Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

I don't think Ben has that much pull that Tenley wasn't invited. Idk.

Plus does Ben really care that much? Maybe his f1 is a raging, jelly psycho and threw a fit. I probably would if I was with Ben

I don't think it's because of Ben. I agree, even if he had that kind of pull, which I don't think he does, I don't see him requesting that she not be invited. 

It is strange though, it's not like she had other plans and couldn't go because she was hanging out with Trista and Ryan. I mean even Michelle Money was there! Perhaps something happened with either Jade or Tanner and they just don't like her. What else could it be?

Maybe it was her own decision to not go because of Ben? Tenley seemed close to Jade, there were so many BIP and bach people that I doubt Tenley wasn't invited.

Fingersandtoes wrote:Maybe it was her own decision to not go because of Ben? Tenley seemed close to Jade, there were so many BIP and bach people that I doubt Tenley wasn't invited.

I think she said in that Bustle interview that she wasn't invited. Then she said but it's ok because I went on the best 2nd date of my life that day.

http://www.bustle.com/articles/139792-tenley-molzahn-reveals-she-has-a-boyfriend-the-bachelor-alum-even-says-shes-going-to

You've been rooting for her to find love since she first appeared on The Bachelor in 2010, and now Tenley Molzahn is happy to say she has a boyfriend... she just didn't meet him on TV. When The Bachelor, Bachelor Pad, and Bachelor in Paradise alum stopped by Bustle to record Will You Accept This Podcast?, the fan-favorite shared that she's dating someone, and it's not someone that has ever been on The Bachelor franchise.

"I'm going to marry him," Tenley says about her new boyfriend, "He's so cute... it was the exact right timing." Tenley says she met her boyfriend through a friend who goes to the same church as the lucky guy, and, while they've only known each other for a short while (three weeks), "When you know, you know," Tenley says. "I've been waiting to meet this guy for a long time."

Tenley first shared the news about her new beau when asked if she attended her fellow Bachelor in Paradise co-stars Jade and Tanner's recent wedding. According to Tenley, she was not invited to the wedding, but that's OK, because instead she went on a very special date with her new guy. "There was a reason why I wasn't supposed to be at that wedding," Tenley reveals. "I ended up having the best second date of my life." Since then, Tenley says the pair have been inseparable.

And now I want to know the reason.. Lol!

I totally think she was not invited because of Ben.  Tenley tried to get a berth on the Rose Parade Float too. Multiple trips to Denver.  Tenley's public obsession with Ben has been well documented.  For the comfort of all involved I believe TPTB with Ben in mind kept Tenley away from the wedding.  No need to have lots of photos of Tenley and her "special relationship" Ben "sharing" the Janner wedding.  Posting the photo with Trista and Ryan in Laguna Beach....proves to me she wanted to show she was in the area.  Probably stalking hoping for an "accidental" meeting with Ben.

JMO

Yeah, Tenley gives me some serious Fatal Attraction vibes. Like if they made a Disney version of that movie.

I don't think Ben told them not to invite her, but they were probably aware of the "special relationship", since it was mentioned in the mags as well, and decided it was best to keep her away from him.

She posted a pic of her and Ben with her head on his shoulder. She tweeted about him several times, and there were one or two other pics that I recall of her with Ben and others. Then the article about the special relationship. All this IMO is like name dropping but to another level. IMO it's as if she wants to make it known she had her chance but decided it wasn't in her best interest.

Maybe TPTB wanted to protect Ben to avoid any issues at the wedding if Tenley was invited. Maybe it's known to them that she is being obsessive with him. All it would take is another pic of her and Ben and the media would start with the rumours once again. I'm sure they controlled some of the guest list and it's obvious there is a reason she wasn't invited. I don't think it has anything to do with Jade and Tanner, so it must be her behaviour as of late towards Ben.

ITA that it would be better for Tenley to move on and not even comment on Ben or his season but not sure that I'd call it being obsessive. Tenley would have had a date for the wedding which would have been good for her but maybe they decided not to invite her before she was dating her bf. I don't see Ben worrying about it in any case. He's a big boy and I'm sure there have been plenty of women wanting to get close to him since he became TB.

I think the producers prob decided to not invite her because of the rumors it might cause with Ben. They prob didn't really like the rumors about them dating right before he filmed The Bachelor.

She snapchatted her boyfriend a couple times last night. Not sure how to bring it over though.