Re: Sara Lavagnino - Ready For Love - Fan Thread - Thread #1

[realitylovefan]

Here's a really cute picture of Tim and Amber.

http://instagram.com/p/ZCEG4ERXQq/

I wonder if the picture could be from the finale? Tim's attire looks like it could be fit for a finale.

[Karche]

Okay since I can't watch the last episode, I went through both Sara and Tim's Instagram...for those sleuthers if you can bring over the pics that would be great.
1) sara mar.1 and Tim feb.12 are both of the same 'ready for love' sign taken at different angles. You can see the same wood border at bottom and the blue & red car and the plants...safe house!
2) Tim feb.15 and Sara feb.17 are both pics of Southwest Airlines. What's interesting is Tim is on the plane that is not southwest due to the wing colour but takes a pic of the plane from his window. Then you have Sara's pic stating 'home bound' and its taken from the airport. I think this was a subliminal message from Tim missing his girl
3) people here noticed Sara was not wearing her cross necklace on the last date which goes with Tim's lyric...the silver on your skin stood for something, a promise. Well on her Instagram pics, Sara is wearing a new necklace with the letters 'XO'. You can see it clearly on the pic where she is wearing the sleep mask that says 'gone bad'.
4) the valentine pic from Sara clearly states it was done by her sister. Notice the lack of food, card on the table so it almost looked 'Staged'. This made us think that Tim's pic with his girl on his motorcycle was Jenna since Sara was at home but now I think Sara was with Tim and her sister just took a pic of a valentine place setting. Notice my 2) point which is after valentine's day...safe house!

Hopefully, the above will convince us to stay on the LAVApez bus. On another note, I was listening to savage garden today and the title 'truly, madly, deeply' really defines Tim & Sara's connection and love...

[lovinlife]

Iluv thank you for telling your story. You are an incredible person. Your husband is also. God Bless.

[Spencer81]

Karche, luv all this stuff about Sara and Tim! Can't wait till Tuesday!!! You all are keeping me on the Sara bus!

[mrsgrover]

Okay since I can't watch the last episode, I went through both Sara and Tim's Instagram...for those sleuthers if you can bring over the pics that would be great.
1) sara mar.1 and Tim feb.12 are both of the same 'ready for love' sign taken at different angles. You can see the same wood border at bottom and the blue & red car and the plants...safe house!
2) Tim feb.15 and Sara feb.17 are both pics of Southwest Airlines. What's interesting is Tim is on the plane that is not southwest due to the wing colour but takes a pic of the plane from his window. Then you have Sara's pic stating 'home bound' and its taken from the airport. I think this was a subliminal message from Tim missing his girl
3) people here noticed Sara was not wearing her cross necklace on the last date which goes with Tim's lyric...the silver on your skin stood for something, a promise. Well on her Instagram pics, Sara is wearing a new necklace with the letters 'XO'. You can see it clearly on the pic where she is wearing the sleep mask that says 'gone bad'.
4) the valentine pic from Sara clearly states it was done by her sister. Notice the lack of food, card on the table so it almost looked 'Staged'. This made us think that Tim's pic with his girl on his motorcycle was Jenna since Sara was at home but now I think Sara was with Tim and her sister just took a pic of a valentine place setting. Notice my 2) point which is after valentine's day...safe house!

Hopefully, the above will convince us to stay on the LAVApez bus. On another note, I was listening to savage garden today and the title 'truly, madly, deeply' really defines Tim & Sara's connection and love...

Here is Sara's March 1 photo:


Here is Tim's Feb 12 photo:

[mrsgrover]

While we are at it, the only photo Tim posted from the Meet The Parent dates was this one.

[realitylovefan]

I don't know how to do screen-caps, but here a link of a picture from Sara's dad Instagram account. Tim LIKEd his photo. (You'll have to lick on "View all 10 LIKEs" to see Tombropez/Tim.)

http://web.stagram.com/p/354244305105572463_274265371

[Love_Me]

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[Guest]

I've been a long time lurker and it has got to the point where I feel compelled to "speak out."

