Bryden Vukasin - Bachelorette 9 Contestant - Spoilers - Discussion

girl2178 - if, indeed, you have accurate information, why do you not share your knowledge so the members here can understand for themselves what a great man he is?? I have written before that I really like him...let me know why I should continue to feel that way...or should I get off of his bandwagon??

Melisma- what's already all over the Internet looks the way it looks. You can't really know someone until you've met them. However I know him and I think what's been shown on tv thus far is a pretty accurate description. I don't think it really matters what everyone thinks. he has a lot of love and support from his friends here in Missoula. I just wanted to say it that he wasn't dating becky on the show

Thanks girl2178 for posting about Bryden. He doesn't seem like the type to go on a dating show with a girlfriend back home, that's why I curious to hear his side of the story. It's nice to see someone post about him that actually knows him.

If they had nothing to hide, they wouldn't have deleted their Instagram account. RS talked about how there used to be a blog with an ex-contestant who said that MANY contestants on the show have boyfriends or girlfriends back home, who allow them to go on the show because they believe it's just for travel (and, possibly, an opportunity to further their careers). I'm sure that's what happened in this instance.

To me, it's really funny when someone who knows a contestant posts - OF COURSE, they are going to say nice things about them and defend them. Wes, Dave G, Rego, Chris, etc. all had their defenders. Doesn't mean they are right.

Here's just to hoping when he leaves he STAYS gone.

girl2178 ! for sharing what you know about this situation with us.

atem wrote:Here's just to hoping when he leaves he STAYS gone.

I agree whole-heartedly, though who knows what Fleiss will "encourage" him to do!!

girl2178 wrote:Melisma- what's already all over the Internet looks the way it looks. You can't really know someone until you've met them. However I know him and I think what's been shown on tv thus far is a pretty accurate description. I don't think it really matters what everyone thinks. he has a lot of love and support from his friends here in Missoula. I just wanted to say it that he wasn't dating becky on the show

I agree that only those who really know someone can make an accurate appraisal. That's exactly why I get frustrated here when some act as though they are experts about "characters" that they have never even met!! LOL I think that Bryden seems like an awkward, sweet guy and if that is what the producers decide to show then Bryden is lucky. Some decent guys have been humiliated over nothing. I trust that his now-girlfriend appreciates what a kind guy he appears to be.

Whenever I see Breyden's bangs, I want to get out the gel and stand em up. Not a fan of the straight across, slicked down looking bangs.

So if its not true that Bryden didn't leave because he wasn't feeling it then for him to be eliminated means Des was the one not feeling it or did he ask to be let go?

Maybe Bryden was secretly hoping it was Sean's F2 to be the next Bette. He would have totally jived with her and her father.