Re: Tim Lopez - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Thread #3

by happygolucky Tue May 21, 2013 2:16 pm

So to summon my opinion, Tim so far has developed huge crush on Jenna (kinda love at first sight, because when they hugged in the 1st ep. it was written on his face), started falling for her, but is still unsure mostly because of her age & "inexperience". On the other hand there's Sara who is fitting well, nice, beautiful, caring girl, who can understand him and stand beside him and be the support and the accomplice, but he doesn't feel the same passion and attraction for her as he does for Jenna. So at the end comes the question: go for the safe bet that it's probably going to work, because everybody says so (out of fear of failure with the young girl) or risk and leave with no regret, try to see the how the relationship can work with that little Austin girl and if it's meant to be, it's gonna last.

ETA: I also think that the major concern is Jenna's youth, considering that Tim wants to have a serious relationship, a real deal. But, nobody can be certain that this couldn't work, because how many people fall in love and marry young and make it work? (probably a lot of our parents, since I'm single and can't really talk on that matter) Also if the relationship out of this show doesn't last for long, no biggie, the exposure has been made, the advertising and the band appearance have increased the recognition and the music following, more new fans and more work opportunities. So it's all about giving it a try and not take "the game" too serious, specially because it's about the "heart" and what "heart" really wants.

by jojo47 Tue May 21, 2013 2:18 pm

noobsleuth wrote:
Lost17 wrote:Sorry happy, DIL means Daughter-In-Law. She'd be perfect for one of my son's, if only they were older, . Also that sc that noob posted was from this episode, we just didn't get to see it.

noob, awesome recap as always! Just wish we'd been able to see their time alone! I liked how Jenna said Tim in the garden and told him what she did. I still see Jenna as F1.

He got way emotional at the thought of eliminating her. He knows in his head that Sara, Hailey, and Siham are all great matches for him. This is why I think he is able to communicate his feelings with them so well. He says alot to them says alot about them and how wonderful they are. I think what he feels with Jenna is something in his heart that he can't explain. Which is why when they were in the garden all he could get out was her name. This is all JMO of course. I could totally be wrong and Hailey or Sara are F1. His connection with Jenna is just different IMO. From what I heard about his initial connection with his ex... I think we are seeing that happen again.

Tim described something pretty strong with his ex-wife. Given their appearance being so strikingly similar, I wonder if Tim struggles with this at all (and doesn't verbalize it). He may feel such a strong connection with Jenna, but questions whether or not it's because of the similarities with his ex. If this was the case, it sure could be difficult for him to sort through.

by noobsleuth Tue May 21, 2013 2:28 pm

jojo47 wrote:
noobsleuth wrote:
Lost17 wrote:Sorry happy, DIL means Daughter-In-Law. She'd be perfect for one of my son's, if only they were older, . Also that sc that noob posted was from this episode, we just didn't get to see it.

noob, awesome recap as always! Just wish we'd been able to see their time alone! I liked how Jenna said Tim in the garden and told him what she did. I still see Jenna as F1.

He got way emotional at the thought of eliminating her. He knows in his head that Sara, Hailey, and Siham are all great matches for him. This is why I think he is able to communicate his feelings with them so well. He says alot to them says alot about them and how wonderful they are. I think what he feels with Jenna is something in his heart that he can't explain. Which is why when they were in the garden all he could get out was her name. This is all JMO of course. I could totally be wrong and Hailey or Sara are F1. His connection with Jenna is just different IMO. From what I heard about his initial connection with his ex... I think we are seeing that happen again.

Tim described something pretty strong with his ex-wife. Given their appearance being so strikingly similar, I wonder if Tim struggles with this at all (and doesn't verbalize it). He may feel such a strong connection with Jenna, but questions whether or not it's because of the similarities with his ex. If this was the case, it sure could be difficult for him to sort through.

