Re: Catherine & Sean Tweets/Facebook Updates - Thread #2

[Cari]

@MeredithDoan: @clmgiudici and also why do people freak out when couples have disagreements or rough patches? It's called life and normal!

@clmgiudici: @MeredithDoan let me know when you find someone who can answer that :)

That kind of sounds like she is confirming that there was an argument in public. hmmm... I find that surprising.

I don't think she is confirming an argument in public, I think she is just acknowledging the obvious fact that every couple will argue. They are mature enough not to argue in public and make a big deal out of everything. Arguments are healthy, as long as they are not petty and constant. Sometimes I fell like people think that bachelor couples are suppose to live in a fairytale romance forever. They move on, argue like normal people and grow from those arguments. I like Sean and Catherine together because they challenge each other and arguments are part of that. I hope they can make it work. They are no Ben and Courtney, Jef and Emily, they are level headed people.

But her tweet was in reference to the magazine, not life in general. I really hope that you are right and she would not fight in public.

Didn't SeanCat refute the tabloid mag already? "not happening!" Hence, Cat is not confirming the tabs that they argued in public with this other tweet. #AcedLogicInCollege but #PoorInMath

These tabloids/rumors/potstirrers on every Bach couple particularly now with SeanCat is frustrating not because I believe them but my knee jerk reaction is to defend them! (Like I did Jash's time)

If it frustrates the hell out of me, SeanCat have a patience of a saint.

[jcrbil]

I think Catherine's request for "let me know when you find someone who can answer that" doesn't mean anything about THEM arguing but has everything to do with the overreaction by the people who believe (or want to believe) the tabloids' headlines (and stories)- and who send them countless tweets asking if it's true.

[eunbach12]

@MeredithDoan: @clmgiudici and also why do people freak out when couples have disagreements or rough patches? It's called life and normal!

@clmgiudici: @MeredithDoan let me know when you find someone who can answer that

That kind of sounds like she is confirming that there was an argument in public. hmmm... I find that surprising.

I don't think she is confirming an argument in public, I think she is just acknowledging the obvious fact that every couple will argue. They are mature enough not to argue in public and make a big deal out of everything. Arguments are healthy, as long as they are not petty and constant. Sometimes I fell like people think that bachelor couples are suppose to live in a fairytale romance forever. They move on, argue like normal people and grow from those arguments. I like Sean and Catherine together because they challenge each other and arguments are part of that. I hope they can make it work. They are no Ben and Courtney, Jef and Emily, they are level headed people.

Great post- I totally agree! A lot of people have mentioned it before but Sean and Catherine don't seem to be into over the top PDA in general and by extension, I don't see them being comfortable having fights in public. (And playing devil's advocate, let's say the 'two' fights did happen as reported, that still doesn't even constitute a reason for an "OVER!" headline...). In the most recent pap video, I specifically noted that when one of them asks Sean and Catherine to kiss for the cameras, they both play it off and don't actually do it. Whereas a lot of couples would have just done it (not that there's anything wrong with that), I found it refreshing that these two didn't feel a need to do it for the sake of the cameras. In fact, they both were gracious but also answered the questions in a way that poked light fun at some of the ridiculousness.

Still got high hopes for these two!

[jessicaj]

i think if there's some grain of truth to the story they will not admit it and i understand why, bec. they know people are too invested in their relationship. they will fight for sure. and we will never know the whole story unless it's serious and they decided to split. but i do have high hopes for them. contrary to what some people think, catherine is a good catch. because the culture that she's grown accustomed to from her mother encourages wives to treat their husbands like kings. unless sean turned out to be something else rather than what she envisioned her to be catherine will be just like any asian girl fully supportive of her man, to the point of sacrificing her own dreams in the process. oh i recall how she cried when lesley had to go. none of those other girls will ever cry for some girl's exit bec. that's what they wanted in the first place. but catherine is different when she develops a deep bond she forgets herself. and i'm glad sean saw it too and chose her.

[Guest]

i think if there's some grain of truth to the story they will not admit it and i understand why, bec. they know people are too invested in their relationship. they will fight for sure. and we will never know the whole story unless it's serious and they decided to split. but i do have high hopes for them. contrary to what some people think, catherine is a good catch. because the culture that she's grown accustomed to from her mother encourages wives to treat their husbands like kings. unless sean turned out to be something else rather than what she envisioned her to be catherine will be just like any asian girl fully supportive of her man, to the point of sacrificing her own dreams in the process. oh i recall how she cried when lesley had to go. none of those other girls will ever cry for some girl's exit bec. that's what they wanted in the first place. but catherine is different when she develops a deep bond she forgets herself. and i'm glad sean saw it too and chose her.

