Xavier Bonner - Bachelorette 20 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

He will pay a price for awhile for the way he handled last night and cCharity

I definitely agree and I suspect he wont post as much for a bit longer.

I'm thinking of the guys like Tanner and others who did not get the same chance with Charity and here is Xavier throwing it all away.  This MTA is gonna be a roast.  And he deserves every bit of it.

Wonder what is said that makes him get up and walk away during the MTA. Something Charity told him or he just couldn't handle all the pressure being said to him.

Linds911 wrote:Wonder what is said that makes him get up and walk away during the MTA. Something Charity told him or he just couldn't handle all the pressure being said to him.

He told her he did fall in love with her .. she got a bit ticked and told him what the hell was she supposed to do with that .. and he hot up and walked

^^ Ahh yes got it thanks!

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He finally posted and again take it for what it is i think, IMO. Hopefully he learned from this situation.

CAPTION

It’s taken me awhile to write this but here goes…

I never would’ve guessed that one DM asking me if I was ready to find love would take me on such an intense journey of self-discovery. For the first time in my life, I let go of the facts and figures to instead focus on letting my feelings lead the way. The process wasn’t easy but it’s been immensely eye-opening.

To Charity: Thank you for always creating space for me to open up and step outside of my comfort zone as well as for being willing to have tough, raw conversations that pushed me to think more deeply. You deserve everything and more and I wish you the best in finding your forever person.

It’s never easy to share the worst parts of your past with someone you love (let alone the world!) but honesty and accountability are necessary for growth. This journey was all about vulnerability and although I may not have always been as clear or eloquent in expressing myself as I would’ve liked to be, I’m forever grateful for this experience.

This was the ultimate experiment in love for me. And while all experiments leave me with unforgettable lessons, this one in particular has also better prepared me to move through life with more self-awareness. I know there’s lots more learning, more healing, and more work to do and I’m looking forward to becoming the best version of myself.

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I'm still gonna be interested in seeing him at the MTA and whether he did walk out or it is showing us his leaving after they completed their discussion.   I'm just disappointed in his behavior on the FSD and hope he does a lot of introspection and growing from all this.  A wee bit of therapy would not hurt either.

Well that statement packed in virtually every TB cliche ever. Maybe he's sincere and just doesn't have a vocabulary to express it--so falls back on cliches.

@eusebeia I want to believe he's sincere. Time will tell though.

***JustintakestheBach just posted in IG about everyone who participated in this and those who did not and why the guys did this to begin with. (The comments are interesting as well)

CAPTION explain:

Last night during the MTA, it was revealed why several of the men decided to write FP at the end of their IG headshot / cast announcement captions. Turns out that it stands for “F*ck Peter,” referring to Peter Cappio, aka the new Pilot Pete who was eliminated on night one. The men justified their decision to do this by stating that Peter was an a**hole the first night and on a post filming media relations Zoom call of some sort. Even though millions of people watch this show and there are countless producers, execs, and media managers who oversee everything, they thought no one would ever find out. Anywayyy, here’s a breakdown of which cast members allegedly took part in the caption (and have since edited them, 7-10 weeks ago), who never posted the FP to begin with, and those who we just will never know. I really channeled @bachelordata for this one you guys

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