I've thought about this before too jojo. I kinda wished it had come up at some point. I thought his family might point out the similarities. I said before I hope if he does pick her it's because he loves her and not because she reminds him of something he lost.

by Guest Tue May 21, 2013 2:29 pm

jojo hard to know what Tim's thinking? Not sure he'd be into Jenna just because of her looks if she wasn't interesting and fun to be around too, she is her own person.

happy nice summary! I feel he has good connection with each in different ways, but like he said his heart beats faster with Jenna...love is a strange thing, we just fall for who we do, no rhyme or reason for it. noob I think I said kind of the same thing you did, looking back on your post, laugh out loud

!

Of course this is only my opinion I'm sure others will see something different which is fine with me. :Smiley:

by Guest Tue May 21, 2013 2:32 pm

It's odd how the Jenna girls see the episode first every week!! We're waiting for the rest of you to share your thoughts!

by Guest Tue May 21, 2013 3:16 pm

So did I hear Tim say it feels good to be in love again about Sara?

by CHO Tue May 21, 2013 3:37 pm

I still see the same concern I have with Tim and Sara. Sara is in control. She "knows" they would be good together. And Tim feels his parents think she would be the best for him but why do I get the feeling that Tim doesn't know this ??? And now the no kissing til the end - more control in my mind. Despite Jenna's answer to what she does to keep herself busy(the halloween costumes), I think he still has very strong but conflicted feelings for her. His feelings with Hailey I don't really understand. Why does she seem so adorable to many of us and to his parents, and Tim likes so many things about her - and obviously feels so comfortable around her - but the spark does not appear to be there - unless there is trickery going on here. Just leaving the door a bit ajar !

by tigertiz Tue May 21, 2013 3:46 pm

Why does she seem so adorable to many of us and to his parents, and Tim likes so many things about her - and obviously feels so comfortable around her - but the spark does not appear to be there

I think life just works out that way sometimes. Attraction is just chemical - or biochemical I guess. You cant force it ,even when you know ,intellectually, that someone would be great for you. Sometimes that attraction leads us to the wrong partner, and sometimes it leads us to something wonderful.

by happygolucky Tue May 21, 2013 3:50 pm

CHO

heheh, I get your point. I would like to know that too, I'm aware it's a game, but he is leading her on, doesn't he? :Jeremiah :

by cma Tue May 21, 2013 4:20 pm

wow: ! the reaction from Siham when Tim let her go , If looks could kill he would be dead. Look at her body language interesting

it speaks volume. She didn't even want to listen to what he was saying to her AWKWARD.

by Guest Tue May 21, 2013 4:24 pm

cma yes, Siham was NOT happy and I bet it killed her to get let go over Jenna. Sara & Hailey's looks also when they saw Jenna, like 'uh oh, should I be worried'.

tiger love what you said in your last post!

by LoveDovez Tue May 21, 2013 4:36 pm

noobsleuth wrote:
Lost17 wrote:Sorry happy, DIL means Daughter-In-Law. She'd be perfect for one of my son's, if only they were older, . Also that sc that noob posted was from this episode, we just didn't get to see it.

noob, awesome recap as always! Just wish we'd been able to see their time alone! I liked how Jenna said Tim in the garden and told him what she did. I still see Jenna as F1.

He got way emotional at the thought of eliminating her. He knows in his head that Sara, Hailey, and Siham are all great matches for him. This is why I think he is able to communicate his feelings with them so well. He says alot to them says alot about them and how wonderful they are. I think what he feels with Jenna is something in his heart that he can't explain. Which is why when they were in the garden all he could get out was her name. This is all JMO of course. I could totally be wrong and Hailey or Sara are F1. His connection with Jenna is just different IMO. From what I heard about his initial connection with his ex... I think we are seeing that happen again.

Noob you said it the best in the bolded portion above. :yes:

I think Jenna is F1, too and would be shocked if she isn't. He's trying hard to want Sara to be F1, but it just isn't what his heart wants. Of course, IMHO..

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