Episode 4 - 4/30 - Ready For Love - Discussion - Spoilers

klisack wrote:Hi New here. Loving the site. OK here is my take (may be completely wrong). First Tim. I believe Jenna will be his choice. They do have amazing chemistry but that isn't the reason for my choice. Tim's first marriage broke up due to his career. He really couldn't settle down into family mode and was traveling all the time etc. With Jenna she has already said she wants to explore the world but the difference is she wants to do this in a marriage/relationship. Exactly what Tim needs. He was extremely please with this answer. Her age and her wants right now set her up to be the best partner for Tim. OK Ernesto. I am pretty sure he choses Shandi. If you look at the woman's hands around his neck as he tells her He loves her it is Shandi's. Look back a few shows while she is talking or just the last show where he kisses her and you can see that the hands are a perfect match. Alot of people wonder if he is still with her but I think yes. One of his tweets recently was about him being in love. SOme are concerned about lack of love signs in her tweets but we all have to remember she has been in the public eye a lot and is good at controlling her emotions in front of an audience. SHe can also keep a secret so I wouldn't base them being together or not on how she is responding on tweeter. However she is doing a lot with her family lately so that may be her way of passing time before they go public. Ben, he is a tougher one for me. Don't shoot me but I am a Kari fan! Really up in the air who he chooses at this point. A lot are going off the possible proposal scene to help chose the girl but when Ben responded to a tweet he said he is not confirming or rejecting whether he is with Kari but that we have to remember that they are editing genius and not to get sucked into everything you see.This was a response to someone saying they know he isn't with Kari. Now on the other side I have been tweeting with Kari and have watched her Facebook page and she is still in close communication with her ex Tanner Pope. Not sure Ben would be so comfortable with them talking if he chose her. So who knows. Don't shoot me but I am not a big Angela fan. Getting really tired of the whole virgin thing being a hot topic. Good for her but don't think it should be a reason for Ben to choose her. Looking at her tweets she has been partying pretty hard. Again not sure. Not really huge fan of any of Ben's girls except Kari. They all seem so fake. That is why I like Kari. Somethings that she says are abrasive but at least she is being herself. Anyway that is my take so far. Like I said I can be way way off. ha ha ha

klisack wrote:I agree. Ben said one thing that attracted him to this show in the absence of pressure to propose. He seems too intelligent to propose to someone he dated on TV for only a few months. Who knows if he actually proposes or if it is another show stunt or role playing thing.

I definitely think that Ben wasn't good relationship material when he dated Kari. I think him accepting her being there should show everyone that he feels a little responsible of the way their relationship ended. He himself said he totally focused on work. I mean if I were dating him I wouldn't have accepted it. Your either in or out.

As for the other girls they are a snooze fest...

... come across as a sorority girls.

I am really disappointed with Ben's options.
Kari working for Oracle fits really well in his lifestyle. You may not like her but she does have class and doesn't come across as a frat girl. At this point in time the others come across as caddy and totally immature.

Lost17 wrote:I can't get into Ben, I think him kissing everyone right away turned me off. Klisack, I disagree with all the girls being brats, especially Katie, Beth & Rachel...

BTW not judging you on being a Kari fan, we all have who we like and dislike.

klisack wrote:OK thanks so much. I am so new to RFL so it seems I have missed a lot.