at that point about her view about relationships and guys in general. Also can you imagine the drama between her and Kari in Dallas.

crap wrote:

docnash14 wrote:Not sure where to put this:

@docdnash 02 Jun
@TarrynFranco Was the tell all filmed last summer or more recently?
Tarryn Franco Tarryn Franco
@TarrynFranco
@docdnash It was filmed last summer after the last date.

What?? This, RFL, was all filmed last summer?? As in last June July August? Seriously? Please tell me I missed part of the conversation and it was more recent then that.

Filming started last June and wrapped mid-August.