Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

I listened to that Bustle interview where they interviewed Tenley and she seemed pretty upset about not being invited! She said "it's heartbreaking". The host tried to make her feel better by saying that it seemed like a really last-minute thing thing and it's hard for everyone to travel and get time off and she was like "The wedding happened where I live! Everyone from Bachelor Nation was in my town for it but I wasn't invited".

I don't know what happened. It's weird to me that people like Nick/Andi/Kaitlyn could be in the same room, but Ben and Tenley couldn't? I do remember that it was rumored that Andi got Nick un-invited to Chris's red carpet event, so maybe Ben did ask TPTB that she not be there. She was talking pretty freely on the podcast about Ben on the bachelor and who she sees him with and how great certain girls are, so I didn't feel like she was still bitter, but who knows?

Oh boy. She thinks much too highly of these Bach nation events. That alone tells you she's way too attached. Heartbreaking?

I doubt it was Ben's request. That'd be REALLY rude of him trying to tell the couple getting married who to not invite to their wedding. Maybe something has went down that upset Jade/Tanner, and Tenley is oblivious to it? She can say some pretty eye roll worthy stuff, IMO, and get away with it.

Duke702 wrote:

Fingersandtoes wrote:
"I'm going to marry him," Tenley says about her new boyfriend, "He's so cute... it was the exact right timing." Tenley says she met her boyfriend through a friend who goes to the same church as the lucky guy, and, while they've only known each other for a short while (three weeks), "When you know, you know," Tenley says. "I've been waiting to meet this guy for a long time."

Tenley first shared the news about her new beau when asked if she attended her fellow Bachelor in Paradise co-stars Jade and Tanner's recent wedding. According to Tenley, she was not invited to the wedding, but that's OK, because instead she went on a very special date with her new guy. "There was a reason why I wasn't supposed to be at that wedding," Tenley reveals. "I ended up having the best second date of my life." Since then, Tenley says the pair have been inseparable.

Tenley just needs to stop sharing everything about her life.  Saying that you are going to marry him after knowing him only 3 weeks???  Yes, I realize some people know that but they don't shout it out to the world!  If/when this relationship fails, there will be no stopping Tenley from sharing everything.

She needs to take some lessons from some of the other BachNation alumni and their post show relationships.... keep it to yourself.

IMO, I think the producers were very smart in not inviting her... she would have tried to make the whole thing about herself! (Sorry not a fan of Tenley)

bleuberry wrote:Oh boy. She thinks much too highly of these Bach nation events. That alone tells you she's way too attached. Heartbreaking?

I bet if she was currently single she would have tried to be a part of the NYC event tomorrow with the other single Bach alums.

Hmmm..... Has she been invited to join one of these Bach events that another alum has put on? i can't think of any that's she's attended other than the one in Toronto but alum didn't organize that. I can actually see her not being well liked but a lot of them but I would still think they would invite her. Something must've happened I assume. Now I want to know what.

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It would really have not been nice of Ben H or the show if they had requested Tenley not to be invited & really not kind on the part of Tanner & Jade if they had agreed not to invite Tenley as they seemed to have had a good relationship with Tenley. Maybe as has been commented it came from Tenley & she declined the invite for some reason best known to herself.

Have always really liked Tenley & feel at times *edited** as the media would just love to lead us on & at times run down the good people that we have really liked in the past as well!!

And just like that the new guy makes his debut on her social media. Thank goodness he has a private account.

Side note: totally not what I pictured him to look like.

He looks like what's his name from Love in the Wild. Totally forgot his name. The one who got married, and divorced shortly after.

tenleymolzahnMy sweet Valentine.

Here we go.  Hope he is ready for the media comments.  Smart guy to keep his accounts private.
Good luck to the new valentine pair......

He is a cute guy, but def not as cute as Ben. I honestly doubt she is over Ben, with the way she is over the top gushing about the new guy, and also still talking about her and Ben's special relationship.

It will be interesting to see if they stay together/ get married like she thinks.
Ugh someone on her IG comments of that pic who I think is a friend of her wrote something like "can't wait to meet Taylor, Soulmates " So her friends feed into her craziness.

Tanner liked her IG post of her and Juelia at Adam Mansfield's and SammiJo's wedding today. So my theory of Jade and Tanner not inviting her because of something that may have happened likely isn't the case. I guess it was either the Show thought it best not to invite her because of Ben or they overlooked her? I think it was like others here said, because of Ben.