Kiptyn Locke & Tenley Molzahn - Discussion

Beautiful photos they shot in San Francisco!  And the jumping shot is hard to get.

I've decided to stop worrying about engagement and marriage for these two. If they are happy and being good to each other, then all is well.

They definitely look happy!

dw_a_mom wrote:Beautiful photos they shot in San Francisco!  And the jumping shot is hard to get.

I've decided to stop worrying about engagement and marriage for these two.  If they are happy and being good to each other, then all is well.

Could not agree with you more!! They seem so happy, in love & so good for each other so whatever they want in life I for one wish them well in everything they do!!  

Noticed these two haven't tagged/tweeted each other since the Stag wedding in Chi last month. Couple interesting quotes posted by Tenley on Instagram too throughout June.

I wonder if they're on break again. Same MO, she went home to Oregon for a bit, he's spending time with Roberto and other guy and girl friends, reflective quotes... etc.

30 can be a tough age for women wanting to marry and have children.

I was going to say the same thing as well. I'm afraid they have gone their own ways again.

And also I believe June 17th was their anniversary and nothing was mentioned from either of them.

To me it is so sad if they have definitely gone their own ways again. As when they are together it seems so magical, so I wonder why they cannot seem to make it work then.  :iamsorry: but my   

Sadly, I think the reason it hasnt worked is because Tenley wants to be his wife and for whatever reason he doesn't want to get married. She did make it clear that the goal this time was marriage. So if it is indeed over, I'm glad that she (presumably) put a quick stop to it this go around.

I hope she finds a great guy who can't wait to marry her, who she is just as in love with. It'll take the right guy to make her forget Kip.

Sad for Tenley and hope it's no the case.  If you guys are right about what you've noticed, I really feel for her.  It can be so hard to let go if for you he is the one and the relationship is full of many great things.  It looks like they're able to have a pretty awesome lifestyle together with all the travel, freedom etc.  But if there's something holding him back she really has to find the strength to end it for good.  Not sure why Kyptin would do that to her - get back together if he still wasn't all in or on the same page as her.  After already having a failed marriage and now such a long term serious relationship that doesn't seem like it's turning into the forever one, I really can imagine how heart-wrenching it is for her, especially if Kiptyn keeps himself open as an option to her.

I hope when she's least expecting it her Mr. Right appears out of nowhere like a bolt of lightning and makes it clear and obvious she's the one for him forever, that it can be that simple that someone knows you're it, and helps her move along a path to putting Kiptyn in the past.

**hoping there's actually nothing wrong and they're still happy and on the same page

I feel bad for her but how many years did this all need to take? She could have found many someones who did want to marry her in the years she spent waiting for him to come around. Anyway, hopefully it's over for real this time and she will find someone wonderful!

Alanna wrote:I feel bad for her but how many years did this all need to take? She could have found many someones who did want to marry her in the years she spent waiting for him to come around. Anyway, hopefully it's over for real this time and she will find someone wonderful!

No sadness toward someone who chose to date the man, reunite with him, wait for him, care for him, etc.... she chose to do this. She could have left the relationship at any single time that she got tired of the situation. There's nothing sad about that. She is and has always been in control of her own life. That is powerful and not something to feel sad about. Dating this long decreased the likelihood that there was ever going to be a marriage. It just doesn't take THAT long to determine if the person you are with is the one you want to be with forever.

It was also not 'lost time' - she had a good time - she had memories, and adventures, and travels, and friendships formed because of that relationship.