Re: Ben Patton - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Discussion

by stg73 Thu Jun 20, 2013 11:49 pm

alondon wrote:
Iluvbachette wrote:There are several people what have friended people on the shows via fb. That I know have gotten married. So anything is possible.

Iluvbachette, Facebook as a means is not the problem. Lord Patton just seems lost when it comes to women (that was my conclusion from watching the show). That naïve and impulsive proposal spoke volumes to me.

I agree with you there!! He does seem lost, and the women type of women he appears to be attracted to really don't seem like they are the type to want to be a housewife. I of course don't know this to be a fact. After years of watching relationships come & go, you can usually tell! Wonder if Ben's Mom & sister have approved her yet! He said if his Mom doesn't like them, it's a deal breaker!

by Guest Fri Jun 21, 2013 12:01 am

stg73, I hope for his sake, his mother and sister send this one packing. From what I've read so far, (which is not much) methinks she will run circles around our naïve Sir Ben. She is a nurse, a model, a host and was cast in 2 bachelor related shows. She just moved to NYC a year ago (to pursue her dreams, I guess). She is anything but homemaker material.

by Guest Fri Jun 21, 2013 12:21 am

stg73 wrote:IMO- he is not "ready for love".....he's just thinking with his ummm, you know.. Sounds like he hasn't dated in a long time. Thinking he's just going to be a player for a while!!

Well, he doesn't seem to winning on that front. "Don't try to be a rock when you are a gem" (hat tip Lauryn Hill). It's checkmate from all directions (heck, virgin Angela has more game). Our CEO needs to step it up. Does he not see how his buddy Ernesto (the smooth operator) navigates?

by stg73 Fri Jun 21, 2013 12:34 am

alondon- lol!! He does need to step it up. I agree, Angela does have more game!! He seems very mature & successful in other aspects of his life, but has the dating skills of a teenager!

by Guest Fri Jun 21, 2013 12:54 am

stg73 wrote:alondon- lol!! He does need to step it up. I agree, Angela does have more game!! He seems very mature & successful in other aspects of his life, but has the dating skills of a teenager!

LOL

by MatchMaker Fri Jun 21, 2013 1:36 am

Iluvbachette wrote:Ben's dating an ex-bachelorette.

http://www.wetpaint.com/the-bachelor/articles/2013-06-20-bachelors-jamie-otis-dating-ready?fb_pid=1371751089890200&utm_campaign=vrl&utm_medium=fnpg-bachelor&utm_source=facebook.com

Oh Ben, look for someone like Allie. You're now in a relationship that you will always be hoping that it will get better, but it won't. Or at least have someone like me prescreen your FB choices. I'm starting to think that you really aren't ready to settle down yet and start a family.

by stg73 Fri Jun 21, 2013 9:18 am

MatchMaker- you are so right.

by ja1968 Fri Jun 21, 2013 10:23 am

From what I am reading I would not call this a relationship yet. It looks like they have only talked online and may not have even gotten together in person yet. I am not familiar with Jaime so no opinion on her. It does not look like Ben is ready for a serious relationship right now,imo.

by stg73 Fri Jun 21, 2013 1:11 pm

Go to jaime's twitter page & follow link to interview. (Life & style weekly) That one she states they met in person @ Atlantic City Alliance Bachlorette viewing party in NYC. She then says he is going to NYC on the 28th & they have plans to hang out. He is going to show her the NYC hot spots. Her twitter is @jamienotis

by Guest Fri Jun 21, 2013 2:34 pm

That girl was so awkward on both the bachelor and bachelorpad. She was edited to be so needy. Hope that's not how she is in real life but I get a feeling she is. Why is she talking to the tabs already when she hasn't spent that much time with Ben . Did I read Ben saying he is single and not in a relationship?

by stg73 Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:37 pm

lexforlife he did say he was single & taking a break from dating. I also think its odd she has taken to the tabloids.

by Guest Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:51 pm

lexforlife wrote:That girl was so awkward on both the bachelor and bachelorpad. She was edited to be so needy. Hope that's not how she is in real life but I get a feeling she is. Why is she talking to the tabs already when she hasn't spent that much time with Ben . Did I read Ben saying he is single and not in a relationship?

It takes a certain type of person to sign up for not 1 but 2 romance related TV shows, where one is filmed in "compromising" situations. I am no prude, by any stretch of the imagination, but certain things are meant to be private. Posting on this site is about as public as I would ever get. I am still not on twitter or facebook (may be I will change my mind on that). Personally, I don't understand the situation where one is eliminated on the bachelor or bachelorette and then shows up again on TV (even as the main character looking for love, like Trista). I am not familiar with the premise of the bachelor pad show, but it seems Jamie came up empty yet again on that show. A bit worrying! No??

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