Catherine always says that it blows her mind that a boy like Sean could like a girl like her. I've seen the picture of her in high school posted here and she was chubby, pretty but not someone who will be fantasized by the high school boys. While Sean in high school is already a 'hot jock', he's actually cuter in high school (though he's not personally my type). Our high school experiences shape what we believe about our own market value among the opposite sex. I agree that now she's a total hottie and a catch but those complexes do not just go away after high school.

I also agree about the comment you said about her culture though Catherine is american. Combine all these and you have a woman who will do anything to keep this man. Even if it means subscribing to a new faith, even if she knows that its not something you can turn on instantly like a switch. Most people take a lifetime to discover who they are as far as their faith is concerned and she will try to do this in just a couple of months so a wedding will take place.

It is really like a cinderella story for Catherine. It is scary cause she seems to adore the ground he walks on and everything seems to hang on to this relationship, the public adoration, the perks, the future. The stakes are too high, and to lose everything just because they had a spat or two, nah to quote Catherine 'not happening'.

[Love_Me]

jessicaj & arcticjuice

[jessicaj]

thanks for the welcome.

i think catherine no matter how weird or gdescribed herself to be is someone that is very intelligent and strong person. in fact, after canada i knew she's going to win. the way she expresses herself reflects her

[jessicaj]

education and stability as a person. as opposed to ashley who didn't overcome the traumatic feeling of being adopted.

[jessicaj]

catherine just embraces life and i even liked how she handled the paparazzi. she stayed true to herself. her bubly, happy self. why act reserved to the paps when she's no angelina jolie? imo, reality stars should not act like they are desperate for privacy. if they signed up for a show that required them to kiss a lot of women in one night and be filmed 24 hrs. a day. privacy should be the least of their problems.

[riddlexo3]

Wow according to sean they were talking about having the wedding in the fall or winter. He also refused to answer the question of whether or not they are having sex. I do wish sean and Catherine the best but I highly doubt they will make it post dancing. Again just stating my opinion . It very rare you find a Trista and Ryan relationship on tv .

[yrkiemommy]

Wow according to sean they were talking about having the wedding in the fall or winter. He also refused to answer the question of whether or not they are having sex. I do wish sean and Catherine the best but I highly doubt they will make it past dancing.

Was this the radio show this morning?

[LoveDovez]

i think if there's some grain of truth to the story they will not admit it and i understand why, bec. they know people are too invested in their relationship. they will fight for sure. and we will never know the whole story unless it's serious and they decided to split. but i do have high hopes for them. contrary to what some people think, catherine is a good catch. because the culture that she's grown accustomed to from her mother encourages wives to treat their husbands like kings. unless sean turned out to be something else rather than what she envisioned her to be catherine will be just like any asian girl fully supportive of her man, to the point of sacrificing her own dreams in the process. oh i recall how she cried when lesley had to go. none of those other girls will ever cry for some girl's exit bec. that's what they wanted in the first place. but catherine is different when she develops a deep bond she forgets herself. and i'm glad sean saw it too and chose her.

Catherine always says that it blows her mind that a boy like Sean could like a girl like her. I've seen the picture of her in high school posted here and she was chubby, pretty but not someone who will be fantasized by the high school boys. While Sean in high school is already a 'hot jock', he's actually cuter in high school (though he's not personally my type). Our high school experiences shape what we believe about our own market value among the opposite sex. I agree that now she's a total hottie and a catch but those complexes do not just go away after high school.

I also agree about the comment you said about her culture though Catherine is american. Combine all these and you have a woman who will do anything to keep this man. Even if it means subscribing to a new faith, even if she knows that its not something you can turn on instantly like a switch. Most people take a lifetime to discover who they are as far as their faith is concerned and she will try to do this in just a couple of months so a wedding will take place.

It is really like a cinderella story for Catherine. It is scary cause she seems to adore the ground he walks on and everything seems to hang on to this relationship, the public adoration, the perks, the future. The stakes are too high, and to lose everything just because they had a spat or two, nah to quote Catherine 'not happening'.

I've never prayed for anything related to this show, but I truly pray that Catherine would never do " anything/everything" to keep Sean. Meaning, I hope she stays true to who she is and isn't always the one that has to give. In other words, I take Sean at face value when he said he was the lucky one, promise. To make it work they are both gonna have to give and take and so far I haven't seen Sean doing a lot of giving except when it's posted that he picked her so that was some big to do on his part.. Yeah he did pick her, but she also had to say yes for it to work. I'm interested to see where this heads after DWTS and I want to see what Sean is willing to sacrifice for Catherine to be happy as she is doing for him now. I'd love to see this couple work out, but only if they are madly in love, respect each other and both are willing to bend a little so the other can be happy and they can be happy together. : )


ETA: I didn't see anything wrong with her high school picture. Just because she had a little more weight on her didn't take away from her beauty and I feel like the boys did fantasize about her. After all, beauty is only skin deep. Cat's personality runs through and though her.

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