Bachelorette 16 - Clare Crawley & Tayshia Adams - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

This planet is in desperate need of love empathy and understanding.

How evil are you to threaten people, for what? Just because they don't like her. I'm so disgusted when I read things like that.

I'm not sure what Ashley S wants the franchise to do. It's gotten to the point where anyone can post whatever they want because they know there aren't any repercussions. IMHO they should be banned in whatever SM platform they are using for making threatening or stalking comments. Sadly the problem is within the person, that's the issue.

Yesterday on Reddit there was a clip from a podcast called Matty in the Morning titled Staying in NYC. I couldn’t find a link to bring over here but the host has a daughter who I think dated Dale and a friend of his daughter’s who also knows Dale ran into him in NY. Dale told her he was looking for a 2 bedroom place in NYC. So, he looks to be staying in NYC.

@gabriele thanks for the info.

If they are still together I wouldn't expect Clare to move so I can see the long distance relationship for awhile. Maybe he's getting a bigger place for when Clare visits.

I think that you can criticize certain actions that Clare has taken on fan sites like this one (i.e. I've been very vocal here that I don't think she's treated the men on her cast well at all.) It's another matter altogether to say truly awful things about her, to doxx her, or to criticize or bully her on her own social media. It's not just Bachelor Nation, it's everywhere. For instance, there are lots of subreddits devoted to documenting the poor behavior of people, especially in public (Choosing Beggars, IDontWorkHereLady, Entitled Parents, Tales from Retail, and many others.)

While there have always been bullies, it seems over the top lately. I think in some cases the people acting this way have mental health issues. In the majority of cases, who knows? Has there always been this much hateful behavior? I sincerely hope not. I remember at least once in the past of this issue of poor fan behavior being addressed on one of the Bachelor franchise shows, and it seems that it needs to be addressed again.

Clare may not be my favorite Bachelorette ever, but she's given us a very interesting season with much to discuss. If she is able to find happiness with Dale, more power to her.

ETA: I appreciate that the mods of this site maintain a space where we can discuss things and disagree with each other in a mature and respectful manner.

I read on Reddit that bachelorette des and Deanna had a talk it is on des ig Deanna said the episode was heavily edited the reason Clare cancelled the group date   because it was going to  be talking about women's vaginas some kind of game and Clare did not want to put the guys through that especially after the dodgeball date. Des said the lead does not know what they are doing on dates only learn 1 hour before and they do not have any say on what happens on the dates

timfan wrote:I read on Reddit that bachelorette des and Deanna had a talk it is on des ig Deanna said the episode was heavily edited the reason Clare cancelled the group date   because it was going to  be talking about women's vaginas some kind of game and Clare did not want to put the guys through that especially after the dodgeball date. Des said the lead does not know what they are doing on dates only learn 1 hour before and they do not have any say on what happens on the dates

If that is true, then I can see Clare's reasoning. However I still believe that the cancellation of that group date was when the men started to lose trust in Clare. If she cancelled that date for the stated reasons, IMO it was extra incumbent on her to make the men feel valued during the evening portion of the date, and she markedly did not do that.

' Amethyst wrote:

timfan wrote:I read on Reddit that bachelorette des and Deanna had a talk it is on des ig Deanna said the episode was heavily edited the reason Clare cancelled the group date   because it was going to  be talking about women's vaginas some kind of game and Clare did not want to put the guys through that especially after the dodgeball date. Des said the lead does not know what they are doing on dates only learn 1 hour before and they do not have any say on what happens on the dates

If that is true, then I can see Clare's reasoning. However I still believe that the cancellation of that group date was when the men started to lose trust in Clare. If she cancelled that date for the stated reasons, IMO it was extra incumbent on her to make the men feel valued during the evening portion of the date, and she markedly did not do that.

Agreed!  I would cancel that date but then come up with something even if it’s a basketball Game  or something.  She could have done more

I just noticed Demar posted that he’ll be gone for the rest of the week on an ig story he posted 11 hours ago.

https://instagram.com/stories/djfromsocal/2433741294704292602?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=oim7qv2wgbro

Dahling wrote:I just noticed Demar posted that he’ll be gone for the rest of the week on an ig story he posted 11 hours ago.

https://instagram.com/stories/djfromsocal/2433741294704292602?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=oim7qv2wgbro

I just noticed on Demar’s IG he has a masters degree. Clare really did get a good group of guys. I’d like to see more of Demar onscreen. He seems like he has such a great energy about him.

Major announcement coming at the top of the hour! #TheBachelorette

— Mike Fleiss (@fleissmeister) November 3, 2020

https://twitter.com/fleissmeister/status/1323643245902012417?s=20

False alarm as usual. It's a political tweet.

@albean99

He's so annoying and yet I fall for it like Lucy with the football and poor Charlie Brown.