I get such a kick out of the analyzing and over-analyzing of crazy small details for which there could be a million explanations. It's at a point where people have lost their ability to see the forest through the trees.

There's no doubt in my mind that Tim chooses Sara and here's why:
1. In an interview he said this is the easiest relationship he's ever been in - they don't fight about anything and the relationship has steadily progressed over the 8 months they have been together. With Jenna there would be fights - look how she behaved with Siham.
2. Jenna is the jealous type (which he does not want) - she admitted that her behaviour has been interpreted as jealous and if you look at her reactions to things other girls have said on the stage, there have been several instances of her jealousy - it's written all over her fact with the rolling eyes and shaking of her head. Trust me - she and Tim would certainly fight about that and you can't tell me that if she was with Tim right now, she wouldn't be raging with jealousy over Sara's various twitter and facebook postings.
3. He knows he has a deeper and more meaningful connection with Sara that would last the test of time - the connection he has with Jenna is just a surface one.
4. Tim's dad mentioned the fact that Jenna is young and may see love merely as a feeling when it is so much more. Tim's first wife bailed after 3 years and she was too young to fully appreciate or know how to take the bad with the good. That would be a huge red flag with Jenna.
5. He wants someone he can trust to be loyal and faithful when he's touring and someone who supports his career. Sara totally gets what's involved. No way Jenna does. Groupies never do....
6. Who do you see as the mother of his children?
7. When he and Sara are together, they can't get close enough - you can sense they just want to crawl inside each other. I remember having that feeling when you are first falling in love.

The answer is right there is front of all of us. Let common sense prevail people!

[luvlady345]

It's sad to me when you have to raise someone's status and tear down someone else.....I have not seen anything regarding Jenna to label her as a groupie......I am sorry that everyone "EDIT" can't be as perfect as Sara......

[happygolucky]

You're good Buffy, good in tempting me to get out of my "cave of silence".

Now I will write and respond to many post that claimed something similar.
Because I'm kind of tired too, to hear something that doesn't apply to certain character.

I'm not Jenna's fan, so I won't go further through your indent points to defend her, I don't need to, neither do I care how you or anyone else feels about her.

But I use my common sense and because of it I would like to say 2 things about jealousy & judgement.

Especially jealousy, that comes from territorial place and not out of insecurity.

(Something Jenna explained quite good herself, but she also showed through the process of this Show, that insecurity is the one feature she does not have - but enough about her)

1) A girl who is territorial, makes her stand from the beginning and if a guy doesn't give her reasons to think otherwise, she will never act upon that jealousy against him.
Meaning, she won't direct her anger/frustration/dissatisfaction towards the guy, but rather towards the person who is threatening the space she circled. And only if it's necessary and with many different means, that might not even affect the guy in the process.

- Doc might explain that better, since psychology is her area of expertise, but I'm just talking from what I've learned from another therapist.

So, with my common sense intact, I would withdrawn the comments about "there would be fights" for now - especially because Tim hasn't showed his character completely and nobody can say where he "stands" in all of this and how he behaves outside of the show - unless you know him personally (and I of course don't).

Knowing that this "dating experience" is not completely "normal" life (TV show, many contestants on the same date, ...) and is also emotionally very elevated, I think, we cannot "judge" the reaction of any of the contestants, as the attitude they would have in the "real" world.

- this applies to Jenna, Allie, Angela, Tarryn, Kari, ... every girl who had some sort of confrontation or tried not to participate in ongoing one on The Show, because of the environment they were in.

Thanks for your time for reading this.

Now I'll go back to my cave.
So no need to answer me.

But feel free to continue this conversation with everyone else.

[docnash14]

I am not going to address Jenna specifically but will make some general comments.

Happy, I agree that jealousy can be related to need to stake one's own territory. Indeed, I believe that all feelings serve a function. Specifically, related to jealousy there are published articles on evolutionary psychology that addresses exactly of what you speak - that jealousy by stimulating the need to stake one's territory can promote survival of the fittest - in this context, emotional survival.

That being said, I have to disagree that it is not also rooted in insecurity. Further, I daresay that all of us have some level of insecurity and since a relationship is a system that insecurity will show up in some manner and some degree in that system.

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