Becca Kufrin - Bachelorette 14 - Discussion

I continue to support her decision and see her growing stronger.

I've expressed my opinions enough on that situation, but for me, there wouldn't have been a second chance after the likes. I personally sleuthed the timing of him deleting the controversial link in is bio which he did hours after the FRC in real time. SM is a wonderful thing but it could come back to haunt you.

However, she was in love, she had to know more about him before walking down the aisle and I'm glad she is open about it.

I hope they both find what makes them happy, whatever that may be.

GuardianAngel wrote:I've expressed my opinions enough on that situation, but for me, there wouldn't have been a second chance after the likes. I personally sleuthed the timing of him deleting the controversial link in is bio which he did hours after the FRC in real time. SM is a wonderful thing but it could come back to haunt you.

However, she was in love, she had to know more about him before walking down the aisle and I'm glad she is open about it.

I hope they both find what makes them happy, whatever that may be.

As you say, she was in love. So easy to want to believe his apology was sincere and really meant something when you're in love and want so badly for him to be 'the one'. At least they broke up before marriage and kids.

@GuardianAngel  I think this is yet another example of the "look to find a reason to believe" syndrome.  With apologies to Rod.

@leavers totally agree.

@pavalygurl you know that I've been waiting for years for him to stop getting married so I could be wife? Right?

This guy found another girlfriend pretty fast after they broke up... That speaks volumes to me IMO about him and his regards to Becca.

This is a good example of why it's easy to pick the wrong person on this show, imo. Becca was infatuated with Garrett and unfortunately, by the time she heard about the likes she pushed any doubts away. I'm glad it ended before they married but it's too bad she didn't have the big discussions early in the show as she mentioned.

@GuardianAngel ha!  He's pretty quick so you need to be on your toes!

@GuardianAngel  He works fast so you have to be vigilant!!  Seriously, his music speaks to so much on BN.

I listen to Becca's podcast, recent social media posts and interviews, and what comes to mind more than anything else is she reminds me of Jesse Csincsak. (Meaning Jesse Csincsak back then, as I have no idea of if and/or how he has evolved.)

I wish her well, but what I wish for her most is for her to leave LA and go home. I really think this girl needs to be home.

The Bachelor Season 25 Ep. 4 Recap with "Blake's Bachelorette" Becca Kufrin
https://podtail.com/podcast/behind-the-rose/the-bachelor-season-25-ep-4-recap-with-blake-s-bac/

Amberish wrote:I listen to Becca's podcast, recent social media posts and interviews, and what comes to mind more than anything else is she reminds me of Jesse Csincsak. (Meaning Jesse Csincsak back then, as I have no idea of if and/or how he has evolved.)

I wish her well, but what I wish for her most is for her to leave LA and go home. I really think this girl needs to be home.

Jesse C. married a former Bachelor contestant (I do remember her first name is Ann) - not sure who's season she was on - that he met at a BN event. They've been married a number of years & have 3(?) children. So it does seem like he has grown up & is doing well.