Kiptyn Locke & Tenley Molzahn - Discussion

This makes me sad! They both seem like great, caring people. It's a shame if it did not work. But sometimes a few months apart can really bring clarity ...

I think the only reason people were posting about Tenley/Kiptyn is because they have done interviews where Tenley has basically said that she wants to get engaged soon. So, it *seems* like she isn't completely happy with the way things are.

Once she said she wanted to get engaged, I sort of ignored the things she said afterwards. It seemed clear that she wanted to marry him. I thought after his surgery and recovery that it would happen.

It’s up to the man. We talk about it, and obviously we’re heading in that direction or we wouldn’t still be dating two years later. We are enjoying our time, we’re not in a rush.

Again, even though she nominally says we're not in a rush, there's nothing rushing about getting engaged after two years of dating , especially when you arent 21 years old. Up to the man? That makes me sad for her. She wanted him to want to marry her. It's good they didnt let it drag on for more years.

I'm not a big Tenley fan personally but good for her for getting out! It's obvious (to me) that Kiptyn enjoyed her as a girlfriend but not as his wife/mother of his children/forever type of deal. I hope she finds the one who cannot wait to marry her and take her off the market ASAP.

tigertiz wrote:Tenley hasnt mentioned Kiptyn on twitter since September 9. Her latest tweet:

The pain of going thru change is better than the pain of putting up with a negative situation and staying stuck. #TDL

He hasnt mentioned her either.

That's actually a retweet so I'm not sure if Tenley is feeling those things or just agrees with "The Daily Love" who tweeted it. I think the article could very well put pressure on their relationship but hopefully they can work it out. If not then better to know now.

If he did not get engage after she was there for him after the accident then he is not worth sticking around for good for her and he was my fav on Jillian season too. I am thinking he is gay and dont want to come out with it. I still love him though.

I agree reason. If he didn't have his mind made up after that accident she needed to just walk away. Maybe he will realize what he lost (whatever that may be) or she will find someone who is willing to make a commitment. I really don't think Kyp intended to marry her.

Kiptyn is probably one of those guys (unfortunately) that won't marry anyone for whatever his reasons. I think he loves Tenley very much but I do think after 2 years, if your personal goal it to be married and start a family, you need to question why your relationship isn't moving in that direction. If there aren't any concrete reasons for the delay, and you have been honest in your conversations on the direction you want the relationship to head, then you need to take the action that is best for you. It would be a difficult action, but better off in the end. It's tough to rip off that bandaid though, particularly when it is as goodlooking as Kiptyn!

Are we just jumping to conculsions here? There is no actual word about break up is there? I am kind of surprised because just last week I saw an article that Tenley said people are always asking them when they are going to get married and that people have to realize that it is their life and they are taking it at their own pace. It didn't sound like there was any trouble between them at the time. But then when Ali went off without Roberto and didn't tweet about him it resulted in a breakup the next week so who knows?

They might be like Rachel and Ross and on a break!!!

No one knows as of right now. They have always been very private about the status of their relationship while still giving updates that they are spending time together. It has been pretty long since their last update with tweets or pictures together. For Tenley to not update about her and her man is very strange..she usually tweets everything they eat and do together. Not to mention her re-tweets of depressing things, which is very out of the ordinary for her. Who knows maybe they are secretly married and are throwing us all off.

2 things I noticed, she added this to her FB page in the quotes section: "I believe if God has planted a dream in you, He wouldn't want you to abandon it out of fear, lack of trying, or any other reason for that matter." Paul Gunther Jr - Cheap Black Bracelet

And she removed something that read along the lines of 'I believe in family, friends, and a great love that keeps me going.'

And speaking of out of character, she quoted 50 Cent on Sept 16.

'I'm about to quote "50cent", he said something profound to me... "Don't Pray & worry, you won't get anywhere with both. Pray." Simple as that.'

reason wrote:If he did not get engage after she was there for him after the accident then he is not worth sticking around for good for her and he was my fav on Jillian season too. I am thinking he is gay and dont want to come out with it. I still love him though.

Regarding the bolded part of your comment, I was thinking the same thing.